Umhlobo wam uthandana nomtyholi, unokumnceda njani?

Bathi uthando luyimfama. Kwaye akumangalisi, kuba xa sithandana, siqala ukuziphatha ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Indoda ethandwayo inokubonisa i-minus half half. Kwale meko, izalamane zifuna ngandlela-thile uncedo oluphosakeleyo ngothando aluyenzi nantoni na isicwenge. Abaninzi abaninzi bafazi baxhatshazwa ngabantu. Kodwa akuyena wonke umntu oqonda ukuba ukuziphatha komntu akuqhelekanga kwaye oku kufuneka kulwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana athanda kakhulu kangangokuthi akulungele ukuthethelela zonke izenzo, nokuba enye, eqinisweni, akukho nto iyalungisa. Ukuba ubona ukuba umhlobo wakho uwile kwiintonga ze-delpot, ngokuqhelekileyo ufuna ukukhanyisa ngandlela-thile kwaye umkhokele endleleni efanelekileyo. Kodwa yintoni into efanelekileyo ukuyenza ukuzisa iingcamango zakho kwintombazana enothando kwaye ungamguqula kumhlobo kwizitha ezibi kakhulu.


Hlehlisa

Ngesinye imeko, abaninzi banampazamo enkulu-baqala ukubeka uxinzelelo kumntu. Bakho ebunzini bathi loo mfana ulungile, ukuba uziphatha kakubi kwaye kufuneka ahlukaniswe. Kodwa esikhundleni sempendulo eyaneleyo, ngokukhawuleza bayeke ukuphendula kumsindo womhlobo onobubele okhusela umfana wakhe. Ukuze ungaphikisani nomhlobo, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokujonga kakuhle izinto. Okwangoku, intombi yakho ixhalabele. Akayiqondi into eyenzekayo kwaye akayiqondi ngokukodwa oko akwenzayo. Izidumbu ze-Ichirans ziyazi kakuhle indlela "yengqondo." Baqinisekisa ukuba amaxhoba athembekile ekungalungeni kwabo, ubuthathaka nokunye. Kodwa bazibeka emehlweni abo kwi-footestal. Oko kukuthi, okwangoku, intombi yakho icinga ukuba isoka lakhe liyinkosi. Uyaqiniseka ngokuchanekileyo kwayo yonke into ayithethayo kunye nesigqibo asithathileyo. Imikhwa yakhe yokuphanga, uvakalelwa njengesenzo esiqhelekileyo kwiimeko zethu zokungaphumeleli, okubonakala ngathi, ulwandle. Ngoko ke, ukuba uqala ukugxekisa umntu omncinci kwaye ubhekise ngokucacileyo ukuba uyintoni na, ukuba intombi yakho ibe ngumxhesho wangempela kunye nengqondo engqondweni. Uxhatshazwe ngumfana wakhe okhohlisa ukuba yonke into echasene naye ibonwa njengento yokuhlambalaza. Intombi yakho imthanda kakhulu umfana wayo, akafuni nje ukubona inyaniso. Yaye ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukumnceda, ungalokothi uthathe eli qhinga.

I-Pravda-uterus inokunqunyulwa kwabo bantu banemeko efanelekileyo. Ngelishwa, intombi yakho ayifanele. Isoka lakhe licinga kwaye lithetha ngaye. Yaye ukuba ubona kuwe intshaba yenkwenkwe yakhe, ngokuzenzekelayo uya kuba ngutshaba kuye. Nangona ubungabahlobo malunga neenyanga ezine, kuye akuthethi nto. Okwangoku, akayena mntu owaziyo. Khumbula ukuba abadeleli bazama ukuguqula umphefumlo wabo kumntu ofanelekileyo abaye bacinga ngawo. Kwaye abatshabalali baninzi banqwenela ukuba loo mfazi wayenaye kuphela, kuba ngenxa yeengxube zabo zangaphakathi bayesaba ukulahlekelwa yiyo. Ngoko kuya kwenzeka, i-despot ivele isetyenziswe ngumhlobo onxamnye nawe kwaye ukuba uziphatha ngokungazenzisiyo, ungayilahleka. Ngoko ke, endaweni yokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo, kungcono ukusebenzisa elinye iqhinga, eliya kukunceda intombazana ukuba ivule amehlo kwiimeko eziyinyani.

