Indlela yokuhlala ngaphandle?
Xa ufika phesheya, thengisa imephu yeso sixeko apho uza kuhlala khona, kwaye uyiphonye eludongeni. Oku kuya kunceda ngokukhawuleza kwindawo entsha. Fumana iklabhu okanye isikhungo senkcubeko yabantu basekhaya kunye ne-consulate yelizwe lakho. Ngubani oya kufundisa bonke ubulumko, indlela yokuhlala kwelinye ilizwe, njengengomnye umntu ohlala kulo mhlaba. Kukho abantu bakwamanye amazwe kwilizwe, bafune. Nangona umntu womnye umntu wakwamkela kakuhle, awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokuthintana nabantu bobuzwe bakho, ngaphandle kwentetho yomthonyama, kunye neeholide zesizwe kufuneka bhiyozelwe nomnye umntu.
Abahlali bangatholakala kwi-Intanethi. Ngokwemvelo, ulwimi kufuneka lufundwe kwangaphambili ngaphambi kokuhamba, kodwa ukuba alufundi, alukhathazeki. Xa uhlala ngolwimi lwangaphandle, kwiinyanga ezimbini okanye ezintathu uza kuba nokuthetha nabantu kwinqanaba lekhaya. Oku kunjalo nangona ungeke ukhangele kwisichazamazwi okanye kwincwadi yesifundo kwaye awuyi kuyenza ngokwakho. Kwaye kunye neprogram yecomputer yoqeqesho kunye nencwadi yesifundo, uza kuthetha ngenyanga, yonke into iya kuxhomekeka kwintshiseko yakho. Kungcono ukufunda ulwimi ngolwimi lwamazwe angaphandle. Ngeentsuku zokuqala, ungalandeli emva kokubonakala, uzama ukufunda ilizwe okanye isixeko "volley". Usuphelisa ngamandla akho, zombini nangokwengqondo, kuba ukufumanisa kunzima. Kuba nabani ofuna ukuhlala kude nekhaya, kukho igama eliphambili "ngokuthula." Ukuze sisebenzise, ngokwenene siqhele ilizwe langaphandle, sidinga inyanga, kungekhona iminyaka.
Ukuba uziva ungakhululekile, uhlazekile, okanye uqala ukuhlaselwa ngumsebenzi wabemi bendawo, ulwimi, umyalelo, ungawusiyiki, konke kuya kudlula. Ngoko kukho ukutshatyalaliswa, akunakunzima kwaye akulula. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba akukho mntu uya kulungelelanisa nawe. Kufuneka ukwamkele indlela yobomi bala bantu kunye neli lizwe njengoko kunjalo. Iqhinga eliphambili kakhulu eliyiphumeleleyo yinqwenela, inomdla. Uya kufunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyabuza kwaye ukhumbule ngaphezulu. Musa ukugweba nakwiingcamango zakho, kwaye nangakumbi, ngokuzwakalayo, ezinye izithethe zabantu, de uze uqonde ukuba kutheni kwenzeka.
Ngokomzekelo, kumazwe aseArabhu bathabatha ukutya kwabo. Ukuba udla isidlo sasemini kuMahamaan obamkelekileyo, musa ukulilazela imikhosi kwaye ungamcekisi, kuba izitya zasekhaya zaseMpumalanga zizonambitheka kakhulu. Mhlawumbi uya kufumana ukuba zikhona izinto ezingekho zibi kangangoko, kodwa zininzi ngakumbi.
Ngoku ngokutya. Kubantu abafudukela phesheya kwelinye ilizwe, ukutya kwabanye abantu kuba ngumvavanyo. Mhlawumbi nawe uya kulahleka iiladi zakho ezithandayo kunye nesobho, ukuba awufumani iimveliso ozifunayo. Funda ukulungelelanisa ukutya komnye umntu ekuthandayo, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthanda ukutya kwendawo. Kungenxa yokuba iimveliso ezisebenzisa abantu basekuhlaleni zihlala zibiza kwaye zibiza. Zama ufundeke. Ngokwenyaniso, ukuba uya kuphila, umzekelo, eJapan okanye eFransi, akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uguquke ube ngumJapan okanye umFrentshi. Akukho mntu ophumelelayo kulo, kwaye kutheni? Ziqhayisa ngokuthetha ngenkolo kunye nobuzwe bakho, ungabi neentloni malunga nokugxilwa kwakho, ungalumkisi ilizwe lakho, yiloo nto. Abo bazibamba njalo, uluntu lwaliphi na ilizwe liya kwamkela ngomdla kunye nenhlonipho.