Amandla omntwana amangalisa. Uninzi lwa bantwana ngelo xesha sele seluqala ukuhamba kwaye luhlolisise zonke iindondlo zendlu. Ukuqwalaselwa okukodwa ekhitshini, kwaye ekubeni kukho izinto ezinobungozi, qaphela ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba i-karapuz ayithathi umsi okanye into enokukwazi ukulimaza.
Xa umntwana uneminyaka eli-1 ubudala, uyamkela kwaye uyathanda ukuphulaphula ukufunda. Nangona engakuthandi ukuhlala ngethuba ngenkathi ufunda intetho yakho eyintandokazi, unokuyenza ngokukhuselekileyo ngelixa umntwana edlala ngentshiseko. Nangona into yokuba unyana okanye intombi ayifuni ukukukhangela, bayayiva onke amagama kunye neentetho.
Lungisa ulawulo lomhla kwaye uhlakulele
- Usana ngalunye luya kuba luzimeleyo ngakumbi. Musa ukucaphukisa xa engenayo ithuba lokutya ngokukhawuleza i-spoon kwisitya. Konke ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kodwa kusadingeka ukuba ufundise ulwazi lokuqala lokuzinakekela. Ngoko ke, ngokuqhelekileyo ufunde umntwana ukuba asule umlomo wakhe, ucoce umgca emva kwakhe kwaye uphonsa inkunkuma.
- Siyaqhubeka nokufundisa umntwana ebhodweni. Abantwana abayifunayo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokuyeka izifundo zabo. Ukutyala umntwana ebhodweni emva kwexesha elithile emva kokutya kunye nesiqingatha seyure. Ngoko uya kufundiswa ukuba oko kufuneka ukuba asebenzise indlu yangasese, kukufanele ukukubuza okanye uzame ukuzibandakanya kumbindi.
- Izinwele kunye nezipikili zidinga ukunakekelwa okhethekileyo. Ama-curls akufanele angene emehlweni akho, kwaye izipikili zakho kufuneka zihlulwe ukuze umntwana anganyelwanga ngexesha lomdlalo.
- Qinisekisa ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlambulule emva kwakhe. Ngoko ukuba ingabonakali njengomthwalo onzima okanye umyalelo, qalisa ukufundisa i-kid kule fomu kwifomu, ukuze yena ngokwakhe abe nomdla ekususeni zonke iibhola zakhe, ikhebhu kunye neemoto kwibhokisi ekhethekileyo.
- Kubudala beminyaka elilodwa ukuba kubalulekile ukuphuhlisa ulawulo olucacileyo lomhla. Ekubeni umntwana wakho uyazi yonke into eyenzekayo, kubalulekile ukuba unamasiko athile eentsapho. Ngoku lixesha lokwenza iinkqubo ezifanayo (ukuhlamba, ukuhlamba, ukuhlaja, ukutya) ngexesha elithile. Oku akukona nje ukuququzelela umntwana kwaye kukunika ixesha elikhululekileyo, kodwa kwakhona kuthoba inkqubo yeentlanzi zeemvuthu.
- Ukutya kufuneka kunikwe ingqwalasela enkulu. Ukusukela ngeli xesha umntwana usenokutya malunga nayo yonke imveliso evela ekudleni komntu omdala, kodwa isisu sakhe sisincinane, zama ukukhetha ukutya okuya kumnika inani elikhulu lamandla.
Ukuphuhlisa imidlalo yebhokhwe
- Njengoko abantwana behlala bezama ukuxelisa abadala, musa ukukunqanda ukukunceda ekucoceni okanye ukupheka (okwenyani, emva kokuqinisekisa ukuba ayiyi kwenza nantoni na?
- Umama kunye nabazali akufanele bacasulwe ngenxa yokuba umntwana uphinda isenzo esifanayo. Umzekelo, uphendulela kwaye ucime ukukhanya. Ngoko abantwana bahlalutya umyalelo wezenzo zezinto ezithile kwaye bafunde umgaqo wabo wokusebenza
- Nika ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka kumntwana owaziwayo nehlabathi. Ngeli xesha, abantwana banokuguquguquka kwaye banako ukufumana nayiphi na ingcaciso. Yingakho ubudala beminyaka elilodwa kuthathwa njengexesha elifanelekileyo lokufundisa umntwana ukuba azimele. Ngexesha elifanayo, qiniseka ukumxelela malunga neengozi, ukuchaza into eyenzakalisa ukuba le nto okanye into leyo ingabangela.