Abafazi abadala balala njani namakhwenkwe?

Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba abafazi abangena kulo naluphi na ubudlelwane nomntu bancinci kunabo, abanye bahlala besenza isimo sengqondo esibi. Nangona iinjongo zesondo zobuhlobo obunjalo abubonakali kwinxalenye ephambili. Kwabafana abangenamava, njengomthetho, abafazi bathanda ukulawula umlingane, abanelisekanga kunye nabalingani babo ubudala, abafazi bazama ukwakha ubudlelwane obulinganayo (kunye namadoda asebekhulile-kunzima kwaye ahlale asebenza kunye noontanga) okanye abafazi abafuna ezintsha zesondo. Ngoko emva koko, abafazi baneminyaka engakanani ukulala ngesantombazana?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abaselula baba ngabaqalayo bobudlelwane obungalinganiyo. Abasetyhini ngokubhekiselele kwizengqondo zabo abanamathuba amaninzi ukuba bajoyine umanyano onjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu osemncinci uthetha kumfazi omdala kwaye njengenkosikazi, kwaye njengomhlobo, kwaye njengomama. Umfazi onjalo ngumthombo omkhulu wokukhanga umntu osemfana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafana bakhetha abafazi abakhulu, xa bengenayo ivenkile ngokwaneleyo yezocansi okanye xa bengenako ukutshisa okwaneleyo. Ibhinqa livakalelwa lincinane kuneminyaka yalo, libhekele kwinkwenkwana. Ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane bezesondo phakathi kwamaqabane ahlukeneyo amaqela, kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba inqanaba lezenzo zesini kumadoda liza kwiminyaka engama-20-25, kunye nabasetyhini-iminyaka eyi-10-15 kamva.

Isondo kunye namantombazana amancinci

Yingakho i-idyll yesondo kwiimeko ezinjalo zigcinwa ixesha elide. Enye into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukuqonda iingcinga zabo zesondo zibe yinto elula kakhulu kumfana osemncinci kunokuba neontanga. Emva kwakho konke, amadoda aneminyaka elifanayo okanye abadala abakwazi ukuqonda oku. Ngokumalunga nomntu, kuye oku kubonakala ngokucacileyo, esekelwe kwinto yokuba umfazi onamava uya kumnika unonwabo ngakumbi kunentombazana eneminyaka efanayo okanye encinane. Kwintombazana, iqabane elincinane kwisini libonakalisa kakuhle. Emva koko, kukunye naye kubonakala ukuba ubuyela ebusheni bakhe. Ubudlelwane bobuhlobo buhamba phantsi kwenyanga, bamba - konke kunokunika umfana omncinane, kuba umntu oneminyaka yakhe ubhekisela ebomini ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye uyaqonda ukuba kunengqiqo. Ukuqala, ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo, ukuthandana - yiloo nto ibhinqa elibonayo kwizo zesini kunye nendlela engaqhelekanga ngayo. Ngoko kulala kunye nomfana omncinci apho intombazana ivakalelwa ngayo yonke yobutsha bayo. Ngaphandle kokungabikho kwezakhiwo kunye nokuthintela, oko kwakhona ongenakukulindela kwintsapho, unike lo mfazi ithuba lokufumana into entsha kunye engaziwa ngaphambili ebomini obusondeleyo. Ngoko, ukuba isondo kunye nomfana osemncinane unamaqela amaninzi ekuphenduleni umbuzo wendlela abafazi abaneminyaka yabo abanxulumene ngayo ngesondo kunye nabafana abaselula.

