Nangona inyaniso yokuba inkqubo yokuzimela kwi-pot - inzululwazi ilula, akunqabile ukuba nawuphi na oomama nootata bafezekisile ngaphandle kwezinyembezi kunye neengcikivo kwinxalenye yomntwana. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba ukuqeqeshwa "akunjalo kumgangatho ofanelekileyo" - ukungalunganga, ukunyaniseka, kunye nokubaluleke kakhulu - kungekhona ngexesha elifanelekileyo! Ukulungisa imeko kuya kunceda uzifundele ngeendlela ezintle ezingabazali ezikhuselekileyo ukukhusela "ubuhlobo" phakathi kweemvumba kunye nebhodi.
Inkolelo yenombolo 1. Kuthekani ukuba sinawo ixesha?
Ubomi bukhawuleza, siphuthuma, kwaye ngokukhawuleza siphumelela ukuba siqhube phambili phambi kwendawo yokuhlala. Ingane ayayazi indlela yokuhamba, kodwa sele sizama ukumfundisa indlela yokufunda nokubhala, akayikuyilawula ngokwenene umzimba wayo, kodwa simi ngephi ekukulungele, yithi, lixesha. Singaphi ukukhawuleza? Iingcali zenzululwazi zithi ukusekwa kokugqibela kokulawulwa kwengqondo emathunjini kumntwana kwenzeka malunga neenyanga ezili-18.
Ngoko, ukuya kwiminyaka enye nesiqingatha, zonke iinzame zethu zokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlangabezane neemeko zakhe ezinkulu kunye ezincinci kwindawo eboniswa ngabazali zivele zingenangqondo.
Akayiqondi into ayifunayo kuye. Ngenxa yoko, ukuqeqeshwa ekusebenziseni ibhodlela kuba nguqeqesho lokuthanda kunye nokuphuhliswa kokulinda kumama. Yikho konke! Oku akunakwenzayo nomntwana. Yaye inyaniso yokuba esemncinci kuthatha iinyanga ezimbalwa, ihamba kunye neengcingo zomntwana kunye nexesha lokuphelelwa lithemba ngumama, emva kweyure kunye nesiqingatha seminyaka yobomi, imivumba ihamba ngokwayo kwimiba yeentsuku kunye neeveki.
Inkolelo yenombolo 2. Asiyi kuthathwa kwi-nursergarten!
Enyanisweni, xa ubhalisa kwi-kindergarten, ootitshala bayagxininisa ukuba umntwana unamakhono okwenza izinto ezizimeleyo-ukuze umntwana agqoke, asebenzise ibhodlo aze adle ngokwakhe. Kodwa makhe sijonge imeko ngenyameko.
Ngaba uceba ukumnika umntwana kwi-nursery ebusana? Ngaphandle. Iingcali zengqondo zikwacebisa ukuba uzibazise ukunyuka kweintsana kumaqela abantwana abantwana ubuncinane ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2, kwaye ngokukhethekileyo kuya ku-3-3.5. Oku kubangelwa ukuba kwaneli xesha umntwana akasengokwengqondo ngokulungelelaniswa nomama kunye nexesha elide emhlambini wohlobo lwakhe. Akasenaso isidingo sokuhlalisana, ukunxibelelana noontanga, ufuna umama, kakuhle, ubuncinci, ugogo okanye unina. Ngoko kutheni uqala ukulungiselela umntwana usenkulisa iminyaka embalwa ngaphambi kokuba le siganeko senzeke? Kwaye kwaneentlungu ezinjalo. Ewe, eneneni, apho iimeko apho abazali kufuneka banqume abantwana kubuncwane ngaphambili kwexesha eliboniswe ngabagqirha beengqondo, kodwa anika umntwana kwiqela eliphezulu, uya kuya kwindawo apho abanonophelo kunye nabantwana abanamanqanaba kufuneka bamnyamekele, kwaye banakekele abantwana indima. Ekugqibeleni, lo ngumsebenzi wabo, owona, bafuna ukuzincoma. Akukho nto.
Inkolelo yenombolo yesithathu. Masha (Dasha, Lena ...) umntwana wakwazi ukusebenzisa i-pot kwi-6, 8, 9 iinyanga ...
La mabali, njengamabhayisikili asezidolophini, aphile ubomi bawo kwaye adluliselwa emlonyeni ukuya emlonyeni, ukusuka kwelinye unina ukuya kwelinye. Ngelo xesha, akukho mntu uyazi ukuba "umfazi" ongu-innovative moms, kodwa wonke umntu ukholelwa ukuba zikhona, kwaye umbuzo wendalo uvela: "Kutheni, ukuba abanye bayifumana, andinako? Ndiyakwenza njalo!" Kwaye kuqala umzabalazo okhuselekileyo webhotile kunye nesihloko somama onobuhle. Umzabalazo unzima, ukhathala kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, awunamsebenzi. Akukho mfuneko nje ngokuba iphikisana neenkqubo zokukhula komzimba komzimba womntwana, njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, kodwa nangenxa yokuba awukwazi ukubonisa ubungqina bakho kumntu wonke. Kutheni nawuphi na umntu kufuneka ahlole ukuba ulungile ngokwanele umntwana wakho? Ngokukodwa xa kufikelele kubandlululo olungenanto enxulumene nemeko yangempela yemicimbi. Ngomso kuya kufumaneka ukuba kwezinye i-Masha umntwana sele sele uthetha ngeelwimi ezintathu ngonyaka, kwaye nawe, uya kuqalisa ukuphazamisa izenzi zakho ezingalunganga? Isilinganiselo semigangatho yakho yamandla omama sinokuxhomekeka kuphela komnye: ukulungeleka kakuhle, impilo kunye nolonwabo lobomi bentsana yakho.
