Ndiza kunika imizekelo. Nantsi ibhinqa leyo, ngaphandle kokukrokrela, iya kuhlolisisa impilo yakhe kunye nodokotela emva kokuba iimvavanyo zithi kuye: "Ndiyintanda, ndandifumanelwa ukuba ndinomdlavuza." Ucinga ukuba "inkundla" yaqala phi, entliziyweni yakhe nasengqondweni yakhe. Kutheni ungathathi isigqibo: andisamkeli esi sifo, ndiyichitha le sifo, ndiyibusise umzimba wam.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba xa uqala ukuhlala ngokubanzi, ngokungathi akukho nto ixilongo, kuya kwenzeka ntoni kuwe? Isifo esakhiwe engqondweni, sinokutshabalaliswa ekuqaleni kwayo, entloko yakho, apho ukucinga kwakho kwakha khona.
Kwaye umnye umzekelo xa into ethile ibuhlungu kakubi, kwaye akukho nje i-tablet efunekayo esandleni esinokuyithatha le ntlungu, kwaye ukuba ufumana i-vitamin kuphela, kodwa ithi yindlela ekhuselekileyo eya kuphelisa intlungu yakho ngomzuzwana, ke intlungu yakho, kholwa ukuba ndime ngokukhawuleza. Ku boniswe.
Abasetyhini bangaphezu kwamadoda abonakalayo, bazibophelela ekufeni kwabo entloko, kuba oko ndikubhalela kuwe, othandekayo wam. Akukho mfuneko yokuncintisa yonke into, yonke into ilula kakhulu. Zithande nje ngamazwi kodwa nakwiingcamango zakho. Ungavumeli ukuba uvavanyo olubi lomntu luphuhlise entloko yakho, kwakhona.
Ngoku kukho izifo ezininzi kwaye sisoloko sisatshiswa ngesikrini sethelevishini, kodwa ukuziva kukuba akukho sisifo. Ewe, wakuqonda ngokuchanekileyo, ayikho. Bahlakulela entlokweni yakho, ngenxa yokuba wawavumela kanye kwaye waqala ukwesaba, ucinge ngabo, unxulumene nokubaluleka okukhulu kubo.
Yaye ingqondo yomntu yinkampani enamandla kunazo zonke yokuvelisa ingcinga, ikhompyutha ilawula umzimba. Uninzi lwabantu abaphakamileyo ababaziyo le mfihlelo, kwaye ukuba phantsi kwegama kuthetha - isifo (asibalulekanga kangako nantoni) unokuchaphazela umntu nantoni na oyithandayo, kodwa kukho enye imeko yokuba uya kumvumela ukuba ahlale engqondweni yakho nokuba uya kuhlakulela apho .
Ndiqinisekile ukuba ngamnye wethu unokuphila okunempilo njengoko ufuna. Emva koko, into ephambili ayikuvumela ukugula ukuba kubambe iingcamango zethu, kodwa iingcinga zethu zizalwa entloko kwaye zinomthelela omkhulu kumzimba wethu wonke. Abafazi abathandekayo kangangokuba xa ngokukhawuleza uthi isikhumba sakho siphelile okanye ulahlekelwa isisindo, kuba into ethile igula, musa ukuyithatha.
Kwaye nantsi into endifuna ukukuxelela ngokude into ebalulekileyo ebomini kukuba wenze isigqibo kunye nesigqibo esiphezulu ebomini kukufumana nokulandela inyaniso kuphela, kwaye ungathethi. Emva kosuku olunye, ukukholelwa ekuxoxeni kwamanga kwaye ukuvuma kwiingcamango zakho ebomini bakho, kuya kuba nzima ukuba uphume kweli lizwe, kuba xa ukholwa, uyazinikezela kulokho ukholelwayo. Kwaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza kukho konke okukholelwa kukho kukukhohlisa, ngamanye amaxesha asifuni ngisho nokuvumelana nalo.
Ngako oko, sicinga, oku yiloo nto ndiyakholwayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba lo buxoki. Abathandekayo bam, abafazi abathandekayo, makhe ubomi bakho kunye neengcamango zakho zihlale ziphela inyaniso kunye neengcinga ezilungileyo. Kwaye xa umntu ekhunjulwa ebomini bakho ngento embi, mxelele: Andigugu, kwaye andiyi kugula, kuba intloko yam ihlambulukile kwaye ayikho indawo yokugula kuyo. Yonke iminyaka emihle yobomi emhlabeni!