Ingxaki ebalulekileyo kubazali yithuba lokuguqulwa komntwana kwiimeko ezintsha. Iingcali ziye zahlula abantwana kuba ngamaqela amathathu ukuze zilungelelaniswe ne-kindergarten. Abantwana abanenkinga ye-neuropsychic kunye neengqele ezibandayo ngexesha lokuzilungelelanisa ziphakathi kweqela lokuqala. Abantwana abahlala begula, kodwa bengabonakali nayiphi na impawu ebonakalayo yokuxhalabisa, befakwe kwiqela lesibini, kwaye iqela lesithathu liqukethe abantwana abavumelanisa ne-nursergart ngaphandle kwengxaki.
Kwi-kindergarten iqala ukuthatha abantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka enye nesiqingatha, kodwa iminyaka efanelekileyo kakhulu iminyaka engama-3. Nangona kulo nyaka ulungelelaniso lwenkqubo ye-kindergarten ayikhawulezi. Ubungakanani besikhathi esiphakathi malunga nenyanga. Xa umntwana esanda kuqala ukuya enkulisa, ukungafuni ukuhamba, ukwesaba njalo njalo-kuyaqondakala. Kakade, iimeko zokuhlala kwisiko lokufundisa esikolweni sangaphambili zihlukile kwikhaya. Kwi-kindergarten umntwana akasekho phakathi kwengqalelo, njengasekhaya, utitshala nomongikazi banakwabalalisa bonke abantwana. Umntwana ukothuka yimeko entsha, inani elikhulu labantu abangaqhelekanga kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukungabikho komama othandekayo, ecaleni kweso sivakalelwa kukuba umntwana. Ezi zinto zibangela ukuba uxinzelelo lwengqondo, olubonakaliswa ngokulila.
Ukwenza ixesha lokuzilungelelanisa lincinci kwaye likhawuleze, umntwana kufuneka alungiswe kwangaphambili. Umntwana kufuneka afundiswe ukuba abe khona kwirejista. Ingakanani umntwana oza kukwazi ngakumbi ukuba uyilungiselele, yintoni okumele ulindele, kuxhomekeke ekuzimeni komntwana ukudibana neqela elitsha, ngeemeko ezintsha.
Ekuqaleni, xa kunokwenzeka, unina kufuneka anciphise ixesha elichithwe nomntwana wakhe. Umzekelo, ukuba uhambo luyeke ubaba kuphela, ngokuqhelekileyo ushiye inkwenkwe kunye nogogo aze ahambe ngezoshishino zabo.
Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuxelela umntwana malunga neenkulisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngokukhawuleza, ukunciphisa khona, ukuze abe nengcamango malunga nayo.
Urhulumente wengane yomntwana, zama ukusifuphi ngokusondeleyo kuloo nto, njengenkulisa, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokungeniswa kuyo.
Ukuze umntwana asetyenziswe ukuthetha nabanye abantwana kunye nabantu abadala, khetha iipaki kunye neendawo zokudlala, zifana namaziko abantwana abantwana kwimisebenzi yophuhliso. Zama ukutyelela ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngeeholide, iintsuku zokuzalwa zabahlobo.
Zama ukuqhelana neqela lootitshala ngokukhawuleza uze uchaze malunga neempawu zomntu wakho.
Awukwazi ukumnika umntwana kwintsimi emva kokutshintshwa, nangona kugula okungenabungozi. Kumele azuze amandla, ngaphandle koko umthwalo omkhulu onokuthintela ungakhokelela kwimiphumo emibi kakhulu kwimpilo yengqondo nangokwengqondo.
Emva kokuba ulethe umntwana kwi-kindergarten kwaye ushiye enye, qiniseka ukuba uyamnciphisa, uthi uya kubuya emva kwexesha elithile.
Ngeentsuku zokuqala kufuneka uvelise umntwana kusasa ngeeyure eziyi-1,5-2, ngoko kwiinyanga zokuqala ungahambi ngqo ekusebenzeni. Emva koko unokushiya isidlo sakusasa nabanye abantwana, kwiiveki ezimbalwa unokuzama ukushiya u-nap. Iindlela ezinjalo zokulutha ngokugqithiseleyo azivumi ukuba umntwana abe ngumxinzelelo.
