Ukuze umntwana ajwayele "ubumbi", kufuneka abe ngumzimba kunye neengqondo ngokulungele le nyathelo (oko kukuthi, ukuqonda ngokucacileyo iimfuno zomzimba wakhe). Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuqaliswa kokulungela okunjalo kwenzeka iminyaka eyi-1.5, xa ukuphuhliswa kweenkqubo ze-nervous and muscular ezilawula iimfuno zendalo zigqityiwe. Ukuba i-crumb iqalile ukukuxelela ukuba idinga "pi-pi," okanye ifihla kuwe ukuya kwelinye igumbi ngaphandle kwesixwayiso, ukwenza enye efanayo "pi-pi" apho, ngoko lixesha lokumfundisa indlela yokusebenzisa ibhodwe. Musa ukuyihoxisa imiqondiso yokulungela umntwana ukuqonda ibhodwe! Omnye unokucinga: kutheni uqala ukufunda ngoku, ukuba kulula ukulinda omnye unyaka, xa umntwana efunda ukucela i-potty kunye nokuzimela ngokuzenzekelayo? Oku akunjalo. Umntwana oneminyaka emibili okhululekile kwi-diaper uyakufumana kunzima ukuchaza isizathu sokuba adinga ukutshintsha iimpawu zakhe aze acele ibhokhwe. Kuye ngokwenene kwaye ke kulungile! Umntu oneminyaka engama-2 ubudala onenkani kwaye onenkani unokungafuni ukuhamba ebhodweni aze ahlale kuyo. Apha, abazali baya kufuneka benze umzamo we-titanic ukuchazela abantwana imfuneko yale nto. Okokuqala, zama ukuyeka i-diapers ezilahlayo ukuba umntwana:
♦ Emva kokulala komhla, uhlala evuka nge-diaper eyomileyo;
♦ kukuvumela ukwazi ukuba ufuna ukuphika;
♦ yena ngokwakhe ubonisa umdla wokuhlala omile nococekileyo:
♦ idinga ukuba ithathe indawo yesosadi emva nje kokungena kuyo;
♦ unomdla ekukhethweni kwembiza;
♦ ufuna ukugqoka iimpazamo.
Inyathelo lokuqala: uthenge ibhodwe
Umntwana wakho akalambile, ulele kwaye unemizwa enhle? Nantsi ixesha elihle lokuya esitolo kunye! Zama ukuchazela umntwana oko uhambayo, kwaye makhe akhethe ibhodlela ngokwakhe - oku kuya kuba yinxenye yophuhliso lwakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba iimpahla ziqinisekisiwe, zihlangabezane nazo zonke iimfuno zomgangatho weplastiki kwaye zilungele umntwana ngobukhulu. Inketho efanelekileyo yimbi kunye nomva. Kuya kuba ngcono ngakumbi umntwana ukuba ahlale kuyo. Kwakhona kufuneka kube lula (ngaphandle komculo, njl.) Ngoko, kuthengwa ibhokhwe efanelekileyo kwaye wabuzisa ukuthenga ekhaya. Kodwa musa ukukhawuleza ukuyisebenzisa ngenjongo ekujoliswe kuyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ufundise umntwana ukuba ahambe ebhodweni. Ukuqala, ibumbi kufuneka lihlambuluke kakuhle-oku kungaba sisizathu esihle sokuvumela iinqanawa. Thela amanzi afudumele kwi-tub kunye nomkhumbi! Nanku zonke izinto ziya kuxhomekeka kwiingcamango zakho - ungafaka abasebenzi basePupsiks emkhombeni okanye ucule ingoma yomkhumbi. Into eyona nto kukukwenza kube mnandi kwaye ujabulise - umntwana uya kuvakalelwa ngokukhawuleza. Kuye, kwaye kufuneka uqale ukufundisa umntwana ukuba aye ebhodweni.
