UMichael, ungatsho ukuba lo msebenzi wawudluliselwe kuwe ngelifa? Ngaba yayakhiwe kumgangatho wezofuzo? UMikhail Politseymako: Ndiza kuthethana ngezofuzo. Kuba ukuba uthatha inkwenkwe kwintsapho yomdlali kunye nokumthumelela intlanzi ukususela ebuntwaneni, uya kuba ngumlobi. Kwaye xa usoloko uhlala nabazali kwindlela yokutyelela, ubona i-theater kuphela, ukudubula kwaye akukho nto, ngoko, mhlawumbi, uya kuba ngumdlali. Kwaye ke akusiyo i-genetics, kodwa ijikeleze ukususela ebuntwaneni.
Ngoko, ukhetho lomsebenzi luthonyelwe yendalo?
MP: Ewe. Ngokomzekelo, andizange ndiphoqeleke ukuba ngumculi. Akukho. UPata akazange aqonde isizathu sokuba wandinike kwisikolo semathematika kwi-Academy ye-Pedagogical Sciences yase-USSR. Ndafunda apho kwaze kwaba yi-8 bakala kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyiqondi into endiyenzayo apho. Ngoko ke, ndiyakuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba xa usetyenziselwa umoya othile, awufuni ukungena kwenye into. Le nto inokubamba ebuntwaneni kwaye ingavumi ukuhamba. Kwaye oku kunokungaphumeleli. Ngenxa yokuba umsebenzi we-actor ngumendo obunzima kakhulu kunye nomsebenzi ozimeleyo. Akunakwenzeka ukwenza imali enkulu njengomdlali. Ubuncinane kwilizwe lethu.
Ngaba kuvela ukuba ukuba usebenze yi-buzz?
MP: Iyindlela yokuphila. Ndabona, kwakhona, kubantu abaya olwandle. Baqhoqhozela imihla ngemihla, kwiibophe ezindala ezihlambulula i-anchor, ukuphakamisa intanethi, ilanga, ukushisa ... kwaye awuyiqondi indlela enokwenzeka ngayo yonke ... Kodwa asetyenziswa kuyo. Njengeentlanzi ezisetyenziselwa ukuhlala emanzini, ngoko ndiqhelekile ukuba ndilandele imifanekiso okanye kuseti. Andiyithathi njengomsebenzi kwaye andikulindelanga ukuba iphele. Kwimi, umdlalo uyindlela yokuzibonakalisa, ukuphuma kwamandla kwinqanaba lomzimba ...
Kwaye ke yintoni echaphazela ukubunjwa komlingiswa?
I-MP: Ewe, yinto eyahlukileyo. Umntu ubeka, njengoko kubonakala kum, kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi. Kwaye, ngombono wam, ngaphambi kweminyaka emihlanu umntwana kufuneka aphile ngothando. Xa ndibona umama oxhaphaza umntwana ngesandla aze ameme, "Vuka, ndathi!", Ndicinga ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni kumntwana eneminyaka eyi-13-14. Andikwazi ukuwujonga ngokuzinzile. Ngenxa yokuba akayiqondi into abayifunayo kuye. Nangona mna ndihambelana nemfundo eqinile.
Ngaba upapa oqinileyo?
UMphathiswa: Hayi, andinakuyithetha ukuba ndiyomelele. Kunoko, zifuna. Mna, ngokubanzi, imisebenzi yamapapa ngenxa yengqesho yam ndiyithandi kakhulu. Enyanisweni, ndisandula kuphumla nomfazi wam uLarissa noMilenochkom kubahlobo kwi-dacha. Kwiintsuku ezine ndandingumntata-ngokwenene ndamnceda intombi yam, ndondla. Kwaye ngoko ngokuyinene uLara wam lonke ixesha naye.
Ngaba ushiywe wena njengomntwana? Ngubani owakhuphula uMikhail Polizeymako, umdlali onobugcisa obuninzi kulo lonke ilizwe?
I-MP: Ndineenqununu ezimbini. Kwaye, ezimbini zichasene. Unina kamama, ugogo uZhenya, bevela e-Alshvanga ubukhosi kwaye wayeyindoda enengqiqo. Yena, nangona wayephikisana nobawo, wathi kuye: "Mfana, ndiya kukubetha ngentonga ngoku." Unina kaPapina, uBaba Ida, wasebenza njengomseli wezobugcisa ubomi bakhe kwaye wayevela kwintsapho esebenzayo. Kwaye bahlala bephikisana ngokuveliswa kwam. Ngenxa yokuba omnye ugogo wathi: "Le nkwenkwe mayiyidle," kwaye yesibini: "Inkwenkwana ayifanele ibe yintlanzi." Ngokubanzi, njengoko ubona, ugogo othe wathi le nkwenkwe kufuneka idle iphumelele. Kwaye ndinomntwana omangalisayo - uVarvara Grigorievna Zaitseva, owayesakhula umntakwabo omkhulu uYura. Sasihlala sinomsindo, ubumnandi, uvulekile emoyeni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ndandithanda ixesha xa ndiba nabazali bam.