Zama ukushiya umntwana kalula kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Ngaphandle koko ukuxhalaba kwakho kungadluliselwa kumntwana. Ukuba umntwana unzima ukuhlukana nonina, ngoko uyise kufuneka amthathe. Ukuthintela ngakumbi kumadoda kuninzi, kwaye uvelwano luncinci kunabesifazane.
Unokukhetha kunye nomntwana odlala umdlalo ozithandayo, oya kuhamba naye imihla ngemihla kwi-kindergarten kwaye afunde apho namanye amathoyizi. Kwaye emva kohlobo lwe-kindergarten, cela i-toy into eyenzeka kuye kwirejista, edibene naye kunye nabahlobo bakhe, owamcaphukisa, enoba wayenentlungu emzimbeni. Oku kuya kukunceda ufunde malunga nendlela umntwana olawula ngayo ukufundiswa kwi-kindergarten.
Isiphumo esihle siyakunikwa ukudlala kwi-kindergarten, apho enye yamathoyizi iya kuba ngumntwana. Jonga ukuba yintoni le nto yokudlala eyoyenza kwaye uthi, yifundise kunye nomntwana ukuba enze abahlobo kunye nokusombulula iingxaki zomntwana ngazo.
Iimeko ezinokuvela ukuba umntwana akafuni ukuya kumfundisi othile. Ukuba oku kuphindwa rhoqo kwimihla ngemihla, zama ukufumana ukuba amaninzi amabango omntwana anelungileyo-ngaba utitshala uyayiphatha kakubi umntwana, umemeza aze aqalekise abantwana. Ukuba akunjalo, ke uthetha ngutitshala ngale nto. Utitshala ontle nofanelekileyo kufuneka azame ukufumana indlela kumntwana wakho. Ukuba emva kwexesha imeko ingatshintshi kwaye umntwana akafuni ukuya kulo titshala okanye amagama omntwana aqinisekisiwe, ngoko uzama ukudlulisela umntwana kwelinye iqela. Musa ukuvumela ukuba umntwana wakho ahlupheke kwaye axoxe nabantu abangathandekiyo, kuba ebomini umntwana uya kuchitha ixesha elininzi.
Ukuba umntwana uye kwirejista yexesha elide, kwaye ngokukhawuleza akahambisani naloo nto, kungekhona kunye nayo, kwaye uzama ukufumanisa isizathu sale nto. Mhlawumbi umntwana wayecaphukile okanye ukhathele ukuvuka ekuseni. Ukuba isizathu asibi, emva koko sele efuna ukufundela inzala.
Ukuba "akayithandi" kwintsimi yakhula kunye nexesha kwaye yaba yinto engapheliyo, mhlawumbi inokuba yinto yokuba umntwana engumyezo uyaqhatha, imisebenzi yakhe ayinakulinganisela, okanye kubantwana abaqhelekanga. Kule meko, zama ukutshintsha imeko kwintsimi, xa uthetha nentloko ye-kindergarten, okanye ufundise umntwana ukuba azithokozise, makamthathe kunye nemidlalo ayithandayo kunye namathoyizi.
Kukho nawuphi na, ukushiya i-kindergarten kuyimfuneko, ukuba:
- Umntwana u tyelele umyezo kwimizuzu engaphezulu kwama-4-6, kodwa akaqhelekanga ukukhanyela ukuya apho;
- ukuziphatha komntwana kwaba ngumsindo;
- Uxinzelelo lomdla kumntwana, uhamba ne-enuresis, ukwesaba ebusuku, njl.
Ukubukela impilo yentsana yakho, ukuziphatha kwayo kunye nemizwelo, unokuziphendulela umbuzo othi "Ngaba udinga umyezo", kuba uyazi ukuba wenzeni ukuba umntwana akafuni ukuya enkulisa!