Ungayifumana njani umdlalo onomdla? Eli nqaku libonisa izicwangciso ezimbini zokukhangela umdlalo, ngamnye ongenalo kuphela ilungelo lokuphila, kodwa uya kunika ulwazi oluninzi noluncedo. Ukubasebenzisa, unokukwazi kakuhle ngokwakho, ukuphucula ukukhangela kwakho kwaye ube ngumntu onomdla kakhulu emva koko, onomdla ukuthetha naye kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ukujongana naye. Kwaye oku kuza kukunika ubuninzi obukhulu ebomini bakho bomntu, umsebenzi kunye nezinye iindawo zobomi.
- Zonke iiveki ezitsha (inyanga) ziqala ukuqonda i-hobby entsha. Khetha okukhethiweyo ngengozi - umzekelo, ukupheka ngokungaqhelekanga kwiphephandaba ngomunwe wakho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthatha imisebenzi enjalo, enoba awuyi kucinga ukuba ngelinye ilanga uya kuba njengokwenza. Ngale ndlela ukwandisa imida yakho kwaye unokufumana iitalente ezingalindelekanga.
Injongo yale ndlela kukuba usebenza into entsha ngeveki (inyanga), ungayeki izinto zokuzonwabisa ezidala. Kule meko, yonke iveki, uzama ngokunyanisekileyo ukunyuswa kunye nale shishini. Umlinganiselo omncinci wesabelo kukuba unako ukugcina ingxoxo kwesi sihloko. Emva kokuzibuza umbuzo - ufuna ukuqhubeka ukwenza oku? Ukuba impendulo ngu "ewe" qhubeka. Ukuba "akukho" - qalisa entsha.
Ngaloo ndlela, ngethuba lonyaka unokuzama izinto ezininzi zokuzilibazisa uze ufumane into efanelekileyo. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ixesha elichithwe "kwizinto ezingenakulungeleleneyo" akulona nje ixesha lokuchitha. Isenzo esinjalo esiqhwithelayo siya kuphucula kakhulu ukukhupha kwakho kunye nomdla. Ukongezelela, unokwesekela kalula ingxoxo kuyo nayiphi na umkhankaso, apho uza kuthetha ngalo mdlalo wokuzonwabisa. Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uqhelane, kwaye ufumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu abahlukeneyo, kuba uya kuba nenani elikhulu leencoko zentetho.
- Cinga ngcamango ubomi bakho ngendlela yendlu.
Isiseko sabo ngabazali bakho, izalamane, abahlobo bamandulo kunye nexesha elidlulileyo elisekho nawe, lonke ulwazi lwakho, izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye neetalente.
Iindonga zendlu yintsapho yakho (indoda, umfazi, osebenza nabo, abahlobo), oku kungoku kunye neenjongo zakho eziphambili. Kumntu, iindonga aziyi kuba yintsapho, kodwa umsebenzi, ishishini okanye enye into. Nangona ungenayo intsapho okanye ishishini, cingela njalo.
Uphahla lwendlu luyikamva lakho (abantwana, ipensheni, ishishini elimiselweyo okanye i-akhawunti yebhanki). Oko kukuthi, yintoni eya kukukhusela kwaye ikhanyise ikamva lakho.
Emva koko, cinga ukuzaliswa kwangaphakathi kwendlu kunye nokuhlobisa kwangaphandle.
Umxholo wangaphakathi wendlu yakho yehlabathi ngokomoya kunye nemithwalo yengqondo oyifunayo ngexesha lobomi bakho. Ilayibrari yencwadi yiyo zonke iincwadi ozifundayo, ishedyuli eneedkski zonke iibhayisikobho ozibonayo njalo njalo.
Ukuhlobisa kwangaphandle kwindlu zonke izakhono zakho, izakhono nezenzo zokuzilibazisa. Le nto ungayibonisa okanye ukuxelela abantu. Zonke iimfuno zakho, iimpumelelo, umvuzo kunye nobuchule, oko kukuthi konke unokuziqhayisa ngako.
Emva koko, vavanya ngokwengqondo oko kulahlekileyo endlwini yamaphupha akho.