Ngaba ujeziswe ngenxa ye-antics okanye ubomi buhamba ngaphandle kwebhanti?
MP: Andizi ukuba ibhande linjani, mbulela uThixo! Andizange ndihlwaywe, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha ndatshutshiswa. Kodwa andingumntwana ophangiweyo. Ndikhumbule umzuzu omhle xa, eneminyaka engama-6 ubudala, ndavuka esihlalweni waza ndaqala ukuxelela umfazi u-Ida, owayengakwazi ukumelana nomlingane, ukuba ndiyazi amagama, kunye naye. Kwaye wagijima wamemeza wathi: "Thixo wam, uthetha ntoni! Kutheni ngoku uyenze nalo mntwana! ". Apha apha apha kwakuyi razvlekuha.
Ziziphi iinkumbulo zakho ezicacileyo zobuntwana?
MP: Kukho ezininzi. Kodwa okokuqala, idibene neendwendwe, Xa ndandineminyaka engama-5 ubudala, ndaya kwi-theatre eTaganka ukuya eTashkent. Ehlobo, inqabileyo yamnandi yamatonti avuthiweyo kwiindawo zokubhubha, ukushisa ... Ndiyakhumbula i-cruise kunye nobaba kunye noMark Rozovsky emkhombeni "iTaras Shevchenko" xa sasihamba ngomkhumbi sisuka eOdessa siye eCrimea. Kupholile! Izikhumbuzo ezifudumalayo zeKokbelbel, apho ndahlala khona zonke ihlobo ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-6 ukuya kwe-18. Ndiyakhumbula imisebenzi e-Taganka Theater, endiyibonayo kumaxesha angama-20-30 emva kweembonakalo ... O, ukubuyisela umntwana wam!
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana bayaqhayisa ngabazali babo. Ngaba uyaziqhayisa?
MP: Ndiqhubeka ukwenza oku ngoku. Ndinebazali abahlukile, ndiyaziqhenya kakhulu ngabo. Kwaye ndivuyiswa kukuba ndizelwe kule ntsapho.
Ngubani okhangeleka ngathi unjengokubonakala, ngokwemvelo?
UMphathiswa: Ngokuphathelele ukubonakala, ndixelelwe wonke umntu ukuba ndibukeka kakhulu njengomama. Umntu wam, kunoko, kabawo. Nangona, kungekhona, mhlawumbi, kusekho uhlobo lokuxuba kunye nonina.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba uphakanyiswe ngokufanelekileyo?
MP: Absolutely. Kwaye ukuphumelela ngundoqo kwindlela endikhulisayo kukuba ndinokuzixabisa ngokwenene. Ndizibukela kwisibuko kwaye andiyikuzichukumisa, kwaye, ngelo xesha, andinanto. Ndibona oko ndikubonayo. Nangona kunjalo, ebuntwaneni bam, kwakungekho na imeko apho kwakufuneka khona ukunqoba ubunzima. Kwaye oku kubi. Umzekelo, abantwana abaninzi banikwa imidlalo yangempela. Kwaye sele sele beneminyaka engama-12-13 ubudala bayazi ukuba kuyintoni ukusebenzela ukugqoka kunye nokulila.
Andizange ndikwazi oko. Ngoko ke, xa ndingena kwiziko, ngomnyaka wokuqala ndaqalisa ingxaki. Ubomi obonwabileyo, kwaye ngoku kuyimfuneko ukulima? Kwaye kwakunjengesihlangu entloko. Kwakhona ibhokisi ...
Ngendlela , yintoni eyakwenza ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kwiprojekthi ethi "UKumkani Wendandatho"? Ebomini, kwakungenalo ngokwaneleyo i-adrenaline?
