Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abazali ngokwabo banquma ukunyusa umntwana wabo. Ngokubanzi, zingaphi iintsapho - ezininzi iingcamango malunga nendlela efanelekileyo yokufundisa. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iifom eziqhelekileyo kunye neendlela zemfundo kwintsapho.
Iifom zemfundo
Imfundo nge "karoti kwaye ithambile". Abazali bafanele bakhumbule ukuba ukukhulisa umntwana, akufanele usebenzise ibhande, umemeza okanye usebenzise ukuhlaselwa. Umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala akaqondi izizathu zokumemeza, akaqapheli ukuba esi sihlwayo. Ngelo xesha kulungile ukusebenzisa i-angle. Ukuba ngaba abazali baqala ukusebenzisa ubundlobongela bemvelo, kuthetha ukuba abakwazi ukubonakalisa inyaniso kumntwana ngenye indlela, abanalo iingxabano ezi. Ukuba uhlala uhlwaya umntwana wakho ngebhanti okanye umemeza kuye, oko akuyi kubakhokelela ekuhle-umntwana uya kuqala ukuzonda abazali bakhe ngokuthula, kodwa akayi kuziva enetyala ngaye. Kwizemfundo, kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nomonde, zama ukufumana iingxabano zokubonisa ukuba ngenye indlela umntwana akalungile. Ukuxhamla, ngokweengcali, kusemgangathweni kuphela, ngoko umntwana uya kuhlakulela isimo sokuzigcina.
Imfundo "kwinqanaba elilinganayo". Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba xa uthetha nomntwana akufanele uvumele ukulahlwa kunye nokunye ukuphazamiseka kwamagama. Ukuba ungathethi naye ngolwimi oluqhelekileyo, kuya kukhokelela ekutheni intetho iphosakele okanye ingathethi. Ukususela kwiinyanga zokuqala umntwana kufuneka ave intetho efanelekileyo kwaye uya kufunda ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abazali kufuneka bancede umntwana ngokuziphatha, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kubalulekile ukuphepha ukulawula ngokupheleleyo. Konke oku kusebenza kumboniso womntwana-akuyimfuneko ukunyanzela umntwana ngokukhawuleza kombane, ukuba ngokukhawuleza uwela kwisikhumba; Akukufanelekile ukuqokelela amathoyizi ahlakazekile kuye, kuba kufuneka enze oko ngokwakhe - ngulo msebenzi wakhe.
Imfundo yeselula. Into ephambili ekufuneka ikhunjulwe kukuba abantwana abaselula bayama ukuzama ukuphepha ukugcinwa ngokweqile ngabazali babo. Kodwa kukufanelekile ukwabelana nokugcinwa kunye nokuqwalasela, kuba ingqwalasela umntwana ifuna kuphela. Umama ufuna ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo kumntwana wakhe, ukuze achaze kuye izinto ezinokuthi kwaye akufanele zenziwe. Ewe, ukuba ngaba ngaba ngabahlobo kumntwana ngeli xesha, uya kuxelela yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bakhe; Awukwazi ukulahlekelwa yintembelo yomntwana, ngaphandle koko akayi kuxoxisana kwaye, mhlawumbi, avaliwe.
Izindlela zemfundo
Izindlela zokukhulisa umntwana kwintsapho - le ndlela evumela ukuba ithintelo enenjongo engqondweni yakhe nasekuziphatheni kwayo kwinxalenye yabazali.
Ukholo
Le ndlela iyinkimbinkimbi. Sebenzisa ngokucopheleleyo nangokucokisekileyo: nawaphi na amagama, nokuba ngengozi, angayikholisa umntwana ngendlela ethile. Impembelelo enkulu kule ndlela ngumzekelo obonisiwe. Abantwana bathanda ukuxelisa abadala, ngakumbi abazali. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba abantwana abaxelisekanga kuphela imikhwa emihle, kodwa nemikhwa emibi.
Imfuneko
Ngaphandle kwendlela, akukho sikhuselo. Abazali benze iimfuno ezithile zomntwana omncinci. Ifom ephakamileyo yeemfuno ezinjalo ngumyalelo. Umyalelo kufuneka ukhankanywe ngezwi elizolileyo, elungeleleneyo, kodwa wenze njalo ngendlela yokuba umntwana engenayo ingcamango yokuba imfuneko ayinakuyenza. Awukwazi ukumemeza, ukuthukuthela nokukhathazeka.
UkuPhakanyiswa
Ukukhuthazwa kungabandakanywa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokusebenzisana, kubandakanywa ukuhamba ngokubambisana kunye nemidlalo, ukuvunywa, ukuthembela, ukudumisa kunye neemeko zemali. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iintsapho zisebenzisa ukuvunywa. Nangona ukuvunywa kungekhona ukudumisa, kukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wenza konke okulungileyo. Ukuziphatha komntwana kuchanekile kuphela, ngoko kufuneka ave ukuqinisekiswa kokuchaneka kwezenzo zakhe.
Dumisani
Udumise utitshala ubonisa ukwaneliseka ngezenzo nezenzo zomfundi. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba amagama endumiso ayidlala indima engafanelekanga. Oku kwenzeka xa umntwana edunyiswa ngokugqithiseleyo.
Sohlwaywa
Ukusebenza kwabo kuvele kuphela xa bengasetyenzisiweyo. Ngaphambi kokuba ujezise, kufuneka uchaze izizathu zolu nyathelo.