Sinciphise amathuba okutshintsha omnye umntu. Okokuqala, "uvavanyo" ngumntu ohlukeneyo, ngeenjongo zakhe, iinkolelo kunye neengcamango. Yena kwaye nguye kuphela onoxanduva lwezenzo zakhe. Kodwa kukho enye into ekhohlakeleyo engatshintsha imeko. Le ngamandla okucinga, enempembelelo yabantu abasondeleyo kakhulu.
Kule meko, asikhulumi malunga nendlela yokucula iingoma okanye ukuqinisekisile imihla ngemihla. Kukho iindlela ezimbalwa ezibonakalayo ezinokuthi zijikeleze umhlaba.
Ukucinga ngokuqinisekileyo njani?
Khawucinge nje ngolu hlobo: unento ebiza kakhulu (kunye neendleko, kwaye njengememori) yintsapho ye-heirloom. Kwaye umntwana wakho uthathe ukudlala aze alahleke. Ngaba unako, ukuba uyayazi intengo yamacici omakhulu-makhulu, ungayikrozi intombi encinane?
Iingcamango ezintle zihlala ziphela. Enyanisweni, kunzima ukuhlala esihlalweni esinesilumko kwaye uziqinisekise ukuba uzive ukhulu. Ukuphazamiseka kunye nesiphumo sayo - ukunganeliseki - ukuphendulwa kwemvelo komzimba. Oku kukukhusela kumonakalo komzimba, umoya okanye ubuntu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubalulekile ukuba sihlale sanele ngokwaneleyo kunoma yintoni na imeko. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba akunakunceda ukukhwaza abanye kwaye uyitshitshise isihlalo eludongeni, apho ungakhange uqaphele isikhonkwane esingakhohlwakiyo.
Ukucinga okulungileyo kunako ukukwazi ukuyeka ngexesha, ukuphefumula emoyeni, kwaye, ngokukhawuleza utyumle, ube nexesha lokuhlalutya-oko kukukugxotha.
Izizathu esizikhethayo
Ukuzithukuthelela wena okanye umyeni wakho, zitsho wena okanye umntwana wakho - sikhetha konke oku. Njengazo zizathu zengqondo ephazamisayo. Oku kubonisa amandla okucinga kunye neempembelelo kubantu abasondeleyo kwizenzo zakho.
Iingcamango zemihla ngemihla malunga newe kunye nehlabathi zenza uhlobo "lwemvelaphi", apho uqobo lwakho ukhetha ukuphendula kunye nezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Kutheni i-boss "ishaya kuwe" ngenxa yokuba wenza umsebenzi ongafanelekanga okanye ngenxa yokuba wayenomsebenzi onzima, onobungozi?
Ukuba uyazi wena - awuyi kuthatha uxanduva olungenasidingo, kubandakanywa nesimo seentsapho, abathandekayo kunye nabantu abakungeenxa yonke.
Amandla okucinga kunye nokuzithemba kwabanye
Sonke siyakuvuyela ukuva indumiso kwidilesi yakho kwaye ayikho into emnandi - izimvo. I-Quarrel, ebonisa icala labo, ayinalutho. Nangona wenza oko ngenxa yezizathu ezilungileyo - ukuba omnye umntu uya kuba ngcono kwaye uyaziqonda iimpazamo zakhe.
Ngokuphambene noko, ukuba ugxininisa into oyithandayo ngomnye umntu - ufumana umphumo omnandi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubudlelwane nabantu abasondeleyo buqiniswa ngamandla ngempembelelo yamandla okucinga. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unethuba elingcono lokuva. Ukuvakalisa uluvo lwakho ngobumnene, olungenakuphikisana, kwaye ukuze omnye umntu afune ukuba ngcono kuwe-kuxabiseke kakhulu!
Thetha, kuthetha kwaye uthethe kwakhona
Amandla okucinga awachaphazeli abantu abasondeleyo kuphela. Ewe, xa uqonda ukuba indoda yakho ibe nesibindi, ingabandakanyeki (engaqondi) "idonsa" ukuya kumgangatho wakho wokujonga. Ucebile - uqala ukufumana ngaphezulu. Biza umntwana ube ngumqili, thabathe ngendlela leyo - uya kuqala ukucinga ngakumbi.
Kodwa ke, ukubetheka kweentambo kunqabile kakhulu. Uya kufuneka uxoxe ngokufunayo kumntu. Kwaye-ke ukuxoxisana ngeenzuzo ezifanayo, ukuba into oyimfuneko kuye, akubalulekanga kuye.
Amazwi kunye nemicabango
Igama lihambelana nezoshishino-akukhona nje ngomsebenzi ongakhathaliyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, into engekho nto iyasishukumisela ngaphandle kweengcamango ezingenakuthenjwa ukuba senze umyalezo ombala kakhulu.
Kwaye ke oku kulandelayo kwenzeka: umyalezo wakho uphezulu kwimbono yomntu, kwaye wenza isiphetho esingalunganga ngokupheleleyo.
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Kule ndlela kuphela, ngokungachanekanga nangokuthe ngqo, ngeendlela ezimbini unokuchaphazela abantu ngokufanayo. Kwaye ukuqinisekiswa oku kulwalamano oluchanekileyo, nangona bazuza.
Cinga ngabo - abahlakaniphileyo nabanqwenelekayo abasetyhini, okulungileyo kwihlabathi lamadoda kunye nomama. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, ungalibali ukuba zonke iinguqu ziqala nawe.