UMphathiswa: Okokuqala, ndivuyisiwe kukuba ndamenywa kule midlalo yindoda, kwaye kungekhona uhlobo oluthile lwe-pop-pong. I-Adrenaline yilapho ungayazi ukuba yintoni, kwaye xa usuqala ukuqeqesha kwaye ufike kwi-snout kwaye uyayiqonda: kodwa yonke into inene ... Yiyo iimeko endingenayo. Ngenxa yoko, ndikholelwa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha abantwana kufuneka banikezwe ukuba bazive ukuba kunjani ukusebenzela ukugqoka kunye nokulila. Ndingathanda ukuya eMilka ukususela kwiminyaka engama-9 edlala ngethenti nokubhukuda kuze kube sekukhukhuleni kwesixhenxe. Yaye kunye nomqeqeshi owayenokumnika umthwalo. Abantwana kufuneka bafakwe kwangaphambili kwiimeko ezinjalo, apho bafuna ukuzimela ngokuzimela. Olu lukulungiselelo lobomi bokuba ngumntu omdala. Kwaye kufuneka ukuba.
Nguwuphi ummahluko oyintloko ekukhulisweni kwonyana nentombi?
IPhalamende: Abazali ngokubanzi baqala ngeminyaka emi-5-6. Nangona ndingenakuqabuka ukubona unyana wam emtshatweni wakhe wokuqala kuNikita, sele ndiqala ukumfundisa umgaqo-siseko wokuqeqesha: "uthe wenza". Ukuba ndakhe ndamcela ukuba enze into ethile, kwaye akazange akwenze, ndiya kumkhumbuza kwakhona kwaye ekugqibeleni, uyayiphulaphula izicelo zam. Ngelishwa, unomntwana onomdla. Ngokomzekelo, ngoku ndiyamgxeka ngokungabhinxi. Enyanisweni, kulula ukuba iibhotshi zinyanzelwa ngumntwana. Ndikhumbule ukuba oogogo banxibe njani ebuntwaneni bam, yaye kwandivusa kakhulu. Oku kufuneka kususwe ngokukhawuleza. Nantsi intombazana intombazana. Kodwa, ukuba wayedlala kakhulu, wayeya kuhlala entanyeni kayise kunye noyise, wasasaza izicathulo ezinqabileyo athi: "Ndilapha!". Andiyi kuvumela le nto nangayiphi indlela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akufuneki kubekho ukukhuliswa kwe-cadet, xa abantwana bezondayo abazali babo kwaye emva kweminyaka eyi-17-18 bonke bayichaza. Kodwa ndifuna abantwana baneminyaka engama-8 bahlambe izitya, balaphule abazali babo - ukuba upapa uthe ukukhupha udoti, kufuneka kukhishwe, kunye nemidlalo yekhompyutheni - akusiyo isizathu. Okokuthi, kufuneka siqale ngezinto ezinje abantwana abayaziyo ukuba ixesha lokukhulula kufuneka lifumane. Bonke aba banabo baseMoscow abaxhamliweyo, abaneminyaka engama-16 baya ku-"Ferrari" - kungekhona nje iigrans, kodwa i-double-sharps. Ku-25 badidekile ebomini, kuba banakho konke kwaye abananto yokuzama ...
Intombi yam inokukhululwa ngokukodwa kunyana wayo. Mna mna nomkami sinqabile ukufumana umntwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndiyayiqonda, iyimfashini. Kodwa kum kungothuswa xa owesifazane owaziwayo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokubeleka ususwe kumaphephancwadi, kwaye umntwana unikezela umntana wokunyusa, kunokuba ubisi lwebele, uyalondla ngemxube. Umama ongenayo ulungile. Kwixesha elizayo, oku kuza kwenzeka, kwaye ngenye indlela umntwana uya kuthi: "Mama, kodwa uhambe!".
ULarisa Polizemako: Enyanisweni, ndingumama onobudenge kwaye kunye nogogo ndihlala ndishiya intombi yam. Umntwana ngokuqhelekileyo ungumhambi endlwini. Kwamabali amaninzi amaninzi aboniswa kwiTV malunga nendlela abantwana abahlekisa ngayo abantwana. Emva koko umama nomntwana badibene! Ndiyakushiya i-crumb kunye nomntu kwaye ndihambe?
UMichael, wawukho ngexesha lokuzalwa. Yiliphi iqhinga eli? Ziziphi izinto ozibonayo? Ngaba akazange aphelelwe amandla? I-MP: Yayiyinqanaba lam. Ndifuna ngokwenene ukuxhasa umfazi wam intanda kunye nokuba naye. U-Emily "sazala" kwiCandelo lezoPilisi zePerinatal. Yaye isibini iya kuzalwa apho. Xa ukhona ekuzalweni komntwana wakho - akunakulibaleka ...
