Iingcali zeengqondo zaseMerika zikholelwa ukuba namhlanje malunga nesiqingatha senguqu - kwi "isazela" ye-intanethi. Ziyakutsholwa kwakhona ngamagqwetha, ephikisana ukuba kwiminyaka yamuva i-cyberstrikes ibe yimbangela enkulu yokutshatyalaliswa kweentsapho. EYurophu, kwakhona, vuthela i-alamu: eNgilani, inxalenye yesithathu yabaselula kwaye phantse inani elifanayo labasetyhini abangenalo ngokwesondo sangempela, abanelisekile ngeveveli ebonakalayo - ukungcatsha kwi-Intanethi kunye noqhagamshelwano kwiindawo zokuthandana, ii-ICQ kunye neendawo zokuxoxa, ngokuqhelekileyo kukho intando yesondo - kwi-intanethi. AmaDanes: phantse i-65% yabantu abadala bahlala kwi-cybersex. Abacuphi bethu kunye nabalandeli bee-strawberries ezintle abazange babalwe, kodwa izazi zengqondo zithi enye yesihlanu ineengxaki ezinxulumene nokunxibelelana kwiWebhu, kuquka nezihloko zesondo. Kutheni abantu ngokuzithandela banamathele kule webhubhu kwaye ngaba iireveli ezibonakalayo zibhekwa njengento yokugwenxa?
Okwesithathu ukuba uqhelane
Ngokutsho kwabasebenzisi abasebenzisa i-intanethi, i-noveli ebonakalayo-ukuthengwa kwi-intanethi ineenzuzo ezininzi xa kuthelekiswa nokuthanda kwangempela. Unyulo olungenamkhawulo lwabalingani. Nabani na onokukwazi ukwahlula ikhompyutha kwintsimbi angenza inveli kwi-cyber space. Ngaphambi kwakho - ihlabathi lonke: i-blondes, i-brunettes, inqatha, inqabileyo, i-romantics, intsholongwane ... Ufuna kwisixeko sakho, ufuna - kwelinye ilizwekazikazi. Ngokukhawuleza, elula kwaye elula. Njengoko uBeatrice Mylham, umphandi kwiYunivesithi yaseFlorida, wathi, "Ngokuphuhliswa kwe-intanethi, akukho mfuneko yokuba uhambo olufihlakeleyo kunye nama-motel aphantsi: umhlangano wenethwekhi unokukwenzeka kwigumbi elifanayo njengeqabane okanye iqabane." Yingakho abanye abasebenzisi bekwazi ukudlala ngothando ngexesha elifanayo kunye neqela (!) Abantu.
Ukungabikho kwezibophelelo
Ukuba iqabane lomnxibelelwano lididekile okanye libuhlungu, lanele ngokwalo nje ukumbeka eluhlu lwabamnyama, kwaye akayi kulufumana "imilayezo yakhe". Kwaye awunakho ukuxabana, uhlaziyi kunye nokucaciswa kobudlelwane-oko kukuthi, konke okunokwenzeka kwenzeka xa uphula ubomi boqobo.
Ungazama kunoma yimuphi umfanekiso. Uziva unqabile ngenxa yokuzaliseka okanye ubudala? Akunandaba, ekugqibeleni uyethula i-sexy blonde iminyaka engama-25. Kwaye ukuthembeka, siya kufaka umfanekiso wesicatshulwa saseMerika esaziwayo. Okanye thabatha isithombe sethu ukuze indoda engumthonyama ayiboni. Nangona kunjalo, umnxibelelwano ngaphesheya kwesikrini unokukwenza okufanayo. Kwakukho iimeko xa "umxhwele weempawu ze-brunette" waba neminyaka-70 ubudala. Akukho ukubhoboza okunjalo okukhuselekile kunoma yimuphi umqhubi weentlanga ezibonakalayo.