Abafana abancinci, njengomthetho, abazi ukukhathala kulo mbandela, obalulekileyo kubhinqa. Ngobunye ubusuku umfazi unokulala ngesondo kunye naloo maqabane amaninzi. Kwaye onke la maxesha umfana uya kunika konke okulungileyo. Ekubeni yena, ekuqwalaseleni namava akhe, uza kwenza konke kule shishini ukuba amnike umxhelo ophezulu kwaye angabi nantoni emehlweni akhe. Kwakhona, iqabane elinjalo aliyi kunqanda, kwaye kunye naye unokuzama ukulala ngesondo kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, kwicala elifanayo, ehlathini. Yintoni kwakhona intokazi engenako ukuthenga kunye nendoda eneminyaka. Ngendlela, kulula kakhulu ukuba iqabane elincinci libe nomfazi okhulileyo, kuba zonke i-savvy kunye neetalente zalo mveliso zivelisa ibhinqa, ngokwenene, ithonya elibonakalayo. Baye banomdla, banomlilo, kwaye ngenxa yolu shishini baziphatha ngokungenakunqandwa. Ngelinye igama, nayiphi na inqwenela kuye ngumthetho. Ibhinqa elinaye lingesabi ukuzama ukuthanda imidlalo yezocansi, ikhululiwe ngokupheleleyo, kungekhona ekubulaleni kwentloko yakhe kukuba uya kumgweba okanye ayiqondi kakuhle umnqweno wakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha, umfazi ohlala elala ngesondo kunye noontanga bakhe akafumani into ayifumanayo ngobusuku obunye bothando kumntwana. Ngendlela, "ingekaze ibe yindalo endala" iyakwazi ukuzisa umfazi ukuba angabi nenye i-orgasm.

Ngoko, ekuqwalaseleni konke oku ngasentla, sinokuzithemba ngokuzithemba ukuba abafazi abaneminyaka elihle kakhulu kwaye banxulumene ngokufanelekileyo nezesondo kunye nabaselula. Kulo mlingane ukuba unokuvuya kwaye unelisekile kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Nguye onokuziqhayisa kwaye uhlala ekulungele ukuthetha iiyure, njengoko engumthandi omkhulu. Uhlala evuya, evuya - umfazi udonsa amandla kwiqabane lakhe elincinane. Emva kwakho konke, ngohlobo oluhle lwezesondo, abadinga kuphela amadoda.

Ibhinqa elibudala lakhe alibi, kodwa ubuhle obungenakuyibona bonke abantu. Uninzi lwabafana abangayifumananga kunye noontanga lwabo bakwazi ukuwamkela ngokwaneleyo kwaye baxabise ubudlelwane nomfazi okhulileyo, kwaye okokuqala ukuba bavumeleke kwihlabathi labo ukuzondla kunye nokuziphatha kwabo "ukuvuthwa" ngokwesini. Abafazi abavuthiweyo banomtsalane kwaye bayathandeka ngesondo. Baxabisa iqabane kwaye abayi kuze bahlale benetyala. Kodwa ku soloko kulungele ukukhumbuza into yokuba ibhinqa elidala aliyena kuphela umlingani wesini, njengowomlingani wakhe omncinci. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ulwalamano lwabo lwe-harmonic luyakhula ibe ngumtshato. Ngendlela, loo mitshato inamandla ngokwaneleyo. Emva komyeni wakhe omncinci, umfazi uselula. Uvakalelwa ngakumbi ngokwesondo, enqwenelekayo, enomdla kakhulu - ubonakala etyongelwe ebusheni bakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo umfana uziva enesiqiniseko, ngokufunwa kwaye uthanda nje. Kwaye kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba bonke abadala bayathobela ukuthanda. Kwaye nantoni na abantu abakujikelezile bathi, zonke izichaso kunye nezigwebo zabo, konke oku akufanelekanga ukuqwalaselwa. Ngenxa yokuvavanya injabulo akukho mntu unelungelo lokuthintela. Ndifuna ukuhlambalaza, ndiqhubekele kwilizwe lekhanuko kunye nothando, ngoko kutheni ungenzi nto ngoku. Emva koko, ukuba awuzami, awuyi kuyenza. Kwakhona, kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba nakuphi na ubudlelwane, kubalulekile, ukuthanda, umdla, ukujonga izinto, ukukhetha, uvelwano, uthando, kunye nobudala kunomnye.