Ngoko, ziziphi iindlela zokuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi onokuzisebenzisa ngeli nqanaba? Qala nge-massage zezandla, eziza kunceda ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo i-tone ye-muscle: ukubetha iintendelezo ngokwayo kwisindululo esisetyhula, ukususela kwiziko kunye nokukhupha ukuya kwinqumfa yesithupha, uqondise ngomunwe ngamnye, ulibethe ngeenxa zonke, uhlambele ngokulula. Kuye umntwana wayenomdla, kwaye izifundo zathatha uhlobo lomdlalo omnandi, ungenza ezi zifundo phantsi kwe "Soroku-crow".
Emva kancinci, xa umntwana eqala ukwenza iinzame zokubamba into ethile, ngokuthe ngenye kwisandla ngasinye, faka i-taptle nge-handle handle ende. Ungakhathazeki ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kukhawuleza ukugcina ezintendeni zakhe ezincinci, kwaye akafuni ukuhlala esandleni sakhe. Ngexesha elide, umntwana uya kuqonda le lakhono, kwaye ke unokuyichukumisa umsebenzi - bonisa ukuba umntwana ngokwakhe sele esethatha ithoyizi ezandleni zakho. Lo msebenzi unzima kunzima, kuba awubandakanyi kuphela ukukwazi ukulawula ipeni kunye neminwe yakho, kodwa udibanisa ukuqonda kwendawo kunye nokukwazi ukugxila kwisifundo.
Emva kancinci, xa umntwana efunda ukuguqula kwisisu sakhe, unokumthenga okanye wenze umthamo ophuculweyo. Kulo mhlaba okhulayo ungasebenzisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezixhobo, iidibhoni, iifowuni, iifaki, iifake, iilasti. Kuya kuba lunomdla kumntwana ukuba anyuke kuloo mbhoxo, efunda izicubu ezahlukahlukeneyo ukuchukumisa kunye nombala, ukuchukumisa amaqhosha, ukuzama ukubamba idibhoni. Izinto ezikulo mbhoxo zingatshintshwa ngexesha, zongeze ezintsha kwaye zisuswe zidala kwaye zithande. Yaye xa umntwana wakho efunda ukuhamba, umbhoxo onjalo unokufonyelwa eludongeni ngaphezu kwendawo yokudlala okanye isikhalazo, esiza kuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba aqhubeke edlala ngokudlala okuthandayo kunye nokuthakazelisayo.
Kwakhona, unokwenza umntwana wakho ngumdlalo onjalo: uthele iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeesitya kwiimbiza, kwaye uvumele umntwana ukuba anganciphise umgca kwisitya ngasinye, ufunde i-contents kwi-touch. Ukuhambisa izityalo ezincinci, umntwana uhlakulela i-motility yeminwe, ufunda ukuthatha nokubamba izinto ezincinci. Ungakwazi ukulukhuphaza umsebenzi kwaye ugqibe emehlweni omntwana kwi-groats kwanamaphi amancinci (amaqhosha okanye iimali zemali, umzekelo), kwaye umntwana kufuneka azifumane. Musa nje ukushiya umntwana wakho ngexesha lemiidlalo enjalo engalindelekanga, kuba umntwana angagwinya izinto ezincinci!
Ukuba umntwana usukhulile kwaye sele ekwazi ukuthetha, unokubeka izinto ezininzi ezincinci kwisitya esincinci (i-casket, ibhokisi, intsimbi) oqinisekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi kakuhle (ezi zinto zingabakhonkco, iimali-mali, iikhoyili, intambo, i-clothespins) kwaye umemele ngamehlo avaliweyo ukuba ufike kwisihloko esisodwa kwaye uzive ngokuqiqa ukuba yintoni na into. Umntwana wakho uya kuthanda lo mdlalo. Kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho sele esele eyaziwayo ngeeleta kunye namanani, unokwenza ngokuthe ngenye indlela ubeke intendelezo yesithathu imifanekiso yesimo ngeenombolo okanye iileta, kwaye unikeze ithole, uhlole enye into engaziwayo, ukuba unjani uhlobo lomfanekiso onalo esandleni sakhe. Imisebenzi enjalo ayinakusiza kuphela ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, kodwa kwakhona kunceda ekuphuculeni ukukhumbula iinombolo kunye neelfabhethi.
Kuninzi imidlalo ekhethekileyo yeminwe kunye nentlawulo eyakhelwe kwi nyaniso yokuba ufunda isingqisho, kwaye umntwana okwangoku ubonisa iminwe kunye neepeni obiza ngazo. Okanye ubiza umnyana into, kwaye kufuneka uyibonise. Ngokomzekelo, "ukukhiya": umntwana ngexesha elifanayo uthabathe isibambo ngekhikhi. Okanye "iiglasi": umntwana kumabini omabini wenza izibonda ukusuka kwikhompyutheni kunye nezithupha, kwaye ubeka le mijikelezo emehlweni.
Kukho izinto ezininzi ezithintela ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi zeminwe neminwe encinci. Olu hlobo lweplastiki, ukudweba, ukudibanisa abaqulunqi, iipuzzle, njl. Kukho imidlalo ecacileyo yokuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezintle zezithuthi, ezifana 'nokubetha ithagethi' (umntwana udonsa umgca kwaye, ngaphandle kokuthatha izandla zakhe, kufuneka afike kwindawo ekujoliswe kuyo), edibanisa onke amanqaku ukuze athole umfanekiso. Iimidlalo ezininzi uzicingela ngokwakho, ngokusekelwe kwinto umntwana wakho akuthandayo. Ukuba le yinkwenkwana, kwaye uyayithanda imoto, khetha iimoto-abaguquli, eziza kuqokelelwa kwaye zidibaniswe. Ukuba le ntombazana, unokumnceda ukuba ancede ngemisebenzi yasendlini: unakekele izityalo zasendlini, coil uluhlu, unyuke i-croup, njalo njalo.
Ukwenziwa kwezi zifundo ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi kufuneka zichaneke ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba ubambisana nomntwana imihla ngemihla, uya kubona ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukunyakaza kwentana yakho kuhamba ngakumbi, kucaca, kulungelelaniswe rhoqo. Uya kugutywa ngokuzikhukhumeza, ukuba izolo umntwana wakho wayengenakuyibamba ngesandla sakhe esincinci, kodwa namhlanje uye wayibeka ngokuzithemba kwaye ezama ukuyihambisa kwelinye isundu. Yaye yintoni uvuyo kumntwana ukuba achithe ixesha kunye nomama okanye ubaba, kwaye aze adlale imidlalo edibanisayo eyamnceda ukuba azi yena ngokwakhe kunye nalo mhlaba omkhulu ngaphandle.