LP: Kwakungelula ukuba ndibelethe uMisha. Wayenami kumhla weentsuku ezili-1.5. Waye ediniwe kwindwendwe, kwaye ngokukhawuleza kum. Xa efika ewadi kwi-cap kunye nengubo yokugqoka, andizange ndimbone, ndacinga ukuba ugqirha omtsha wayengumhlobo othile. Ndikhangele, myeni wam! MP: Ndaqhubeka ndikhangela idivaysi, eyabonakalisa intshukumo yokulwa. Emva koko uMilkin wabona okokuqala. Kwaye wazalelwa waza wahlalisa. Ndandisoyika kakhulu! Ndibuza oogqirha: "Yonke into evamile?". Zizo: "Ewe." Kwaye xa bewukhupha umlomo kunye neempumlo kwi-mucus, kuphela ke ndive ukukhala kwentombi yam.
ULP: Misha wamthabatha ezandleni zakhe, yaye iinyembezi zaziqhayisa emathunzini akhe, iinyembezi zomntu. Ndabona umyeni wam ekhala okokuqala. Kwaye kwathinteka kwaye kuyamnandi! I-MP: Ndinezikhumbuzo ezintle zokuba zikhona ekuzalweni. Kwaye okwesibini siya kuzalana kunye neyesithathu. Ndiyakholwa ukuba kufuneka kubekho abaninzi abantwana. Ngoko ke, kwikamva elizayo ndiza kwakha indlu enkulu, apho wonke umntu eneendawo ezaneleyo.
Kutheni ubiza igama lakho intombi uEmilia?
UMphathiswa: Sinezinto ezimbini ezahlukileyo zegama-uSophia no-Emilia. Kodwa ke ndagqiba ekubeni ndiyeke okwesibini. Uyindoda, ndithandwa. Ukongezelela, amagama kaLarissa no-Emilia angamaGrike. Ngokwenene siGrike. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ukhangele igama elithi "Mile", isilayidi yokuqala "Mi" egameni likaMikhail, kunye neyesibini "La" - egameni likaLarissa. Ngoko ke si-Emilia Mihailovna Polizeimako ngomntu.
Ngubani othanda kakhulu? I-LP: Ngaphandle, ungumkhulu-omkhulu-ugogo-khulu, kwaye ufana noMisha ebuntwaneni bakhe. Kungekudala kwakukho ityala elihle. Umaster weza kuthi, ukhangela isithombe somntwana kaMisha esithi: "Oo, yintoni iMilya photogenic!". Kwaye ndithi: "Empeleni, lo ngubaba wethu." Nantsi into efana nale.
Uprofetela ntoni intombi yakho?
UMphathiswa: UMilya uthanda umculo kakhulu. Ngoko makhe sibone ukuba sinokholo xa sifuna ukudlala ipiyano. Ngokuqinisekileyo siya kufunda isiNgesi kwaye sizodlala i-tennis. Kwaye siya kubona. LP: Sithanda kwakhona uncwadi nentombazana yethu. Unako ukuchitha iiyure kunye nogogo ukujonga iincwadi. Ngoko ke intombazana enzulu.
Uvakalelwa njani ngeendlela zokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili?
MP: Ndiyakholwa ukuba umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka emi-5 ukuya ku-6 akakwazi ukulayishwa konke. Kumele ukuba abe nobuntwaba obumnandi. Yaye ukuba kukho ubuchule, kuya kubonakala. I-L.P: Ndichitha inyanga noMily kwisikolo sokuphuhliswa ngokubanzi, kwaye ukususela ngoSeptemba 1 siya kuhamba kwakhona. Uyayithanda kakhulu apho. Ngenxa yokuba ootitshala ngokusebenzisa umdlalo bahlakulela imbono yehlabathi.
Ngaba uya kuphazamisa ukhetho lomsebenzi wabantwana bakho?
MP: Akukho ndlela. Nangona inyaniso ndithi, ndiloyiva ukuva entombini yam ibinzana: "Utata, ndifuna ukuba ngumdlali weqonga." Olu luhambo olunzima kakhulu. Akunjalo wonke umntu uya kumela.
Ziziphi iimpawu zobuntu onokuthanda ukuba uMilla athathe kuwe, kwaye ziphi na kumama wakho?
LP: Ngokomntu, ndifuna ukuba abe nomlingiswa kaMishin. Uyihlo olungileyo!
M.P.: Ngoku sinokuzifihla ngokufihlakeleyo njengento esiyithandayo ngale nto, kodwa sele isele isimo sayo. ULarissa ngumama omangalisayo nomfazi, ngoko ndifuna ukuba uMila abe njengabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba intombazana yethu isoloko isithi "siyabonga" kwaye "siyabonga". Ukuba wayeyindoda elungileyo, kwaye oku kubandakanya izenzo. Abantwana, bahlale bebhetele kunabo bazali, ngoko kufuneka abe nomntu ongcono kunathi.