Abasetyhini aba "besyat" amadoda ...

Omnye nomfazi ofanayo unokubangela uthando kunye nokucasula nendoda yakhe. Akusiyo imfihlo. Lo bubomi. Kwaye, "umzabalazo wesini" ungabangela ukuba ungathandeki kulwalamano. Iipolitiki zezenhlalakahle zibonisa ukuba ezinye zeempawu zabasetyhini banamhlanje ziyaxhalaba, ngamanye amaxesha zilahlekelwa ngabantu. Abasetyhini aba "besyat" amadoda ...
Okumangalisa kukuba, abaninzi abantu banesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kumfazi otshaya. Njengokuba isondo ngesimo se-philistine singakhange sifane njengowesifazane onokutshaya igareyi elincinci esandleni sakhe, amadoda avelisayo akuyona into ebalulekileyo kakhulu.

Kwaye, ininzi yamadoda, ngokuphendula ngokukhawuleza kumfazi onomsi "," ngokwabo abaxhasi balo mkhuba owonakalisayo.

Kubonakala ukuba, yonke "imihlali" yobomi bexuba (inkohlakalo embi emlonyeni, i-plaque ephuzi kumazinyo, isikhumba esifutshane seminwe, njl njl.) Zixelwe kubo kumfazi otshaya onamandla kabini.

Enyanisweni, izazi zeengqondo zichaza indlela abesabela ngayo abantu, ngokuqala ukuqonda kwabo ngengqondo engowesifazane, kunye nesidalwa, esibizwa ngokuba yimvelo ukuba sithwale ubuhle kunye nempilo, ishiya kwi-psyche i-scar enzima kunye ne-cigarette yayo.

Ngoburhalarhume, amadoda avela kubasetyhini abonisa ukuba bayazikhukhumeza kubo. Kutheni "ngokuqinisekileyo"? Ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwabasetyhini aluvumelani nokutolika kweendlela zabo zokuziphatha kwiimeko ezikhonkco njengokuba zikhukhumeza, kwaye indoda iya kuba njalo.

Ukuxhomekeka kwintsebenziswano kunye nokuthetha nje ngesini esahlukileyo kubeka imithintelo ekuqondeni ngokuvisisana, ngenxa yoko, ukuqhuma kwentsha yokuvutha komsindo kuqhuma ngeemvakalelo ezimbi.

Kodwa ke kukho a mabhinqa, ngokucacileyo ubonisa umgca othile wokuziphatha kubantu. Ngokuqhelekileyo zibizwa ngokuba yi "bitch".

Amadoda amaninzi, okubizwa ngokuba yi "bitch" aphikisiwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akunjalo ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kwale nkcazo, kuyinto yesiko ukubiza iibhanki, kungekhona nje kuphela izidalwa ezidityanisayo, kodwa, kunoko, ziphumelele, ishishini, abafazi abalalayo, behlala bekholose ngokwabo kwaye bengenzi ukuzithobela.

Umfazi onemiqondiso yonke yokuziphatha kwe-muzhskogo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukungaboni ngaso "ukudibana" kunye nejuzhchinu.

Olunye udidi lwabasetyhini banamhlanje, i-muzhchin enomsindo - yinkokheli yowesifazane, umphathi-wesifazane.

Okumangalisayo kukuba, abafazi abangakwazi ukuma, behla izandla zabo ekuphumelelweni kokuqala, njengokuba amadoda angamanje njengomsindo njengengqungqelo.

Amanye amadoda athukuthele ukuba ngokukhawuleza aqonde ukuba ibhinqa lizama "ukuyibuyisela". Kuyaqondakala, ukulahlekelwa kolawulo kumadoda yimeko ebalulekileyo, kwaye ukuzenza kunye nokudlala kunye nabaninzi bammeli wesini kubonwa ngokungalungile.

Nazi iimpawu eziphambili zowesifazane, onokukwazi ukucaphukisa indoda.