Emva koko, xa uhambo luphela, kwaye wucima umquba owomileyo, lixesha lokubonisa indlela yokulusebenzisa ngenjongo ejoliswe kuyo. Nantsi kunengqondo ukuqhubeka nomdlalo - faka ibhokhwe yakho eyintandokazi yokudlala. Wayengenalo umnqweno wokuhlala etaweni ngokwakhe? Khangela ukuba kubanda kakhulu, kumanzi okanye kuthoba. Ukususela kumava okuqala "olwazi" kuncike kakhulu, kuba umkhwa wokucela ibhokhwe awuyi kuvela ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba umntwana akayithandi, unokugatya ukusebenzisa "indlu yangasese". Ngoko ke, zama ukwenza ibhodlela ibangele iimvakalelo ezintle! Abanye abazali bathenga izimbiza zomculo. Iingcali azicebisi ukuba zenze oku, kuba ngoko imfuno yendalo iya kuba yinto yokuzonwabisa, ibe ngumdlalo, kwaye oku akunjalo ngokuchanekileyo.
Inyathelo lesibini: Sifunda iSayensi
Musa ukulinda umntwana ukuba asebenzise ngokukhawuleza ibhokhwe ngenhloso ejoliswe kuyo. Kodwa nangona i-kid ivakalise umnqweno wokuhlala kuyo, mdumise. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana ukhululekile ukuhlala - imilenze igxininiswe phantsi, umntwana akanako ukuwa. Ukuba ibhodana lide kakhulu, unokubeka i-footestal phantsi kwemilenze. Yenza imisebenzi yokubambisa "iimbuthano" ozifunayo kangangeentsuku ngemini, ngexesha ocinga ngalo, umntwana kufuneka aye kwindlu yangasese (ngokukhawuleza emva kokuphupha okanye emva kokutya). Ungamxinyi ukuba ahlale ebhodweni ngokuthanda kwakhe! Ukunyanzelisa kuya kubangela ukukhusela kwaye uya kuhlangabezana nomphumo ochaseneyo. Musa ukucaphukisa okanye ukhathazeke xa umntwana engafuni ukufunda "izakhono zabantu abadala". Ngoku iinjongo zakho eziphambili akuyikuba ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe ebhodweni ngexesha elifutshane kunokwenzeka, kodwa ukumenza abe nesimo sengqondo esifanele kuye. Ukuba uyaphumelela, cinga ukuba isigaba sokuqala sokuqeqeshwa sigqityiwe ngempumelelo!
Inyathelo lesithathu: Ngaphantsi kwe-diaper!
Ngoku sekuyisikhathi sokunciphisa i-diapers kwaye uhlakulele umkhwa wokucela ibhokhwe, inxalenye yentuthuko kunye nenyaniso yokuba umntwana sele eqonda imfuno yakhe yemvelo. Qhubeka uvale i-diapers ubusuku, kwiphathi kunye nohambo olude. Kodwa ukuba uhamba ukuhamba egcekeni okanye ipaki ecaleni kwendlu, vele uthabathe iipenties ezimbalwa kunye nawe. Inketho ekhethekileyo - ukuyeka i-diapers ukulala emini. Ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle, zama ukunika umntwana umbane ongaphantsi kokulala. Ukuba i-crumb ingahlala isomile, ungakulibali ukuyidumisa kwaye emva kwangoko ukulala ubeka ebhodweni. Zama ukunika umntwana ngelixa ehlezi ebhodweni, aphuze amanzi okanye asebenzise izandi ezifanelekileyo. Kwaye, ke, ukuba yonke into isebenza - musa ukuzibonga. Emva koko umntwana uya kuzama ukukholisa unina ngokuzayo. Kwaye akukho nto akudingeki ukuba uyihlaziye inkunzi yebhokhwe "yezinto ezingcolileyo"! Akakwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ilanga elalibhale ngokungenasiphelo kwi-panties okanye i-diaper, kodwa namhlanje uyancatshiswa into efanayo ... Ingaba umntwana wakho uya kuba wome ngosuku? Kulungile! Ixesha lokuyeka ama-diapers kunye nobusuku bokulala. Ewe, okokuqala, "izingozi" ziya kwenzeka rhoqo. Kodwa kufuneka uqonde ukuba umsebenzi wakho oyintloko awuyikufundisa - inkunzi yokuhamba embhodini ifanele ithande yona. Emva koko, i-crumb ayifuni ukuvuka imvula, uye wakhula kwaye uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni oku kwenzekayo. Ngoko emva kwexeshana (kwiiveki ezimbalwa okanye ngenyanga) mhlawumbi uyavuka ebusuku aze abuze ibhodwe. Uqeqesho oluphumelelayo!