Ngoko, uqala phi kwindawo yokuqala? Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuba siqonde ukuba nguyena kuphela uxanduva lwethu lokwesaba, amava, iingcamango neemvakalelo. Umntu ngamnye unako ukwenza ukhetho - nokuba uyamthukuthelela okanye ayikho, ukukhala okanye ukuhleka, ukukhahlela okanye ukudumisa. Emva koko, onke amava ethu awabangelwa yiziganeko ngokwabo, kodwa ngesimo sethu sengqondo kubo. Njalo umzuzu ujikeleze kuthile into eyenzekayo kodwa intando yethu. Kwaye kuphela amandla ethu ukuqonda ezi ziganeko njengoko sifuna. Ukuxabana nomphathi okanye umqeshwa, imvula esitalatweni, ukwanda komvuzo - isimo sengqondo ngasinye kweziganeko (ungaphenduli okanye usabele ngenye indlela) sizikhethela. Emva kokuhlawula ingqalelo kakhulu ekulawuleni iimvakalelo zakho, uya kufumana umphumo omangalisayo! Uya kuba noxolo, ugxininise ngakumbi kwaye ujonge ukuqala ukugqibelela kwakho - ukuphucula ubugcisa bokunxibelelana kwaye unokufumana inhlonipho.
Ukunxibelelana akusiyo kuphela into esiyithethayo ngamazwi, kodwa kwakhona ibukeka, isenzo, kwaye iyathintela. Ngamanye amagama, ulwimi lomzimba. Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba amagama anikezelayo okulula nje ngokuthi "Usuku oluhle", "Sawubona", "Sawubona" landivakala ngenyameko, elibizwe ngokumomotheka, elihamba kunye nokubukeka okunokuqhathaniswa nokucokisekileyo, mhlawumbi ngoxolo. Emva koko abo abaza kubhekiswa kuwo amagama abaya kufumana kuphela, kodwa kunye neenkcukacha zakho ezingezozithetha ngomlomo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphazamisa umntu oshishino kunye nomntu onoxanduva, kufuneka ukhangele uhloniphekile, uqokelele, unamandla . Naluphi na umtya wakho kufuneka ube buthathaka, kodwa uqine, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - kufuneka ibonakalise ngokuchanekileyo loo mvakalelo oyifunayo ngeli xesha elithile. Mamela indlela ilizwi lakho eliva ngayo? Kufuneka abe nokuzola, ukuzithemba, ukuzonwabisa. Ayikho intsingiselo yokugqibela isayinitsha yakho. Umqondiso osicacileyo ukhangela ingqalelo kwaye ngokungangabazeki kubangela intlonipho. Konke oku kubhekiselele kubonakaliso bangaphandle bodwa. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntu phambi kwakho ongakhange ahambelane nenkcazo yomntu webhishini?
Abaninzi beengqondo bacebisa ngokuthetha nabantu abanjalo ukuba bacinge ngengqondo kwindawo engcono kubo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umphathi wakho uyacaphuka, ecaphukile kwaye ecaphukile, jonga kakuhle kwaye umenzele. Emva koko, akanako ukuthokoza ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kufuneka asombulule zonke iimeko ezinzima. Mhlawumbi, ngaphezu koko, unesxaki esithile. Cinga nje ngeholide, elwandle, ukuphumla ngokuthula nangokuthula. Emva koko i-state yakho engekho yesigxina iya kutshintshwa kuye ngokuthe ngcembe, iyanciphise imeko yongquzulwano. Ukusebenzisa ezi njongo ezilula, uya kuqaphela ukuba rhoqo abantu bakuxelele ngokukhululekile ukuba bakho ubuso bakho.
Kukho inani leencomo, oza kuzithemba ngokuzithemba kuphela kumanyathelo omgangatho wamakhondo, kodwa uphumelele ekuxoxeni ngaphambili.
Kwiinkqubo zonxibelelwano, zama ukungaxabani ngokungenasidingo kwaye ungabaluleki. Bonke abantu bathambekele ukwenza iimpazamo, kuquka nawe. Ngaba uyazixolela zakho iimpazamo? Ngoko kutheni ungababuze kwabanye? Yinto elula. Ngokubuya, uya kufumana ngaphezulu!
Musa ukukhubekiswa kwiimbono kunye nokuvavanywa kwabanye , baphathe njengenguqu kwimozulu. Awusikhubeki ilanga okanye imvula? Yenza okufanayo kwintsebenziswano - ziqwalasele, kodwa ungaxhomeki kubo. Ukufumanisa "i-ambulera" kwaye ujonge phambili kwi shishini lakho "nasiphi na imozulu".
Vumela abanye bahluke. Akukho nto ikhupha i-brunette okanye i-blonde yombala weenwele zakhe. Ngokufanayo, akunakuqonda ukugxeka umntu ngokuba nesimo sengqondo esithile ebomini. Yamkela abantu njengabo. Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo esichaphazelekayo, ukuba kukho na, ngenjongo yokubangela umdla. Yonke into engavamile ihlala ithakazelisa! Yiba nomdla kulo mntu, mhlawumbi, emva kokufunda malunga nento into entsha, uya kuqonda ukuba lo mntu akabi njengokuba wacinga ekuqaleni.
Yiba nexanduva kwaye uqaphele umsebenzi wakho , nokuba yintoni na. Emva kwakho konke, ukhethe. Vumela inkokheli kunye nabalingani bakho bangabi naluphi na ukungathandabuzeki kwinqwenela yokusebenza. Musa ukuxhalaba ngale nto, njengokucela umcebisi ukuba anike iingcebiso okanye uncede. Kungcono ukubuza nokwenza kunokuthi ucele kwaye ushiye umsebenzi ongagcwalanga okanye ungahambisani nomhla wokugqibela.
Ukuba ukhululekile okwangoku - bancede bakho oogxa . Ungathandabuzeki, baya kuqonda iimfuno zakho. Kodwa ungazivumeli ukuba ukhululeke, mhlawumbi, kufuphi nawe ngaba bafuna "ukukhwela i-akhawunti yomnye umntu."
Qaphela ukuziphatha kweenkampani kunye nesitayela senkampani , ukuba iyakwamkelwa kwintlangano yakho. Emva kwakho konke, akufanele ukuphazamise isimo sakho sengqondo mhlawumbi nomsebenzi wakho wekamva nje ngenxa yesimo sezicathulo okanye ezinye izifo. Okukukho kukho indawo ezahlukeneyo apho ukhangeleka khona njengoko ufuna.
Kwaye, mhlawumbi, enye yezinto ezilula kwaye ngexesha elifanayo iingcebiso ezinzima kakhulu - zinyanisekile . Phambi kwakho naphambi kwabo abo ubomi bujika bahamba endleleni e kufuphi nawe.
Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba idumela lakho linye yezona zinto zibiza kakhulu kwaye mhlawumbi izinto ezinenzuzo kakhulu. Ukuze uzuze, kufuneka uchithe ngaphezu kosuku olunye. Kodwa, sele sele ifunyenwe, iya kukugcina kwi-ntshukumo yenqabileyo iminyaka emininzi. Zithande ngokwakho, xabise umzamo uze unakekele udumo lwakho, kuba ngoku uyazi indlela yokufumana into ebaluleke kakhulu kwiqela-inhlonipho.