Ngoko, awukwazi ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukusebenzisa ibhodwe kwiinyanga ezintandathu? Hayi, awukwazi. Into yodwa esekelwe kwimpumelelo kulo mbandela kuqeqesho loomama. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubuchule bokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okuqala kusekelwe kwinto yokuba ngezikhathi ezithile, umzekelo, kanye emva kwemizuzu engama-20 ukuya kwimizuzu engama-30, umama unikeza i-crumb ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Oku kufezekiswa ngeendlela ezininzi, umzekelo, umntwana ubanjwe phezu kwenkunkuma, ngelixa iphepu ijika, kwaye phantsi kwengqungquthela yamanzi umntwana ubhiyozela imfuno. Kwaye konke oko! Umama wamlibala ukumbamba umntwana phezu kwequla, wawafaka iingubo zakhe. Ngoko ke ubani esiqeqesha kulo mzekelo?
Inkolelo yenombolo yesine.
Iiflethi ezilahlayo zilimaza uqeqesho lwamanzi
Yithi, kwi-diapers inkomo ayiziveki, kwaye akukho ziphuzo ezimanzi-akukho mnqweno wokufunda ukusebenzisa ibhodlo. Iziko lezilwanyana, i-Obstetrics kunye ne-Gynecology ye-Academy yezoNzululwazi zezoNzululwazi yaseUkraine iqinisekisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwee-diapers ezilahlwayo ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-18 akubanga ukuba umntwana abe ngumlutha kwaye akayi kuphucula ixesha lokuqeqeshwa komntwana ngokufanelekileyo emva koko. Isantya sokuzimela kwisibindi asixhomekeke ekubeni ngaba umntwana enxiba i-diapers ezilahlayo, uyabekwa kwi-sliders okanye zifakwe kwi-diapers. Ukuxhasa oku, sinokuphinda sichaze iziphumo zophando olwenziwa ngabaososayensi beNtshona, ngeliphi na amaqela amabini amawele aqokelelwa. Omnye ekunyamekeleni kwabantwana basebenzisa ii-diapers diapers, kunye nakwi-diapers esilahlayo. Kwaye kwavela ukuba kwiimeko zombini, isidingo sabathwayi kunye ne-diapers sanyamalala ngexesha elifanayo-eliphakathi kweenyanga ezingama-27.
Inkolelo yenombolo yesi-5.
Amakhwenkwe ayenzi kakuhle kwi-diapers ezilahlayo
Kukho ukungaqondi kakuhle ukuba i-diapers ezilahlayo zichaphazela kakubi imisebenzi yokuzala yabakhwenkwe, okuyimvelo, ebangela ukuba kuxhalabe phakathi koomama abancinci abaselula. Kukho inkolelo epheleleyo malunga ne "greenhouse effect" phantsi kweli bomi - ngokucacileyo kwi-diaper ifudumele kakhulu, kwaye njengoko uyazi, ukushisa okugqithiseleyo kuthinta umgangatho we-spermatozoa kakubi, kwaye kwixesha elizayo kunokukhokelela ekungabikho komntwana. ukuba xa umntwana edlala needodoli njengomntwana, uya kukhula ukuba abe ngumntu onokungaqhelekanga. Kodwa siya kubuyela kwii nyaniso.Ngokwezifundo eziqhutywayo, ukushisa phantsi kwe-diaper elahlayo kufana neqondo lokushisa phantsi kwee-diapers eziqhelekileyo. I-Enku iyomile, kwaye kwi-diapers ubuninzi buphindwe ngamaxesha amaninzi, okwenza nje "iimeko zokushushumba" kwiibhaktheriya kunye neentsholongwane, umzekelo. Ukongezelela, inkqubo ye-spermatogenesis kumakhwenkwe aqala akukho ngaphaya kweminyaka engama-7-8, ngamanye amazwi, umntwana akanalo i-diaper ngaphezu kwento eshushu ngayo.
Ngoko, akukho nto inokuthetha ngayo ngemiphumo eyingozi kwimbewu, umsebenzi kunye nomgangatho we-spermatozoa.
Lixesha lini?
Kuze kube namhlanje, oogqirha bezilwanyana emhlabeni jikelele bavumelana ngokumphendula lo mbuzo. Qala ukufundisa abantwana kwi-pot kunconywa kungekudala kweenyanga ezili-18, okanye enye kunye nesiqingatha iminyaka. Kulo nyaka, umntwana uqala ukulawula ngokucacileyo umsebenzi we-intestine kunye nesisu. Ngaphambi kwalokhu, izihlunu ze-sphincter azizalwanga ngokupheleleyo, umntwana akanako ukunyamezela, njengabantu abadala. Ukongezelela, ngokwexesha leminyaka nesiqingatha, ukulungelelana kwengqondo yomntwana kwinkqubo yokufunda ukusebenzisa ibhodwe kubonakala. I-crumb ayiqali ukuqala ukuqonda into eyenzekayo kuye, kodwa ingabonisa impawu okanye ithi ufuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuqonda "inzululwazi yombumbi" kwenzeka ngokwemvelo, ngokukhawuleza kwaye kungenanto ingxaki. Kwinqaku lethu: indlela yokufundisa umntwana ebhodweni, isiluleko sengqondo seengqondo, ufunde ezininzi kwaye ufunde ulwazi oluluncedo nolutsha.