Emva kokuqhuba udliwano-ndlebe, kwaziwa ukuba abaninzi abantu bavula iTV ukuze bakwazi ukuphumla okanye ixesha lokuphazamisa nantoni na. Iingcali ze-Psychophysiologists ziqinisekisa ukuba ngexesha lokubukela ngokuthe ngqo kweTV, ukuxhatshazwa okunene kuyaphula, kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa siyikhupha, yonke into iya kubuya kwinto eqhelekileyo, okanye ifike ngaphezu kwezinga lokuqala, kwinqanaba elithile.
Kwaye akumangalisi, ngelishwa, ukuba kwintsebenzo yobudlelwane beentsapho zenzeke ngexesha elide, indoda nomfazi bahamba kunye, ngenxa yokuba balahlekelwa ngumxhelo. Kwasekunye ebomini bam siye sava okanye sabona ukuba esi sibini sibukela i-TV kumagumbi ahlukeneyo okanye ngokunye. Akunaso imbonakalo eyintandokazi okanye ifilimu, kungekhona ukukhankanya nezinye izinto ezithandwayo. Kunqabile kakhulu ukuba iintsapho zidibeneyo xa abantu ababini abanothando bebukela iiprogram ndawonye, baxoxe nabo kamva. Kwaye kukho enye yezinto ezidibeneyo kwiintlalontle zentsapho. Emva koko, indoda kunye nomfazi kufuneka babe nezinto zokuzilibazisa eziqhelekileyo.
Kodwa le nyaniso ayinakunceda ekuxazululeni enye ingxaki ebalulekileyo ebhekiselelwe ekusebenziseni ixesha lokukhulula kwintsapho. Emva koko, ngokutsho kobungqina beengcaphephe, kwaziwa ukuba umsebenzi awugcini nje ngokuziphatha, kodwa nomsebenzi wokwenyama ungowabantu abathathu kuphela abasabelayo kwishumi, kwaye abaphenduli abane abayinto engaqhelekanga nakwixesha elide.
Ukunciphisa umqhubi wemoto kuthatha isongelo kwimpilo yomzimba yomntu kunye nengqondo yengqondo. Le nyaniso iphazamisekile iingcinga zehlabathi ukuba, ngenxa ye-World Health Organisation, kwaqaliswa umkhankaso okhuthaza imbono yentshukumo yempilo. Emva kwakho konke, oogqirha abaninzi beendlela ezahlukeneyo bakholelwa ukuba nje umsebenzi oqhelekileyo wokusebenza kunye nethuba lokunxibelelana nendalo yiyona nto inamandla kakhulu yokulwa neengcinezelo, zomtshato kunye nobomi ngokubanzi. Kwaye abo baqabane abenza ndawonye ukuhamba okunjalo, malunga neentsapho zengxabano kunye nama-scandals bavame ukuva nje kwabanye abantu.
Kulo hlobo lwezo lononophelo njengengxowanxu edibeneyo kwiikratshi ezinqamlekileyo, amahashe, ukukhwela i-skiing, amanzi, intaba kunye nokhenketho lokuhamba, kuyimvelo ukunika izibonelelo ezininzi zemali kunokuhamba okulula epakini okanye ekulobeni. Kodwa ixabiso labo kwiintsapho zobudlelwane ngokwabo lucacisiwe. Yaye ukuba intsapho inomntwana osetsheni, iintsapho zokuzonwabisa zikunceda ukujamelana neengxaki zentsha ngokukhawuleza nangempumelelo.
Ukudansa okubiniweyo kumaWestern yeyona nto inqabileyo yentsapho yokuzilibazisa. Isibini esitshatileyo esitshatileyo siya kutshintsha ngokukhawuleza oko kuthiwa "ukugaya" kulwalamano, kunye nezibini eziye zahlala kunye iminyaka emininzi kunye, kule ndawo, zifumana iimvakalelo zokuqala zentsapho.
Ukuqhagamshelana nezilwanyana ezifuywayo kunesidanga esinamandla kakhulu, emva kokuba imisebenzi ekhankanywe ngasentla ihambelana nomsebenzi wokwenyama. Izifundo ezininzi zibonisa ukuba unako ukunyamekela nabani na, kuquka nezilwanyana zasekhaya, phakathi kwezizathu eziphambili zokuphila.
Ukuqwalasela ngesihloko esithi "Umyeni nomfazi: iimfuno eziqhelekileyo", sinokugxininisa imeko embi kakhulu, enokuthi ithintele ekuhlaleni kwintsapho. Into enjalo idlaliswa yimidlalo yentsapho, ebandakanya imidlalo kuphela.
Ngokomzekelo, iintsapho zaseMerika ziya kwii-training ezizodwa apho zichanekileyo zikhetha umdlalo ofanelwe intsapho yabo ngaphezu kwabanye. Iingcali zengqondo ziye zachonga umzuzu onomdla wokuba bonke abantu kufuneka bafundiswe ukudlala. Oku kusebenza kubantwana nakubantu abadala, kuba abantwana abazi ukuba njani, kwaye abadala abakwazi ukukwenza. Emva koko, nayiphi na into yokuzilibazisa kunye nokuzilibazisa kufuneka kube nefuthe elithile. Lapha kuqeqesho olunjalo izibini zibafumana.
Enye inketho yokuzonwabisa kwentsapho kukutyelela iminyuziyamu. Kodwa, ngelishwa, unyaka ngamnye iinani lezibini ezitshatileyo ezenza iintsapho ziye kwiimyuziyam kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, ngokuncipha ngakumbi. Abaphenduli abaye bathatha inxaxheba kwenye yezifundo bavuma ukuba kuphela iipesenti ezilishumi kubo baye bavakashela iimyuziyam kwiminyaka emihlanu edluleyo. Kwaye i-70 ekhulwini yabaphenduli bathi bangathanda ukufaka abantwana babo uthando lobugcisa, kodwa konke akwanele ngeli xesha.
Ngokufanayo, izibini ezitshatileyo azidingeki ukuba zixhomekeke kule ngxaki, ingxaki yezinto ezithandwayo. Kakade, akufuneki ukulibala malunga nalo. Yonke ilungu lentsapho, ngaphandle kobonke, kufuneka libe neyakhe, yokuzilibazisa. Emva kwakho konke, umzekelo, ibhoksi yowesifazane ayiyona into ayiphuphayo ngayo, okanye yenza imiziki yaseMpumalanga kumntu-ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kungekhona oko ugqirha obekwe khona.
Ewe, ukuba indoda iya kudoba okanye ukuzingela, kwaye umfazi uhlala ekhaya kwaye uhlambulula, oku akuyi kuba nefuthe ngokukhethekileyo kwiintsapho zentsapho. Umyeni nomfazi kufuneka babe neenjongo eziqhelekileyo, ngaphandle koko baya kutshutshiswa ngalo mmahluko. Kodwa, ukuba ngeli xesha uya kuqeqesho kwiiklasi okanye ukudweba, ngoko umgangatho wokuvisisana nokuthula kwengqondo kwintsapho kuqinisekisiwe ukwandisa.