Ukuxhatshazwa kwabasetyhini yenye yeengxaki eziye zaqwalaselwa iminyaka emininzi edlulileyo. Kodwa yintoni na ukunyaniseka kwaye ngaba le meko iqhelekileyo yabasetyhini?
Iimbalwa ezimbalwa ezivela kwimbali
Ngesihlandlo sokuqala, ugqirha oyingqungquthela uHippocrates wayebandakanyekile ekufundeni i-hysteria, othe wachaza le ngqungquthela esuka kwisiLatini igama elithi "isisu", oku kuthetha "isizalo". Ngokutsho kukaHippocrates, isisu sishukunyiswa kumzi wesetyhini kwaye sibambelele kwizitho, kubangela iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo nezifo zesifo.
Kodwa ingcamango ephambili ye-hysteria yasebenza, eqinisweni, kwi-century ye-20. Izifundo zakhe zijongene noFreud, uJung. Ngaphezu koko, phantse zonke iingcali ezibandakanyekayo ekufundweni kwengqondo yabantu zanikeza inxalenye yobomi babo ekufundeni i-hysteria, kodwa babengenakucacisa ingxaki.
I-Hysteria: ingcono okanye imbi?
Nanamhlanje, zonke iingcali zithatha i-hysteria ngendlela yakhe. Ngoko ke, abanye babecinga nje ngolu hlobo njengendlela yokuphambuka kwimiqathango, kodwa uninzi lwabaphandi luye lwafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba le nto ifumanekile.
Okubaluleke ngakumbi ukubonakaliswa kwemvakalelo yabasetyhini, ababuthathaka kakhulu kunamadoda ngokwenyama, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kufuneka babe namanye amathuba okuchaphazela imo. Ukuphendula ngale ndlela kudala ukuvakalelwa kukuba phambi kwethu ngumfazi okhethekileyo onobuqu bakhe, onokukwazi ukuthintela kuphela imo, kodwa nokuguqula imeko yakhe.
Kwiimeko ziphi na ukuhlaziywa kubonakala?
Ukufunda nge-hysterical kubalulekile ukuba uqale sdetstva. Kuyekelela ukuba yonke inyane, kungakhathaliseki ukuba isini, inomntu obizwa ngokuba yi-hysterical reaction mechanism, eyamvumela ukuba azivumelanise ngokukhawuleza kwimeko kwaye uyifunde ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukufumana ixabiso elikhulu lolwazi. Kuyinto yokuxhaswa ngenye yeendlela ezinika abantwana ithuba lokufumana nokuqhuba iminyaka engama-7 enolwazi olunokuthi umntu angakwazi ukunqoba ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-7 de ukuphela kobomi.
Kuyabasetyhini, indlela yokuphendula i-hysterical ivumela, okokuqala, ukwazi umhlaba jikelele ngaphandle kokuqonda kwayo. Ukuba ulwazi luhamba ngokuqonda, ibhinqa liqala ukuyihlalutya, ngoko ulwazi lufumaneka kwivolumu encinci. Yingakho i-hysteria ayiyiyo intsholongwane okanye isifo sesifo se-system.
Ewe, ininzi idla ngokuxhomekeka kwiimeko zemihla ngemihla, sithi le nto okanye loo nto ibhinqa ngumntu onobuhlungu, ongumntu osengqondweni ongakwazi ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza kwimeko aze aphumelele nezinye iindlela ezibuhlungu. Ngokukodwa iingxelo ezinjalo esizivelayo kulabo abone indlela umfazi abonisa ngayo iimvakalelo zakhe.
Kodwa ukuba ukhangele le meko ukusuka kwelinye icala, kuvela ukuba ukunyaniseka - oku kuyingxenye yowesifazane ngamnye, ngaphandle kokuba kunzima ukubeka phakathi kwababameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo.
Ngaba ubona kungenangqiqo, ungakwazi ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakho kuluntu, ngabafazi, abaye bahlupheka ngenxa yale nto? Inyaniso kukuba, ahluke kakhulu kumadoda.
Kuvela ukuba amanqaku e-hysterical kumlingiswa - kufana nokwahlukana kobuntu, okuvumela ukuba ibhinqa libe nefuthe elifanelekileyo kwimimandla ngokubanzi, kunye namadoda athile.
Kukho imbono yokuba ebukumkanini bezilwanyana kukho izinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-pheromones, ezenza abantu abanesini esahlukileyo. I-zhemehanizmom enjalo kwimvelo ingabonwa njenge-hysteria, efana ne-pheromone yerhafu, ekhangela ingqwalasela, isetyenziswa ngobuchule ekuxoxaneni nabanye.
Omnye umbuzo kukuba kukho abafazi abanjalo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye bengabalulekanga ngokucacileyo, bakhombise uhlobo lwabo lokuxhamla, kwaye ukuthetha kwabo kuba nzima kakhulu. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, i-hysteria iboniswa ngokukhawuleza, ngobumnene, ngoko ke inokudityaniswa nobungcali bentombi abenza abantu.
Qaphela ukuba ekuqaleni kwe-90 ye-hysteria yayingabandakanywa kwisigaba sezizwe ngezizwe, oko kuthetha ukuba kwanokuba umfazi okhutheleyo ochaphazelekayo kwimeko, uthathwa njengeyonyango elaneleyo. Ukuziqhelanisa kubonisa ukuba intombazana enomdla ngokukhawuleza inako ukudala umdla wokwenene kumadoda, ngelixa abantu abangenanto bayakufumana ubuncinci.