Ixesha elihle
Bobabini abasetyhini kunye nabayeni abaye bawela amanqaku eminyaka engama-30 bavame ukuba banjani uhlobo lomntu abafuna ukulubona njengeendawo zokuhlala. Kwaye benza ukhetho lwabo phakathi kwabantu abaninzi, baxhomekeke ekubeni intsapho iya kuba yomelele kwaye iyomelele, ngaphandle kwezinto ezimbi ezingalindelekanga zizilindele kwixesha elizayo.
Amathuba amatye azinzileyo. Ukuthelekisa, makhe sibathathe isibini esizibophelele ngomtshato eneminyaka engamashumi amabini. Kulo mzekelo, intsapho ihlala ijongene neengxaki zezemali, kuba abasha abasha baya kukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wabo. Kwaye ke, ngaphandle koncedo lwabazali ukuba bangabikho mthethweni, ukuba kufikelele nakuphi na ukuthenga okukhulu, njengemoto eqashiweyo. Kodwa ngabantu abatshatile emva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, ngoko-mthetho, imibuzo ihlaziywe kunye nezindlu zabo kwaye sele sele zizibonele ngokwazo emsebenzini. Ukuqwalasela ezi zinto zibalulekileyo, sinokuthi ukuba bazibonele ngokwabo kwimisebenzi yabo kwaye baphumelele, abafazi baya kuhlawula ngakumbi intsapho kwaye bathathe ngokubonga zonke iimeko ezimnandi zobomi babo.
Imfundo ehambelana nabantwana. Ukucwangciswa, umnqweno wokwenene nokuzimisela ukuba nabantwana bancede abazali ukuba balungiselele ngokukhawuleza ukuzalwa komntwana, kwaye amava okuphila kunye nokukhula kumvumela ukuba aphathwe ngokuqonda, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo nangokumfundisa ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukulungisa iingxaki zentsapho ngobulumko. Ukukhula kunye namava abatshatileyo kwenza ukuba kube lula ukwenza izinto ezinokukhawuleza kunye nokukhawuleza okuza kubangela ukuvela kweengxabano nokungavumelani. Nangona kunjalo, ngokungaqinisekiyo, akuthethi ukuba emva kokutshata eneminyaka engamashumi amane, abantu abayi kuphulwa ngokuzenzekelayo. Nangona kunjalo, kuloo mtshato kuya kuba nehlazo elincinci, intlonelo, umnqweno omkhulu wokufumana umgangatho ophakathi kunye nokuba unokuphelisa ukuxabana.
Imilinganiselo engebiyo yemitshato yokugqibela
Ukukhankanya malunga neemeko ezintle, awalandeli izinto ezingenakwenzekayo kwimitshato ezayo.
Iwashi ye-Biological kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo umtshato, ekutshatweni komtshato, uninzi kakhulu ufuna ukufumana umntwana, kodwa ngelishwa, kukho iingxaki zempilo, nto leyo evimba inqubo yokukhulelwa kunye ne-vynashashivaniya. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani onokuthi, sekude kwaziwa ukuba ixesha elihle kakhulu lokuzalwa komntwana lixesha elivela kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwe-30, xa umzimba wenyama ungakhathazeki ngokukhethekileyo ngezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ngenxa yoko, njengomfazi, nangona kunjalo, indoda, ayinayo imvakalelo engcono xa bengakwazi ukufeza umsebenzi wabo omdala-ukukhulelwa encinane.
Omnye umonakalo womtshato osekupheleni kwimiba enxulumene neminyaka. Emva koko, ngamnye umfazi, ngaphambi kokuba aqiniseke ubudlelwane bakhe, uye waqhelana nesiseko esicacileyo ebomini, ukwenza ntoni kwaye xa efuna ngaphandle kwemimiselo kunye neengxelo kumntu ngokuziphatha kwakhe. Yiloo nto kwifowuni kwaye kukho ubunzima, de kube intsapho idlulise isigaba sokumisa.