Kwaye akukhona nje ngeendleko omele utyalomali kwimfundo yamahhala, kodwa nangenqweno yabantwana ukuba baqoke i-granite yesayensi. Emva kwayo yonke into, kukuxhamla ukuhlala edeskini kuqala, kwaye emva kwedeski ekhaya, xa kukho izinto ezininzi ezithandekayo.
Ixabiso lolwazi olufunyenweyo luqala ukuhlolwa kuphela ngeminyaka yobudala, xa ngenxa yobuvila obuye babonakaliswa, ukufumana into enzima kakhulu. Yingakho abazali bekela ingqalelo ngokukhethekileyo ekufundeni kwintsapho.
Ukwenza isifundo somntwana ngumsebenzi onzima. Ukuzikhumbula thina, siyaqonda ukuba nangona kunjalo, umntwana uya kufumana indlela yokuphuma, indlela yokuphuma, ukukopela, ukuqamba amanga, kunye nexesha elifanayo konke ukungenzi umsebenzi wesikolo okanye ukuya kwisifundo esingathandekiyo. Ngoko ke, kufuneka sibheke ezinye iindlela eziza kubonakalisa kwaye zilondoloze umdla wabantwana ekufundeni.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi eza kukunceda ufumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nomntwana, kwaye ukuba awuyi kuvelisa uprofesa wexesha elizayo kuyo, ngoko-ke unokuzithula isatifiketi sakhe.
Ukuqonda.
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze amehlo amakhulu uze uthi: "kwaye ndihlala eneminyaka yakho ...", khumbula iminyaka yakho? Ngaba babekho iikhomputha kuzo zonke iindwendwe, i-intanethi, ukuhanjiswa kweefowuni, inani elikhulu lekhaya, izixhobo zokusebenza kunye neeripheriti? Unako ukufumana zonke iincwadi zanabantwana banamhlanje, amathoyizi, ukulungelelanisa ubuchule, ubuninzi beembalo kunye nophuhliso lweenkqubo? Uninzi cishe akunjalo. Kodwa ngoku uthelekisa inani elipheleleyo leenkcukacha ezifunekayo ukukhumbuza wena, kunye nento okufuneka uyenze ngayo ngoku ngoku. Kwaye, ke, ukongeza kule ikharityhulam yekharityhulam, efanelekileyo, ekufanelekile ukuba ibone, iphinde ibe nzima nakakhulu ukususela ekugqibeleni kwakho esikolweni.
Emva kokuhlalutya imeko yangoku, akudingeki ukuba uqale ukugxeka inkqubo yezemfundo, kunye nabazali abathi, ngaphezu kwezifundo, baphinde balayishe abantwana ngemisebenzi yangaphandle, kuba le nxalenye yobomi bethu banamhlanje, kwaye sifanele sifunde ukuhlala kwiimeko ezinjalo. Ngaphezu koko, abantwana banokuqonda ngokulula yonke into entsha, kunye nokuqulunqwa okuchanekileyo kombuzo wokufunda kwintsapho, ubunzima obukhethekileyo abufaneleki.
Kulungile ukuqala.
Njengomthetho, yonke into iqala ukususela ekuqaleni, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukufaka inzala yomntwana kwimfundo kwimimiselo yokuqala echithwe kwideski. Musa ukuzithemba ngutitshala, nangona edlala kule nxaxheba akuyona indima ye sibini. Qala ukwenza izinto, okanye kunokuba ungasebenzi. Ngoku kuyimfashini ukuthatha umntwana ngaphambi kwesikolo ukuya kwiikholeji zoqeqesho ezongezelelweyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwiikhosi ezinjalo, abantwana abasesifumeni bathabatha ikhondo lejoni elincinci, nokuba yinto yokuqala. Bafundiswa ukuba babhale, bafunde, babale, ngamanye amaxesha baze baqale ukunika isiseko seelwimi zangaphandle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngolu hlobo, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba umntwana uyazi konke, uya kukhwankqiswa kwi zifundo. Ngokukodwa ekubeni umntwana wakho othandekayo uza kuchitha enye iminyaka eyi-11 kwidesiki, ngoko akudingeki ukuba wenze oku ngaphandle kwexesha, ngaphandle kokuba kuyimfuneko. Ukuba ufuna ukumnika ezinye izinto ezisisiseko - yenza, udlale, kwaye "ukhupha" ulwazi ngqo kwinkqubo yokufunda esikolweni.
