Yiyiphi amadoda okufanele ayigweme kwi-intanethi

Kwili hlabathi lanamhlanje, xa abaninzi bengenalo ixesha lokuhamba ngeendlela ezitratweni ngenjongo yokuziwayo, i-Intanethi iba ngumncedisi oyimfuneko ekufuneni isiqingatha sesibini. Ukuqhagamshelana nge-intanethi kunamanani amaninzi.

Okokuqala, ungabona iifoto zabantu kwaye ubhale kuphela kulabo owamthanda ngaphandle, okanye uphendule kuphela kwiileta ezivela kumadoda oyithandayo kwisithombe. Okwesibini, unokufunda iphrofayili yakhe, kwaye ufumene ukuba ufuna ntoni ukuba ajonge. Okwesithathu, ungabhala kwiphepha lemibuzo yakho ngokubanzi, into okulindeleyo ekuthandeni, uhlobo luni lomntu oyifunayo.

Ngoku kukho indawo ezininzi zokuthandana, apho izigidi kunye nezigidi zabasebenzisi zibhaliswe, ngoko ke ukhetho lukhulu. Inzuzo yokuthandana kwi-intanethi kukuba abantu bobabini bavakalisa umnqweno wabo wokuziqhelanisa. Isiqinisekiso esinjalo asinakunikwa xa uzama ukujwayelana nesitrato, kuba umntu akakwazi ukuvakalelwa ngethuba lomhlobo okanye akukho mfuneko yokwenza ulwazi olutsha. Kwi-intanethi, into elula kwaye ilungile, ekubeni umntu ebhalisa iprofayili yakhe kwindawo yokuthandana, oku kuthetha ukuba unomnqweno wokumazi.

Nangona zonke iingenelo, ukuthandana kwi-intanethi kunemiphumo emininzi. Amadoda kwi-Intanethi ahlala elala, efihla injongo zabo zokwenene, kunye nobuso bawo, ngaphandle kokubonisa iifoto. Nazi ezinye izicwangciso malunga noko amadoda akufanele agwenywe kwi-intanethi. Okokuqala, kufuneka ugweme amadoda eencwadi yokuqala athetha ngesondo. Ewe, ukuba umnqweno wokuba nolwalamano lubuhlobo obunzulu, kwaye akusiyo into ebophelelayo. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukuphepha kwi-intanethi amadoda abhalela ngokuthe ngqo kumfazi ongaqhelekanga onjalo.

Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba nethemba lokuba xa ekubona, uya kutshintsha ingqondo aze afune ulwalamano olunzulu nawe. Akayi kuyenza. Kuyingozi kakhulu ukuqhagamshelana namadoda anjalo. Unokucinga nje ukuba mangaphi amantombazana avela kule sayithi ayenokuxhamla ngengozi. Emva kwakho konke, kwi-Intanethi kwiindawo ezinjalo zihlala zihlala zininzi iinantombazana zinika iinkonzo ezithandanayo ngemali okanye zifuna ukulala ngesinye umntu ngexesha. Ngoko ke, amadoda anjalo kufuneka agwenywe kwaye angaqhubeki ukuthetha nabo, unokukhawuleza ubeke umbuzo wabo kwi "Uluhlu oluMnyama".

Ngokweengxoxo ezingabonakaliyo eziqhutyelwa kwiindawo zokuthandana, ngesihloko apho amadoda angabesifazana abagwema kwi-intanethi, abangaphezu kwama-80% wabasetyhini bawaphepha kakuhle abantu ababelana ngesondo kwisigijimi sokuqala, ngokukodwa ngokunikela ngesimo esicathakalo nesinxila. Kwakhona, kufuneka ugweme abantu ngaphandle kwesithombe okanye ngesithombe somnye umntu xa benqaba ukuthumela iifoto zabo kwi-imeyili yakho. Njengomthetho, la madoda asemtshatweni afuna inkosikazi, kwaye angabonakalisi isithunzi ukuze ulwazi malunga nokufunwa kwakhe alufikeleli kumfazi wakhe.

Kubalulekile ukukhusela amadoda abhala ngokuthe ngqo malunga nokuba batshatile. Kutheni ufuna ukubandakanyeka kuyo yonke into kwaye ungene kumntu womnye umntu? Gwema abantu abonakala benganelanga kuwe. Kungenzeka ukuba bahleli ngaphesheya kweso sondlo kwaye banxibelelana nawe kwimeko yokuxhatshazwa, okanye kubi nakakhulu nangaphantsi kweempembelelo zezinto ezidakayo. Enye i-tip - musa ukulibazisa ukunxibelelana okwenyaniso.

Ngeze kukunceda ukwazi umntu. Ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo into umntu ayifunayo, bona iimpawu zakhe, uzive amandla akhe kuphela xa ekhuluma ngokunyanisekileyo. Ngako oko, thintela iibhalana ezide kwaye ufuna ukuhambelana neenyanga. Ukuba unomdla komnye nomnye, ke utshintshane ii-fowuni kwaye uqhubeke uqhelana nenyaniso. Musa ukwesaba ukuba ngumqalisi wenkonzo ngokwenene, ukuba loo ndoda ayinikeli iintlanganiso, mxelela ngaye. Ukuba akafuni, ukubhala kuwe ukuba ufuna iimfono ezide, ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokudibana, ayeke ukuthetha naye kwaye ufune abanye abantu abafuna intswelo yangempela, engaziwayo.