Okanye ucinga ukuba iphupha lakho liyomelele, yintsapho eyolo, indoda (umfazi) kunye neqela labantwana, kwaye ngoku unabantwana kuphela. Kule meko kuvela - unaso isiseko kwaye, mhlawumbi, ngaphakathi nomxholo wangaphandle, ohlala endlwini engenakho izindonga kunye nophahla kwisitelo esingenanto. Kule meko, imikhosi yakho kufuneka iqondiswe kumsebenzi kunye nezakhono eziza kukusondeza kwiinjongo, ikhaya lamaphupha akho. Le nto iya kuba yinto "yokuzilibazisa" yakho, umdlalo oza kukubamba.
Emva kwakho konke, uya kuvuma, kungenangqiqo ukubandakanya into engekho nje kuphela ehambelana neenjongo zakho, kodwa iphinda iphazamise ekuphumeleleni kwayo. Kwenzeka ngaloo ndlela, uziva ukuba ixesha lokufeza injongo liye kwaye kufuneka sihlanganisise yonke imikhosi ukuyifeza. Kwaye kunokuba ufezekise injongo ephambili, unelisekile ngokuxhomekeka kwayo, ukutshintshana ngokuthintela. Ubanike ubomi bonke ngeqela lezinto ezithandwayo. Ngoko ke, ukwenzela ukuba ungabonakali kwizinto eziyinyani, i-hobby imele ihlolwe rhoqo kwi-prism yesimo sayo sengqondo ekujoliswe kuyo. Ukuzilibazisa akufuneki ubuncinane ukuphazamisa ubomi bakho kwaye akukho mfuneko ukuba ubeke izinto ezintle njengezentsapho kunye nokunye.
Ukuqwashiswa kwenjongo sele kuseyinyathelo elikhulu ekuphunyezweni kwayo. Izinto zokuzilibazisa azihlali zihlala zihlala ezindongeni zendlu. Ukuzilibazisa kwakho kunokuba yimali okanye izitena, apho uza kwakha intsapho yakho, oko kukuthi, izindonga zendlu. Ngokomzekelo, unokuthi uphuthwe yingqondo yezobudlelwane beentsapho, kwaye uqale ukuphucula izakhono zokuthandana nokuthetha ngesini esahlukileyo. Ndikholelwe, kulo mzila kukho amawaka emimiselo enokuyifumana kwaye uyayicinga. Ukufunda le ndawo, uya kwenza konke okusemandleni endleleni yokwakha ubudlelwane obuqilileyo, kunokuba uhambe ngokuhamba kwindlela yokuphila.
Uninzi lwabantu lukholelwa ukuba bayazi konke malunga nobudlelwane nobomi bentsapho. Bacinga njalo - xa ndidibana nomphefumlo wam, omnye uya kulungeleka ngendlela efanelekileyo. Okwangoku, ubudlelwane bexesha elide obangela isiseko sobomi bentsapho kufuna umsebenzi oqhubekayo kunye nokuphucula izakhono zabo.
Xa ufumana uqeqesho okanye i-hobby enokucinga ukuba idibanisa inxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho, udla ngokucwangcisa ukuqonda zonke izakhono zobuchule nolwazi. Ubomi bentsapho, kunye nolwalamano olude, lifuna ukunakwa okufanayo. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukudala intsapho eqinile, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukunyanga oku njengomsebenzi onzima kunye nobunzima. Ndikholelwe, kubungcali bakho kulo mbandela, kuya kubakho ininzi ekuxhomekeke kuyo. Musa ukuvumela izinto ezinjalo zihambe ngokwazo.
Ezi zicwangciso zokukhangela ezimbini zokuzilibazisa zingasetyenziswa kunye. Isicwangciso sesibini sisivumela ukuba sinciphise ububanzi bokukhangela, senze ngakumbi ngakumbi kwaye sijoliswe. Isicwangciso sokuqala siyakukuvumela ukuba ufumane indawo yokuzonwabisa ngokukhawuleza, ngendlela engaqhelekanga, kunye nolwazi oluqhelekileyo lwexesha lokuzonwabisa.