Iindaba zobufebe ziyingxenye yobomi babantwana iminyaka emininzi. Abazali, ugogo kunye nootata, ootitshala badlulisela amabali kubantwana abancinci ngeencwadi, bavakatyelele iimbonakalo zezobugcisa kunye nangokuncediswa kwemisebenzi yezandla.
Abantwana abaninzi, ngaphambi kokulala, bathanda ukuphulaphula amathenda. Kwiimbali zenkcazo, abalinganiswa beengcamango baboniswa, njengama-fairies, elves, abathakathi, izilwanyana okanye izilwanyana ezithethayo. Iingxelo zefestile zizononwabo, kodwa ziyakwenyanyeka. Bayiyo, njengomthetho, ngokusekelwe kwinto efanelekileyo yokulwa nobubi, kwaye iboniswe ngabemi abangendawo abahlala behlulwa.
Kwiimbali zezingane, iziganeko ezichaziweyo zichazwe kwaye abantu abadala bafunda rhoqo kubantwana babo ebusuku.
Insimu yenkcazelo yenkcubeko ibanzi kwaye inzulu, izele abantu abaninzi - zonke iintlobo zezilwanyana kunye neentaka, ulwandle oluninzi kunye neenkwenkwezi ezingenakubalwa, zonke iintlobo zeentlobo kunye neengozi ezikhoyo.
Iingoma zefayile ziyimilingo. Bangakwazi ukubonelela ngefestile kwelinye ihlabathi, ithuba lokuya ngaphaya kwezinto eziqhelekileyo, kunokusebenza njengendlela yokucima ezinye iingxaki zeli hlabathi kwaye zichaze ezinye ihlabathi. Lobu bungqina bunye ubuhle obuninzi bebhali. Abanye abantu banenkxalabo yokuba ibali leenkwenkwezi ayidlulisi imicimbi yezobomi kwaye ikholelwa ukuba amabali anjalo ayingozi kubantwana, ngakumbi ebusuku. Uninzi lwa bantwana luyaqonda ukuba iindaba zobubele azikho okwenene, kodwa zivame ukubuza abantu abadala: "Ngaba kunjalo?" Abazali abasele baqiniseke ngokubaluleka kweendalana, bengenakunzima ukufumana impendulo efanelekileyo kumntwana wabo.
Izintandokazi zeendaba zobomi bobusuku
Abantwana banamathele iindaba zeendlovu, ezifana ne-Little Red Riding Hood, iCinderella, iHansel neGretel, kunye ne-Snow White. Le mibali yamagqirha yithuba elihle lokufundisa abantwana. Abantwana bahlakulela uthando lokufunda, ukubhala, ubugcisa, ithala kunye nomculo. Ukudala iimeko zemidlalo ngelixa ufunda iifriysi, abantwana be-school-school and age school with passion and enthusiasm ukuqonda ukunxibelelana nabantu abadala.
Iimbali kubantwana ebusuku ziindlela elula yokufunda intsapho. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana babone ukuba iincwadi kufuneka zifundwe ngokuzonwabisa, kungekhona nje ukufunda. Bobabini abadala kunye nezingane bafumana uvuyo xa befunda ibali leenkcazo.
Zonke iintlanga ngamaxesha onke zixelela abantwana babo ubuxoki obu busuku. Ukubetha ngomntwana wakhe entloko, ngezwi elimnandi nelingqiniswanga, ibali elihle malunga neenkohlakalo ezimbi kunye namafairies, iinkosana kunye namakhosazana, abathakathi abanoyiko kunye neenkwenkwezi ezinamandla ziphuma emlonyeni womama. Ukudumeka kokufunda iindaba zeenkwenkwezi zobusuku buhlala namhlanje, nangona abantwana banamhlanje bechitha ixesha elingakumbi kwiiTV nakwiikhomputha. Kodwa le nkqubo ayinakuze ithathe indawo yelizwi lendoda enobubele kunye noxolo. Ukuphulaphula iindaba zomntwana, umntwana ufunda ihlabathi ngokubanzi kwaye ufunda ukufumana iindlela ezivela kwiimeko ezilukhuni, uqonda okulungileyo nokubi, oqinileyo nobuthathaka, uvuyo nosizi.
Ukuba ufuna ukulahleka ngokwakho kwilizwe elikude lemfayelo, kwaye uzive u-nostalgic, funda iindaba zabantwana bakho ubusuku, ubuyele ebuntwaneni obude obuvuyayo.
Iindaba zefeythi zisenza sibe kwindawo emangalisayo kunye neyokumnandi. Iimbali zezingane zithintela ngexesha lokungabi namacala kwaye simema kwi-harbor yosindiso. Ungalondolozi ixesha lokufunda ibali leenkwenkwezi ebantwaneni kubantwana bakho, abazithatha kwilizwe elimangalisayo nelimangalisayo lemimangaliso neentlanga!