Ukucwangcisa umdla wekamva wokuqala ekufundeni. Chaza isikolo njengento ebalulekileyo kunye noxanduva lokuphila kwakhe, ngaphandle kokulibala ngexesha elifanayo ukukhumbula abahlobo abatsha, izifundo ezithakazelisayo kunye nolunye ulwazi oluchanekileyo. Inkuthazo enhle kukuthengwa ngokubambisana kweofisi entsha, ifomu kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, iphothifoliyo. Kwabafundi abathile ukuya kwibanga lokugqibela, le nkqubo ihlala isithandwa kakhulu.
Yonke imisebenzi iya kuvuzwa.
Ukufunda umntwana, oku kufana nomsebenzi omdala omdala-andifunanga, kodwa ndiyayifuna. Ukwahlukana kuphela kukuba uvuzwa ngomsebenzi wakho ngendlela yemvuzo, kwaye unesikhuthazo, ufuna ukuphakamisa. Umntwana, ngenxa yemigudu yakhe, ngokuqhelekileyo ufumana amanqaku kuphela, oko kunokuba akhonze njengomvuzo, kodwa njengento ebalulekileyo. Kwaye uza kuba, usebenze nzima, kuphela ekudumiseni kwabasemagunyeni kunye nekhadi kwiphepha lakhe?
Into ephambili kukuba, musa ukuyithatha, kufana nokufuna ukuhlawula abantwana kumaBakala. Awudingi ukuhlawula nayiphi na into ukuba awufuni, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza umntwana. Okokuqala, dumise umntwana wakho ngamabakala amahle, kwaye ujonge xa engaphumeleli. Kuyakwazi ukugqiba isivumelwano kunye naye ekuzalisekeni kwesifiso sakhe, xa kwenzeka ukuphela kwekota. Unokuthenga into enqwenelekayo, uhambo, ukuzizonwabisa okanye uhlobo oluthusayo. Enyanisweni, kungcono ukuba wenza isipho esinjalo ngokungalindelekanga, ukuphikisana nokuziphatha kakuhle kunye nokufunda kakuhle. Emva koko ilanga elizayo umntwana uya kuzama ukubonisa umphumo, ethembeni lomvuzo, oku kuya kunceda ukugcina umdla ekufundeni. Into ephambili awuyidumisi.
Musa ukukrazula ingubo.
Into ephambili yokukhumbula kukuba umntwana wakho uya kufunda, kungekhona wena. Ngoko ungazami kwiintsuku zokuqala, hlala phantsi naye imihla ngemihla uze usombulule iingxaki, ubhale iileta uze ufunde i-primer. Kucacile ukuba umntwana unzima ekuqaleni, kwaye ufuna uncedo, kodwa ungamceli uncedo lwakhe ade acele oko. Isiphumo sokugqibela xa ubona ukuba akuyi kubakho shishini kwaye uncede ubuncinane uqale, uze uvumeleke ukuba uqhubeke.
Ncedisa umntwana ukuba afunde indlela yokwabela inani elikhulu lomsebenzi. Ukuba kukho izifundo ezininzi, zidibanise zibe zigaba ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Kwikhefu ungadlala, uhambe, ubukele iikhathuni. Okokuqala, yenza umsebenzi onzima kunayo yonke, uyishiye ngokukhululeka.
Yenza into oyifunayo, kunye noko ufuna.
Enye indlela yokugcina abantwana abanomdla ekufundeni kwintsapho ayinakuwuthintela umsebenzi womntwana kwisikolo kuphela. Vumela kwaye ukhuthaze umnqweno wakhe wokwenza oko akufunayo, uye kwiibakala ezongezelelweyo kunye neeklasi. Ungazami ukunyanzelisa uluvo lwakho, vumela umntwana akhethe. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba kuya kuba yintoni: imidlalo, ukudweba, ukudansa, ukucula, ukudlala isixhobo, ukubetheka okanye ulwimi lwangaphandle, into eyona nto kukuba le nto iya kuzisa umntwana ukuzonwabisa.
Kholelwa ekubeni nakho kwintsana yakho, kwaye uya kuphumelela.