Ubomi bwanamhlanje buphulaphula ngokungahambi kakuhle iimbono ezicacileyo, kwaye asiyikutshatyalaliswa kukuba ngamanye amaxesha umcebisi oyintloko kwintsapho ngumfazi. Imali ayifumanayo, ngokuqinisekileyo, isombulula iingxaki ezininzi zobume boqoqosho. Kodwa ngelo xesha badala iingxaki ezintsha ezingenakulula ukuzilungisa.
Iidolologists kunye neengqondo zexesha elide babenomdla kumbuzo wento abafazi abacinga ngayo kunye nabavakalelwa ngayo, ngubani oye waba ngumgcini wesondlo esikhulu kwintsapho. Imali inikeza igunya, igunya, ukuzimela, isikhundla kuluntu. Ukufeza ezi ziphakamileyo zitshintsha ingqondo yengqondo yowesifazane ophumeleleyo kwishishini kunye nabahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo. Yilapho iingxaki ziqala khona.
Isimo 1 . "Iingqungquthela ezingaphezulu." Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi ophumelelayo emsebenzini uyanyanzelekile ukuba enze imisebenzi yakhe eqhelekileyo ngokugcwele, ngokungathi akazange asebenze nonke. Nangona amadoda ayamkela ngokungafuniyo ilungelo lomfazi ukuba azuze kunye nabo, kodwa ukuthatha umthwalo "wemisebenzi" yabasetyhini akukhawulezi. Ngenxa yoko, indlu iyinkangala, intaba yeitya zokungahlambulukanga, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi ezingathandekiyo. Kwaye apha, unamazinyo, ukhathele emva komsebenzi, phakathi kobusuku uhlamba indlu yangasese kwaye ngexesha elifanayo uzibuza ukuba kutheni, ngaphandle kwenkonzo, kufuneka wenze imisebenzi yasekhaya, ukuba ufumana imali engaphezulu kwendoda yakho, esele ibona iphupha lesithathu. Ibhinqa ayitholi kuphela inkxaso kunye no kunceda, kodwa akukho mbuyekezo yokuziphatha. Ukuhlambalaza kuqokelela, okukhula kukubhikisha kwangaphakathi. Ngenxa yoko, ubudlelwane bomtshato buyaphula.
Isimo 2. Akunamadoda amaninzi azuza kakuhle aya kufuna ukuqonda amandla omfazi, nokuba akafumani ncinane. Eli gunya lalo mfazi liloyikisa abamele abesini zesini. Indoda ngokwemvelo ilungiselwe ukuba ibe ngumnikeli. Eyona nto ingcono yokunceda yakhe intsapho, ikhuphe ngakumbi kwaye ihloniphekile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-getter-getter iyazibona "njengezimvu ezimnyama". Igunya lakhe kunye nokuzithemba kuhlupheka. Indoda iziva ikhululekile ngokubhekiselele kwintombazana enjalo, kwaye ibhinqa ivakalelwa ngobungqina bendawo yakhe. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba, ngokubanzi, le ngxaki ibandakanyeka kwabasetyhini abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-30. Abafazi besuka kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwe-30, abaxhatshazwa ngamalungu e-getter, baqonda ukuba ingxaki yesikhashana kwaye abazange bacebe ukuxhasa ngenkwenkwe yabo ngexesha elide. Okokuthi, abafazi ngokwabo abafuni ukuvuma ukudlala indima yomboneleli oyintloko kakhulu.
Isimo 3 . Indima yeyona ntloko yentsapho maxa wambi ingenakulinganiswa kumfazi. Uhlala ehlangabezana neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo, akakwazi ukulala ebusuku. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokugqithisa phantsi komthwalo wokuxhatshazwa kunye noxanduva, oluye lwaba luphawu lwabantu kuphela. Kwaye nangona kunjalo ukuba ininzi yemisebenzi yasemakhaya kunye nokunyamekelwa kwabantwana kusekho. Okuthakazelisayo kukuba, umthwalo onoxanduva lomfazi lowo uthatha, inzondelelo emancinci amadoda abonisa kwimizamo yabo yokufumana umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo. Ngokugqithiseleyo umfazi ulawula imeko, ukulawula okungakumbi kunxalenye yakhe kuvezwa ngumyeni wakhe. Ulwalamano lwentsapho luphinde lube lukhuni.
