Ekuqaleni, zibekele iinjongo kunye neenjongo ezibonakalayo, ezimele zichane ngokukhawuleza iingxaki zakho zangaphakathi. Ngaba awukholelwa ukuba awuyi kuphinda uyifumane isikhulu esinye kwihashe elimhlophe? Ngoko kuya kwenzeka. Kulula kangakanani ukuqala ukutshata nabantu? Yitshintsha nje isimo sakho sengqondo. Thatha i-motto yakho umgaqo wokuba unobuntu obumnandi nobumnandi kangangokuba awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nomntu onyanisekileyo nothando. Ukuzithemba kwakho kuphela kuya kuba yikhala lakho. Isigaba sesibini siza kuzalwa kwakhona. Ukukhangela inkosana, kuba kuhle njengendlovukazi. Ufuna ukumbetha emhlabathini ngokubonakala kwakho okungenakuphikiswa. Ukumkhohlisa ngokutsala uxolo kunye nakho konke oko. Ukhangeleka ngokukrakra ngakumbi, amathuba okushiya ingcamango engakulibalekiyo kwi-subconscious yakhe. Musa ukulibala, abantu bathanda amehlo. Khumbula ukuba ubuhle bubunamandla obubi. Ngoko ke, sebenzisa iindlela zayo ngokuzeleyo. UThixo ngenxa yezizathu ezilungileyo usivulele intombazana esinesipho esingenakulinganiswa, kwaye simele siyiqonde kwaye sikwazi ukugxininisa oku. Ibhinqa kufuneka libe yinto enhle kuyo yonke into - ubuhle bayo, ubuhle kunye nokuzilungisa ngumqondiso obalulekileyo okhangela umntu. Ngoko ke, ungalokothi unqabe ukunyamekela kwakho ukubonakala kwikhoneni elide. Hlalani nilungele ukushiya ingcamango engakulibalekiyo. Ngako oko, i-hairdo kunye ne-makeup yakho, kufuneka ibe ngamaqabane akho, xa uya kuhamba "endleleni yokuzingela indoda." Yonke le mfazwe yakho "iincinci ezincinane" iya kuba yinto enokulibaleka. Ncedisa oku ngeengubo ezifanelekileyo. Mhlawumbi ukhumbule indlela enjalo, njengoko behlangana kwiingubo, bahamba kunye nawe engqondweni. Ngoko, zama, ukuya kumhlobo wakho onqwenelekayo ukuba ugqoke ngokubhekiselele kwimizila yefashini yakutshanje: inqabileyo, iqhakazile, ingalibaleki kwaye isicatshulwa. Izambatho zakho, okokuqala, kufuneka zivelise umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi kunye nomoya womphefumlo wakho, kwaye ke ngoko ugxininise isidima somfanekiso wakho. Ngendlela, malunga neyokugqibela - ukuba uyathemba ukuba wena, iphupha leyiphi na ipowulini, ungafihli. Usemncinci kwaye uyintle - uthetha, kwaye ugqoke ngokuhambelana nale nto. Nangona kunjalo, i-hairdo, i-makeup, ubucwebe, umbala we-varnish kunye ne-lipstick kufuneka ihlale ihambelana neempahla zakho. Awuhambi kwisitifiketi sezemidlalo ngeenwele zothando. Abafana bathanda amantombazana abanomdla okugqibeleleyo kwaye banokuwusebenzisa ngokukhawuleza. Ngokubonakala kwakho nesimo sengqondo, sasiqikelele, ngoku masicinge malunga nokuba kwaye kulula kangakanani na ukulula nolwazi oluqhelekileyo kunye nabafana, ngokwenza oko, ukuthetha. Uya kuphi na? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ilula kakhulu-iya apho ininzi yamadoda. Ukuba ukhetha kulula, ukufumanisa umfana, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba umfana angatholakala nakwiindawo zakhe zemihla ngemihla (iqela), umzekelo, isikolo, iyunivesithi, umsebenzi. Apha siza kubhenela amapaki, izikwere kunye nokuthutha. Ngendlela, njengento yokugqibela, ungayichukumisi, kodwa yicinge nje ngokusemandleni akho. Wanikela indawo, unconywa, wabuza ukuba uthumele imali kwikitikithi okanye udla kuphela kwikhishini elixubileyo kwaye imeko yakhe ayikho into engcono kunakho. Thetha kuye, phendula umxhasi, umxholo uza kuhlala ukhona, kwaye uya kuthetha. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza kuya kubakho. Kuya kuba kufanelekile ukwenza oko ngokwakho, uhamba ngeenxa zonke kwisixeko okanye kwindawo epaki. Ukumamatheka kwakho kunye nesiqalo esingabambiswanga soqhagamshelwano sinokwenza okuninzi.
Kwakhona unokutyelela iiklabhu zentshisekelo, ukuzivocavoca, apho ngokuqinisekileyo kukho icandelo lempilo yabasetyhini. Sekunjalo kungaba yi-cafe, iiklabhu, izenzo ezahlukeneyo zezemidlalo. Ngendlela, njengeeklabhu, kulula kwaye kulula ukuziqhelanisa nabafana. Umoya uphumule, ulungele ukumazi, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo abafana bahlale bekulungele ukuthetha nentombazana. Kufanelekile ukuqwalasela into yokuba akufanele uthinte amantombazana amaninzi. Kungcono ukufaka kwakhona kwaye uthathe amaninzi eenombolo zefowuni njengoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye ngoko uya kuzigqiba ukuba ngubani ophuma kwoluhlu uya kuba nguye okhethiweyo. Ngokulula, ngexesha lomntu wokuqala wokuthandana akakwazi ukuhlala evule ngokupheleleyo, bonisa intsingiselo yabo kunye nobutyebi. Ngoko rhoqo mnike ithuba lesibini kulokhu. Nangona kunjalo, ukubonakala kubakhohlisa - akuyi kubakho kwinqwenga elihle, emva kwayo kudla ukufihla ngokupheleleyo.
Ngethuba lexesha lokuthandana, ungalokothi udideke kwaye ungabonakali. Yiba nesigqibo, uvule, ukhusele kwaye uziqiniseke, ungacingi ukuba umntu uya kugweba isenzo sakho. Unqume ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala - kutheni uziqhayisa ngesisulu "kodwa ngokukhawuleza ...". Yiba nomoya omhle, ungakhohlwa malunga nokumamatheka. Bonisa umonakalo, abafana bathanda amantombazana amnandi. Bonisa umfana kwintetho yokuqala yokuqala zonke iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo. Kwaye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, qinisekisa ukuba ungumntu onomdla, onengqiqo nolumkileyo. Abafana abathandi amantombazana osisidenge, obani, hayi, ukuba bathethe ntoni ngawo. Unomdla kwaye ushiye uluvo olumnandi ngawe - unokucinga ukuba yonke into iphendulele kuwe.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, khumbula ingongoma ebalulekileyo, ngubani na ofuna ukudibana nayo. Kakade, inkosana yehashe elimhlophe yiyo yonke into yabantwana, ichukumisa iphupha. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni umfanekiso ocacileyo wendoda ongeyifuni - iinjongo azikho. Yingakho ungacasuli ukuba xa ukhethiweyo wakho ungagqibekanga phantsi komqondiso wokuphelela kwakho, into ephambili kukuba uyaqonda, kwaye ezinye azibalulekanga.