Uphi na indlela yokufumana ugqozi?

Kubonakala ngathi lo mbuzo ubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abanezakhono zobugcisa - iibongozi, abaculi ... Kodwa nakweyiphi enye imisebenzi, ngaphandle kwesixa esithile sokuphefumlelwa awukwazi ukuyenza-kwaye umgangatho ungasuswa ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo, kwaye umphumo womsebenzi uya kuxhomekeka kwimoya. Kwaye uza kubona okokuqala umphumo kuwe. Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba nangona isiphumo esihle (isini esicocekileyo okanye imbongo ebhaliweyo) ingaqondwa ngokunyaniseka ("Hayi ke mna!"), Kunye nehlazo ("Ekugqibeleni ndayigqiba lo msebenzi onyanyekayo, indlela endikhathazayo ngayo ...") ukuphefumlelwa kwabantu basebenzi bokudala kuthathwa-kubalulekile ukubabuza, kwaye kubonakala ngathi "ayithathi", kodwa iyazithoba. Kungokuthi umntu akakwazi ukubhala ngeli xesha le nkondlo, umfanekiso, njl. Ngokuqhelekileyo, "abantu basemhlabeni," ngokuqhelekileyo kufuneka basebenze, nokuba yintoni na lo msebenzi wawungekho. Uhlala ufuna isidlo sesonka, umgangatho ococekileyo, isitya esiphunga ... Kodwa ukuphefumlelwa akusoloko kukho!

Singafumana phi lo phefumlelweyo, xa kuyimfuneko yokwenza ibhizinisi lethu, kodwa akukho, kakuhle, akukho mnqweno wokwenza nje oko kufunwa ngoku? Akukho mnqweno kungekhona ngenxa yobuvila, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba akukho mvakalelo, kodwa ngokungazi nje ukuba ungayi ngaphantsi kweli, mhlawumbi kwinto eqhelekileyo, imisebenzi?

Into yokuqala ofuna ukuyilungisa. Ungazami ukuzalisekisa okuyimfuneko ngokunyanzela, phantse ngezinyembezi nohlazo, kodwa hlala uphinde ucinge ngalo msebenzi, malunga nesiphumo esiza kuzisa ngokuvuyela kwesi siphumo. Khumbula indlela oyenze ngayo ngaphambili, kuba xa wenzeni ngenjabulo! Okanye unomdla ngokusebenzisa iziphumo zalo msebenzi, ezenziwa ngabanye. Ewe, akusiyo imfihlakalo-yonke into kufuneka yenziwe kuqala kuyo yonke into, ngoxolo, nangaphakathi.

Emva koko, sinesixhobo esilungileyo ekulwa naluphi na ukungafuni, nayiphi na into engeyiyo, nayiphi na into embi, naluphi na ulwahlulo - oku kucinga kwethu! Kuya kunceda ukuvusa ugqozi, ukuphakamisa, ukunceda ukufumana amandla kunoma yintoni na isizathu. Khumbula ukuba uphefumlelwe ngamaxesha onke - isibhakabhaka? Ilanga? Ulwandle? Umntu ozithandayo? Khawucinge ngolu hlobo, cinga ngcamango yakho yinto ekholisa ngayo impilo yemihla ngemihla - indawo enhle, ikhekhe ekhangayo, intengiso yeentaka kwi-"intengiso yeentaka," kwaye kuza kubakho ukumamatheka, ingcamango iya kukukhokelela ekude, kwaye kuya kubakho ukukhuthazwa okufunekayo!

Kodwa olu luncedo kwimicimbi yethu yemihla ngemihla ... kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuphefumlelwa nje ukuba ubhale inkondlo evuyisayo, yenza umfanekiso ongaqhelekanga, wenze inqaku ukusuka kwimiba? Kuya kunceda konke okufanayo. Ukucinga, uthando, isibhakabhaka ... Inkumbulo yento opholileyo yenzeke ngaphambili. Ukwazi ukuba omnye umntu waphumelela kule nto - jonga imifanekiso kwiindawo ezizodwa, funda ezinye izinto zabasebenzi. Kwaye ukukhuthazwa yinto efunekayo rhoqo kunye naliphi na ishishini, ukuqonda akukona ukuba "kufuneka kwenziwe - igazi elivela ekhaleni!", Kwaye ukufezekiswa kwemfuno yale nto kuzisa uvuyo lomntu kuya kunceda ebomini, kuya kuthetha indlela efanelekileyo, bonisa indlela owazi ngayo ukuthanda. Uyazi njani ukuba uphendule naziphi na izenzo zakho zibe yinkqubo yokuthakazelisa.

Kwaye ke, ukufuna ukuphefumlelwa akukona okwangoku xa ngokukhawuleza "kuyadingeka ngokukhawuleza." Kufuneka ufundiswe kuwe, ukuze ihlale ihlala kuwe, yayilungele ukukhanya, nanini na umzuzu. Njani ukwenza oku? Kuzo zonke zichaphazela entle. Umculo omnandi, izibongo, ama-aromas, iintlobo-zonke ezi zinto zifanele zibe ebomini bakho rhoqo, zijikeleze, ziphosakele. Emva kokuba ujwayele ukuhlala ujikelezwe ngobuhle, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukwandisa ubuhle kwihlabathi, kodwa yintoni le? Oku kuphefumlelweyo! Futhi musa ukuzungezezela ubuhle kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla - tyelela i-museum, iikontshi, imibukiso, - soloko ujikelezwe ngetalente, abantu abanetalente, iziphumo zokuphefumlelwa kunye nokucinga. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, kunjalo, kunzima ukulawula ... Ngethamsanqa, akukho mfuneko yokwenza oko, sele ifikeleleke kumntu wonke. Ukuhlala ekhompyutheni kunokufakwa kwi-inspiration yayo.

Ngoko, ukufumana phi ugqozi? Akuyimfuneko ukuyikhangela! Kufuneka ihlale ilungile, imangalisa kakhulu ukuba ingafaneleki, "yaphuhliswa", yabangelwa ngokufanelekileyo. Kufuneka zize ngokwazo - kwiingcinga, iinkumbulo, iingoma ... kuyo yonke into! Ufuna nje ukuba ngumntu ophefumlelweyo-ukuphupha, ukuthandana, ukufumana umtsalane kuyo yonke into, ukufuna ukwenza ummangaliso kuyo nayiphi na into. Ukuze ukwazi ukunandipha iziphumo zomsebenzi wakho kunye nokuphumla, kwaye ubenze ukuze bangenise uvuyo kuwe kuphela, ukuhlobisa ihlabathi elijikelezileyo, ncinane!