Enyanisweni, akusiyo imfihlo yokuba bafihla intlungu yomntwana. Siyazi ukuba ingqondo ingumngcipheko kwaye nantoni na xa umntwana wethu engafumani ngokulimala kwentloko, sinokukhathazeka ngokucinga: "Ukuba kuphela ukulawula, ubuncinane kuya kuthathwa!" ".
Ngokukhawuleza uqaphele: intlungu engumntwana osanda kuzalwa, ngokuqhelekileyo, ngenhlanhla, ihamba ngaphandle kwemiphumo embi (ngaphandle kokuba ibangelwa yimpumlo enamandla kakhulu), ekubeni isakhiwo sekhanga kunye nesixa sempahla yamanzi kwisikratshi sinceda ukunciphisa ngexesha loxinzelelo kwinto ethile.
Kodwa kunjalo, nayiphi na, ngaphandle kokungafani, intlungu yesifo ifuna ukuba abazali bathathe uhambo olufutshane lokugqithisa ugqirha, kuba akunakwenzeka ukucacisa iziphumo zalo ngeso. Kwaye oko kukufihla intlungu ngokubhaliweyo kwimeko nganye ethile kuyimfihlelo yokuba ingcali kufuneka isombulule.
Ingxaki yomntwana kwimeko yokulimala kwentloko, ngokuqhelekileyo iphelela ngaphandle kweengxaki, kodwa kufuneka ulungele nantoni na. Siye sichaza ingqungquthela yobomi, makhe sihlale kulo mbuso ukuze sihlolisise, ngoko kuthetha, ngaphakathi. Nangona kuya kuba nzima, kwaneengcali azizi 100% zenzeke ngexesha leengxubusho kunye nengqondo. Kungenzeka ukuba, ingqondo yengqondo iyagxininisa kwaye ixabise igaqa, okubangele ukuba iinqununu eziqhelekileyo ziyaqhekeka, kodwa akukho ukuphuka kweethambo zomzimba. Xa ukulimala kwentloko kumntwana kubangela ingqungquthela, oku kubonakala, okokuqala, ngengxaki yokuqonda.
Uhlobo olulandelayo lwesalathiso senhloko yintlungu eyenzekayo xa i-ingqondo yengqondo iwonakaliswe ngexesha lempembelelo, kukho ukuvuvukala, kunokubakho i-hemorrhages. Ukuba imeko iyanzima, ngoko imiphumo yalo ingabungozi, njengokuba i-hemorrhages kunye ne-hematomas zikhokelela ekunyanzeleni kwengqondo. Zonke ezi ntlobo zenzakalo zentloko zibizwa ngokuba yi-craniocerebral trauma, ekwahlukileyo, ikwahlula ibe yindawo evulekileyo (ukunyaniseka kwamathambo e-cranial yaphulwa) kwaye ivaliwe (isakhiwo asiphazamiseki). Ukuba, kwimpembelelo, umntwana unamathambo adibeneyo, ke akanalo naziphi iimpawu eziyingozi, kwaye oku kungumntlukwano, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uboniswe ngugqirha.
Ziyiphi intlekele yentloko, yintoni ingozi enkulu kwimpilo? Masiqhubekele kwiimpawu eziya kubavumela abazali ukuba baqinisekise ukuba ukulimala komntwana kuyingozi kakhulu?
Le yimiqondiso yezilumkiso.
- Uye waphawula ukuba ukuqonda komntwana kuye kwaphulwa - kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba kubonakaliswe njani ukukhanya kunye nokuba bekude ixesha elide - ukuba yinto ebalulekileyo yokuba nelophawu oluyingozi kubalulekile.
- Intetho yomntwana yachithwa kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo yayingenakuqondakala, nangona kwangaphambili yayingabonwa.
- Ukuziphatha kwakungekho okwaneleyo.
- Usana lwaba buhlungu kwaye ludenge.
- Emva kwexinzelelo elide, ngaphezu kweyure, intloko yam iyinto enzima kakhulu.
- Kukho iingxaki.
- Umntwana uhlanza ngokuphindaphindiweyo (ukuba nje kuphela - oku akusiyo uphawu oluyingozi).
- Emva kwexesha elide emva kokulimala, umntwana ushubile, akakwazi ukugcina umlinganiselo wakhe.
- Umntwana akakwazi ukuhambisa unyawo okanye isandla sakhe, uziva ebuthathaka kule nxalenye.
- Abafundi baba ngabalingani obuhlukeneyo.
- Uphawule ukuba phantsi kwamehlo akho okanye emva kweendlebe, umntwana wakho unamabala amnyama.
- Ukubonakala kokuphuma kwiindlebe okanye impumlo.
- Emva kokuba umntwana ememeza, akazange ayeke ukumemeza, umbane ongenambala okanye ogazini uvela empumlweni.
- Umntwana waqala ukuva ngokugqithiseleyo, umfanekiso emehlweni ubonakala ubanjwe ngombhobho okanye iimbini, uziva unqwenela emlonyeni wakhe, iphunga elingaqhelekanga livela emzimbeni, ubuhlungu besikhumba buyancitshiswa, kwaye i-goosebumps ihamba emzimbeni wakhe.
Ogqirha bacetyiswa ukuba bathathe ngokukhawuleza umntwana kumgqirha ukuba, ngexesha lokulimala, ngenxa yeso sizathu wayedakiwe okanye aqhutywe ngamachiza, nangona engenazo iimpawu eziyingozi emva kokuphazamiseka.
Mhlawumbi emva kwengozi, umntwana akayi kubakho naziphi iimpawu, kodwa ubuncinane ubuncinane kwiiyure ezingama-24 emva kokulimala okufuneka ukuba uqaphele ngenyameko imeko yomntwana. Ukuba umntwana ulele, ufanele umvuse zonke iiyure ezimbalwa, ubuze ngexesha elifanayo imibuzo elula (umzekelo, "Ngubani igama lomama wakho?").
Ngoku ndiza kukuxelela ngoncedo oluphuthumayo olufunekayo lunikezwe ngokulimala kwentloko.
Ukuba umntwana engenazo iimpawu eziyingozi, qalisa ukuzola, uze uzame ukumbeka phantsi okungenani iyure, ungabandakanyi imidlalo kunye nokunyakaza okusebenzayo kwaye usetyenzise ubanda kwindawo apho kwakukho utyumbe.
Ukuba umntwana unempawu ezinobungozi, khawuleza ubize i-ambulensi, hlola ukuphefumula kunye nokujikeleza kwegazi, unokufuna ukuvuselelwa kwe-cardiopulmonary. Ukuba umntwana engenazi nto, mbeke emgangathweni onzima emhlane wakhe, ephethe intloko ngezandla zakhe, ukuba uyathintela ukuphefumula, ubeke eceleni kwakhe, ugcine intloko yakhe rhoqo ukuze ingadluli kwaye ijikeleze. Ngabalingisi abaxutywe ngu-roller, lungisa isahluko somlomo wesiqhelo. Ukuba umntwana uyazi, makabe elele emhlane wakhe, ungafaki umsila. Akunakwenzeka ukutya nokusela, akufuneki ukuthutha umntwana (kuphela kwiimeko ezibucayi). Ukuba kukho isilonda evulekile, yima igazi uze uyiphathe. Ukuba ingqibelelo yekhayi yonakaliswe, awukwazi ukuyichukumisa, cinezela kwilonda, yifaka nje ngeeboleji.
Njengoko uyakubona, intlungu yentloko inobungozi obuninzi, ngoko thabatha ngokungqongqo kwaye u tyelele ugqirha!