Isimboli sokungabamsulwa
Ngoko, isicelo sithunyelwe kwi-ofisi yeRejista, kwaye sazisa isihlobo esilandelayo malunga nesiganeko esizayo. Yintoni eqalise apha ... Inkqubo iye yaqhubela phambili ukuze singakwazi ukuyibuyisela ngokunyanisekileyo: iziphakamiso ezingenakucingelwayo kunye nezizathu zokucinga zawa kwiintsapho zazo. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba sixoxwe kwaye senzelwe, ngoku ngokuncedwa ngabamama, ootata, oomama, oomama, njl., Baye kwizenzo ezithile!
Umtshato ongalibalekiyo umfazi wamanje uqale ngokukhangela ingubo. Yintoni oyikhethayo? Ndibeka izimo: okokuqala, ingubo ayiyi kuba mhlophe, i-cream okanye i-champagne, kwaye okwesibini, akukho mkhusane: ayikho mfutshane, ayiqhelekanga, kwaye ayikho ixesha elide, mna "ngumqondiso wokungabi namacala"! Ndikhethile loo nto kunye nomyeni wam (nangona kunjalo amabango ukuba oku kubi kakubi). Sifike kwi-salon yokuqala yomtshato endleleni yethu, kwaye ndakhetha ingubo endiyithandayo ngokukhawuleza: kwakuyimibala yegolide ekhanyayo kunye neengubo ezimnandi kwi-skirt kunye ne-mini train. Emva koko ndacinga ukuba ndizame kwiveli, ndandiyincinane "yaphuka", kodwa yavuma - yayimnandi kakhulu kwaye yayifaneleke kakhulu ukuba igqoke, kwaye ke iingubo zokubaluleka kwekhanda zafunyanwa. Ngoko, ndandikulungele ukuya kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa.
Kwaye ke, kwengubo yomtshato kunye neenwele ezimnandi kunye nesigqubuthelo entlokweni yam ndilindele ukuba ndiyithande. UTamada, ngaphambi kokuba aphume ukuza kumhlangabeza umyeni kunye "nabazalwana" bakhe, wakwazi ukumemeza esithi: "Hayi, hamba esihlalweni!" UThixo, uyintoni isihlalo, kutheni kufanele sibe ngusihlalo? UNowa wamthobela. Umyeni wam oswele wayedidekile - wangena egumbini waza wema endaweni yokungena kum kwaye "ukukhulula", kwafuneka nditsho ngokuthe ngqo ukuba wandithatha, umfazi wakhe ozayo, esihlalweni. Emva kokuba siphuze i-champagne, sasiphuma ngokusemthethweni endlwini, kuba sasisele sihamba. Ngethuba lo mzobo, ndandiphazamiseka kwaye ndingakwazi ukugxininisa, ndazama ukuphulaphula oko umqeshwa weofisi yokubhalisa esasitshela yona, kodwa iingcamango zam zihlala zinyamalale ndawo, kulungile ukuba umbuzo oxabisekileyo "Ngaba uyavuma?" Unayo ixesha lokuva nokuphendula ngokuthe tye.
Xa sasisayina kwaye satshintshela iindandatho, umzuzu kanye apho "izihlobo ezililayo" beza kuvuyisana nathi. Emva koko ndaqonda ukuba yonke le ngxabano yayingenanto, kuba le mzuzu kwakudingeka ukuba ugqoke ingubo, efana nekhekhe, isigqubuthelo kunye nokunyamezela ukuvavanya nezicathulo eziphezulu. Okwenzekayo kwakufana nephupha: ukukhwela ngeenxa zonke kwisixeko, ukudansa, ukuvuyisana, ukuncoma, iintyatyambo, izipho - kwaye zonke zaphela ngo-4 ekuseni.
Uphawu lothando kunye nemvume
"Yintoni eyatshintsha emva komtshato?" - abaninzi bam bahlobo bam babuza. Ndiyakwazi ukuphendula! Lo mbuzo kuphela oku kulandelayo: akukho nto iya kutshintsha ukuba ngaba isibini asikho isidingo sokuqinisekisa ubuhlobo babo. Siphila ngexesha apho abantu bezama ukwenza lula izinto ezibalulekileyo njengentsapho, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo, wonke umntu uxabisa ukuzimela, inkululeko, kwaye uThixo akavumelekanga, ukuba umntu unxibelele kule nkululeko. Ndakhuliswe ngokwemigaqo "endala": Ndimele ndibe ngumfazi, kungekhona intombazana edibana naye kunye nexesha lokuphila kunye, kwaye ke, ukuba "asihambisani nabalinganiswa", mhlawumbi sinokuthi sinxalenye.
Ndiyakwazi ukuthetha ukuba kuyamnandi xa bebiza ngokuthi "intombazana yam" kodwa umfazi wam, kuyinto enhle ukuyibona ngomunwe wesandla sakho sokunene isandi - "uphawu lothando nokuvisisana", kukuthabatha ukuthwala igama lomyeni kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kulungile ukubona izihlobo ezonwabileyo ezazikulindela kulo mzuzwana kwaye siyavuya nathi!
Umda omtsha
Umcimbi womtshato ubaluleke kakhulu. Ngulo mfanekiso wolu phawu oluhlukana nolutsha olungenasiphako oluxanduva lokukhula. Umntu uthatha ukuthanda, ukuxabisa nokuhlala ethembekile kumntu obophelela kuyo. Ngokuzisa esi sifungo kuye nakwabo abasemtshatweni kwiintsapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe, umntu uguqula isimo sengqondo sakhe sangaphakathi, uthatha uxanduva olutsha ebantwini babaluleka kuye ukuba uya kuphendulwa njani xa ephula umthetho wesifungo. Emva koko, umtshato uyinkampani yentlalontle, kwaye ukubaluleka komcimbi womtshato kwiindlela ezininzi kunomdla woluntu.
Umbono oqhelekileyo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela umtshato: ukuthunga okanye ukuthenga ingubo yomtshakazi, ukhetha indawo yokubhiyozela, ukuhlanganisa uluhlu lweendwendwe. Le yinkqubo ethatha ixesha kwaye isicubungula injongo yayo.
Ukuxoxa ngemiba yemihla ngemihla, umyeni kunye nomtshakazi basetyenzisane, zama ukuveza uluvo olufanayo, isisombululo esifanayo semibandela, eyona hlobo lendawo yokuhlala kwintsapho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, imemori yemibhiyozo yomtshato igcinwa iminyaka emininzi, kwaye xa abantwana abazalwa kulo mtshato bekhula, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bazi ukuba "kwakunjani" nomama noyise.