Le ndoda

Ukuze umhlobo wakho aqaphele ukuba ubani odibana naye, kufuneka adale iimeko apho aya kubona ulwahlulo phakathi kwamabhangqwana akhe aphangaleleyo kunye nomntu oyinyani, oqhelekileyo. Umhlobo wakho waqala ukuqonda into eyenzekayo, kufuneka ijikelezwe ngokuchanekileyo ngala madoda. Ngokwemvelo, kuyimfuneko yokwenza oku njengokungathi ngethuba kwaye ukhululekile. Ukuba uyakrokrela ukuba uzimisele ukwenza, akukho nto ingqubana. Intombazana ikwazi ukuthetha ngokuzenzekelayo malunga nomntu wonke, kuba kweli lizwe, isiqingatha sababashicili sihlala sichaza kubo malunga nento yonke, kwaye uya kwenza izigqibo zakhe aze amqinisekise ukuba ungumhlobo omubi kwaye uzame ukumthintela ekubeni yinxalenye. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukwenza ngokunyamekela. Zama nje i-zvatee kwinkampani, apho kukho abantu abaneleyo. Unokuxelela abahlobo bakho malunga nento eyenzekayo kwintombi yakho kwaye ubacele ukuba bancede. Awukwazi ukuthetha nto ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokuchanekileyo kwesigqibo esinjalo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba aba bantu abaselula babenomdla kwaye banomdla, oko kukuthi, ngokukhawuleza ukuba intombi yakho ifuna ukuchitha ixesha, nangona iimeko zombie. Inyaniso kukuba xa umntu edibana nabantu abatsha abanomdla kuye, akukho nto yokwenza ingqondo ayikwazi ukumisela umnqweno wokuthetha, ngokuba nakwili lizwe, intombi yakho ishiywe ngokunyanisekileyo emphefumlweni waloo mntu wayekade engaphambi kwakhe ukuba adibana naye . Udinga nje ukuyiqhubela kwiinkcukacha kwaye ubuncinane uhlalutyo oluncinane. Kuphela kufuneka uqaphele ngokukhawuleza: abantu abafanele baziphatha. Bamele benze ngendlela abahlala besenza ngayo. Oko kukuthi, abantu banokugxeka nokuvakalisa izimvo zabo, ezingavumelani nombono wakho womhlobo. Ewe, xa la madoda eyaziwayo kwintombazana, njengombono wabantu abasondeleyo, unokubuza, kodwa abahlobo abatsha bahlala bebonakala bechanekile kwaye bekhangele izinto.

Musa ukulibala ukuba injongo yakho ayiyikuphazamisa. Akunakufuneka wenze intombi intombi iyakuthandana nomnye wabahlobo bakho. Injongo yakho enye - ukubonisa ukuba aba bantu ba bhetele ngakumbi kunomtyholi wakhe. Ekujuleni komphefumlo, intombi ibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ihlasele kwizinto ezinjalo, kodwa zisoyika ukuthetha oku ngelizwi, kuba ziqinisekile ngokungaziphathi kakuhle kwazo. Bacinga ukuba bayisiphukuphuku kwaye umntu oqhelekileyo uyaziphatha kunye nabo kunye nesoka lakhe. Kodwa ukuba intombazana enjalo iya kuba nexesha elaneleyo lokuba neenkampani ezifanelekileyo ezihlonela uluvo lwakhe, zimphathe njengomntu, kwaye zingabi njengekhoboka, zimnike lonke ixesha kwaye lihlale linelungelo lokukhetha, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo intombazana iya kuqalisa ukuqonda ukuba kukho izinto ezenzeka ngothando lobuhlobo, a kunjalo. Kwaye kulo mzuzwana unqamle ukususa i-zombification, ukuqala ukuhlalutya, ukuthelekisa nokuthelekisa. Ngenxa yoko, malunga namathathu angamashumi asithoba anesithoba, ngaphandle kwekhulu u-uzhenshchin, amehlo avulekileyo kwaye adiliza ubudlelwane obungalunganga kunye nobuhlungu, kwaye emva koko babulela abahlobo-abahlobo ukuba bangabavumeli ukuba bahambe.