Isimo 4 . Imeko kwintsapho apho umfazi engumcebisi oyintloko udla ngokunyanzeliswa ngabanye, okokuqala, izalamane. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abafazi bazama ukujonga njengentsapho "eqhelekileyo" emehlweni abo, bagqiba isivumelwano esivumelanayo sokuba bangabandakanyi ukubaluleka okukhethekileyo kule nto baze bakhanyele amandla omfazi abanika yona ingeniso. Ngokomzekelo, amadoda afumana ngokulinganayo inani elifanayo njengowesifazane, ukuvakalisa esidlangalaleni ukuba umvuzo womfazi uya kubakho ukuthengwa okwesibini, okungeyomfuneko, kunye nokutya kwentsapho kukhishwe ngabo. Abasetyhini baninzi kakhulu kubava amaqabane abo ngokuxhomekeka kwemali, ngoko badlala kumadoda abo kwaye banciphisa indima yabo njenge-getter. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abasetyhini banamandla, ngenye indlela, bahamba baya emthunzini ukwenzela ukuba loo mntu abe namandla. Emehlweni abanye abanye abambini banokubheka njengenhlanhla, kodwa kuba kutheni ininzi yale mibutho iqhekeka?
Isimo 5 . Abaninzi abasetyhini, abayizona zondlo eziqinileyo kwintsapho, qaphela ukuba umzabalazo oqaqambileyo, kunye nemiphumo emibi kakhulu, iingqungquthela ezisegumbini. Indoda ibalekile ubudlelwane bezesondo ngenxa yokuba uvakalelwa ubuthathaka bezemali. Ufuna inkxaso yemoya, kodwa umfazi ufuna ukuxhaswa ngokwesini ukwenzela ukuba aqiniseke ukuba ukhangelekile. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba ubunzima bokuphila ngokwesondo buhlangene nomfazi. Ukuba uyazi kakuhle apho intsapho kufuneka ihambe eholide, yintoni emele idliwe ngokuhlwa kwasemini nendlela yokuchitha imali "yamahhala", unokuziva unjengomama kunomthandi. Yaye luhlobo luni lobuhlobo besondo oluqhelekileyo lunokwenzeka ngomntwana?
Isimo 6 . Isifo seMaternity. Umama kukuba i-crystal magic ebonisa umfazi ofumana ukuba ukugcinwa kwentsapho akukhethi. Abasetyhini abaninzi, emva kokubeletha, baphoqeleke ukuba babuyele emsebenzini, bafumanisa ukuba akunandaba nokuba bamthanda kangakanani. Konke oku akubalulekanga kubo njengomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awubuyelanga emsebenzini, intsapho ayiyi kuphila. Uninzi lwabazali abanomdla luphelile phantsi kwedyokhwe yobunzima bokudibanisa uxanduva olusemthethweni noluntu kwiinyanga zokuqala emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Ngenxa yoko, abanako ukuxolela umyeni ukuba umntwana uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala ngaphandle kwayo, kwaye igama lokuqala alizange lenziwe ngu "mama", kwaye ngovuyo oluthe xaxa le ntombazana igxina izandla kuye uyise, kwaye ingabi kuye, inyanzelekile ukungakwazi ukubonelela intsapho yendoda. kuninzi ukulahlekelwa ekukhulumisaneni nomntwana.
Ukucamngca kwesihloko
Wonke umfazi uyazikhethela indlela eya kukhetha. Naphezu kokubambisana kweendawo zabo, abaninzi abavukuzi ababesayi kufuna ubomi obuthile ngokuzimeleyo.
