Indlela elula yokuyeka izipikili

Mhlawumbi, abaninzi bethu badibana nabantu babetha izipikili zabo. Akunjalo nje abantwana abancinci abangaqondanga nantoni na, ngokuphindaphindiweyo lo mkhuba owonakalisayo ubonakala kubantu abadala, kwiimeko ezininzi kubasetyhini. Kutheni sifaka izipikili zethu? Ngokuqhelekileyo, isizathu sinoxhala, uxinzelelo, okanye ngokungabikho naziphi na iimeko. Indlela yokukrazula le mkhuba embi, zeziphi izizathu zayo, kunye nemiphumo, iya kuxutyushwa kule nqaku.

Okokuqala, masibuyele kwiingcamango zenzululwazi, kwaye ke uya kukhetha indlela elula yokumisa izikhonkwane zakho: naphezu kwempumelelo enkulu kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zophando malunga nempilo nobuhle bendoda yesimanje, akukho nto ingabikho nkcukacha ngokuchanekileyo malunga nokuba kutheni abafazi beba izikhonkwane zabo (inqaku: amadoda kwakhona ukugquma izipikili). Intsholongwane eqhelekileyo yokubamba isikhonkwane kukuba abantu baqhawula izipikili ukuze banciphise uxinzelelo, baphumule, kuba kunceda ukuphazamisa kwiimeko zesantya.

Ngoku iingcamango ezininzi ezisekelwe kwingqondo yengqondo yabantu:

Ngokuhambelana nale ingentla, iingcinga ezininzi zengqondo, zikho iindlela zokulwa nalo mkhuba, olwahlukileyo ngumntu wabantu:

Kwaye makhe sibone iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokulwa nale mkhuba embi.

Sinike imizekelo yezindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokulwa nomkhwa omubi-ukuyeka ukugquma izipikili. Ezi ndlela zisebenza kakuhle kwaye ziqhelekileyo kuluntu lwangoku.