Kubavukuzi bebhinqa, kuya kuba lula ukungaqwalasela iingxelo ezingamkelekanga zabanye xa beziva ukuba amalungu entsapho abaqhenyce ngabo ngaphandle kokubakho.
Nangona kunjalo, kuyacaca ukuba abafazi bathanda umntu ukuba anyamekele.
Nangona ibhinqa liye laguqulela indima yomqeshwa kunye nesondlo kwintsapho, umntu akanakulindela ukuba indlela yokuphila entsha yentsapho iza kubakho ngokukhawuleza.
Ibhinqa elifaka isandla kwingonyama kubhajethi yentsapho ayiyi kuyaneliseka ukuba ayiyi kuphinda iphinde iqwalasele ishedyuli yayo, ifumana ixesha lokuthetha nomntwana, ayixhasi umyeni wakhe kwimizamo yakhe yokufumana ingeniso efanelekileyo, akayi kuzama ukuhlala ethemba naye.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo
Kukho nawuphi na, musa ukugxininisa ukuphakama kwakho. Umvuzo ophezulu awuniki ilungelo elinjalo. Musa ukutshutshiswa kwindoda, ungangeni kwingxoxo malunga nokuba ungakanani kwaye wenzani malunga nendlu. Inokwenzeka ukuba, "ukunganeliseki" kwakhe akukho mhlaba wangempela. Nguye kuphela indlela yokuzikhusela.
Musa ukwenza kumyeni wakho oko yena ngokwakhe angakwenza ngaphakathi kwendlu. Amashishini atshanje asebenza ngokuthe tye ahlakulela ubuqili kumyeni wabo, phambi kwakhe kunye nokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo. Abanalo umonde kunye nokuvumelana okuyimfuneko ukudibanisa kancane umyeni wakhe kwiinkxalabo zasekhaya. Indoda ngokwakhe ayiyi kubonisa iqhinga. Mcele ukuba akuncede. Musa ukuphelelwa ngumsindo xa umsebenzi ungenzi kakuhle okanye uhamba kancane. Hayi konke kanye.
Musa ukusola umyeni wakhe ngokuba nobuqili, ukuzingca, ukungaphumeleli. Nawaphi na amazwana akho aya kusetyenziswa njengesizathu sokuhlasela idilesi yakho. Oku kufuna umgaqo-nkqubo ofihlakeleyo.
Xa uqinisekile ukuba indoda inako, kodwa ingafuni ukufumana ngaphezulu, kungenangqiqo ukuyeka ukufumana imali. Oku kuya kumnyanzela umyeni wakhe ukuba "ahambe."
Ukuba umyeni uhlakulela izakhiwo, kunceda ukugxininisa (rhoqo kodwa engaqondakaliyo) ubunzima bakhe kwintsapho. "Kuhle kakhulu ukuba unayo," "Ngaphandle kwenkxaso yakho, andizange ndiphumelele ngempumelelo" Kulo mazwi emva komntu uya kukhula amaphiko. Kwaye kuphela ukuba uyaqonda ukuba izakhiwo zizinzulu kakhulu kwaye ukuhlaselwa komyeni kuthatha inkohlakalo, iifomu ezihlazo, inxalenye yalo, ukuze ungayi kuguqula ubomi bakho kwisihogo.
Ukwenza umyeni azive ekhululekile, faka yonke ingeniso kunye (le nto ingaba ibhokisi eliqhelekileyo, apho ngamnye umntu athatha imali). Xoxa ngazo zonke izinto zenkcitho, ukuthenga okukhulu. Shiya isamba ngasinye seendleko zendleko (eyakho inokuba ngaphezulu - idiphozithi).
Akuyimfuneko, ukukhukhumeza umyeni, ukufihla imilinganiselo eyiyo yomvuzo wakhe. Ubunokwenzeka bokubhengezwa bukhulu, obangela ingxaki enkulu.
Ungacinezeli kumlingane. Oku kudala kubangela ukuhlaziya. Ingxoxo kuphela, ingxoxo eyimfihlo iya kunceda ukuphepha iingxabano nokugcina uxolo kwintsapho.
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