Uzinzo . Ukunxibelelana nge-intanethi kubangela ukungafihlisi kokungaziwa, ngoko ke abasebenzisi bazivumela kwiwebhu ukuba bangayi kuvunyelwa ebomini boqobo. Apha ungachaza indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngokwesondo: zombini iipenties ezimanzi, kunye nokukhutshwa komzimba, ukuzisa iqabane elincinci kwi-orgasm.
Iingozi zobungcali
Uthando olungenangqiqo kunye nomdla ofanayo luphendukekile kwaye amadoda kunye nabasetyhini, kwaye baninzi "intsapho Omnye uxabana nesiqingatha, umntu unxanelwe ukuvakalelwa kwintsha, umntu unganxibelelwano ... Uphando lubonisa ukuba i-cyber-passions inomdla wamadoda angaphezu kwama-40 kunye ... nabafazi bezindlu zonke ubudala, kuquka nabomama abatsha.
Ngaloo mfokazi, nanjengoko ku-anecdote, xa umfana oshushu atshaba amadoda angama-40 ubudala ukuba athawule kwisiqithi esinezintombi ezihambahambayo, kodwa amaqabane akhulileyo amphendula athi: "Kutheni, kutheni? Abagcini bezindlu baxinezelekile kunye nokungaqapheli komlingane (nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukungalindelekanga kwabesifazana bathatha ukukhathala kokuqala emva kokusebenza ngosuku). Ngoko baleka kwi-intanethi - "khupha." Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba iimvanoveli ze-intanethi zizonwabisa ngokuzikhethela, malunga nomdlalo womntwana. Kodwa izazi zengqondo zinombono ohlukileyo.
Okokuqala , unokuthandana nomlingane wakho we-intanethi, kuba abantu banxibelelana ngakumbi, banokholo ngakumbi. Kukho ukudibanisa ngokomzwelo, oku kungabonakalisa ukonakala ngaphezu kwesondo. Umbhali unomuvo wokuthi ngaphesheya komboniso uqondwa kangcono kunakumbi kwintsapho yakhe: uya kubuzwa malunga nempilo, kunye neemeko, kwaye kunye neentyatyambo ziya kunikwa (kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi inqobo). Yaye kunye neengcamango ezicebileyo, iqabane lomnxeba kunye neepen liya kubonakala liyingelosi, lingenasiphene ngokupheleleyo.
Okwesibini , ukudlala ngothando kunokungafani nokungcatshiswa kwangempela. Iingcali zeengqondo zaseBrithani zafika kwesi sigqibo emva kwendibano yodliwano-ndlebe, ngeli xesha kwafunyanwa ukuba abantu abangama-51% babecinga ukunyaniseka kweenethiwekhi njengobunyeliso, ngoxa i-84% iqinisekile ukuba iqabane elikhohlwayo liya kuziva buhlungu, ukucaphukisa, ukudideka nokulahlekelwa yithemba, oko kukuthi, yonke into umntu ayenayo , ngokufunda ngokungcatsha kwesiqingatha sakhe. Kwaye ukusuka apha ukuya kwisiqhawulo-mtshato akude.
Okwesithathu , ngokokulala ngesondo, unako "ukufumana utywala", njengokuba usebenzisa iziyobisi okanye utywala, ucinga ngobudlelwane bokwenene bokwenene, kunye nomlingani "wehlabathi" njengento ekhuselekileyo. I-intanethi ye-intanethi, njengaye nayiphi na enye, kunzima ukuyiphatha.
UVva uthanda!
Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuphendula kwisibheno sezesondo se-Andrey esivela eKiev okanye ukuxhaphaza izandla ezithatha impendulo kuDan ongaqondakali wase-Uzhgorod, ulinganise amawaka ngamawaka. Mhlawumbi kungcono ukucima ikhomputer, uye kumlingane kwaye wenze "njengento" njengokwakheka ngohlobo lwentsapho? Akusikho indawo yokuphulaphula iingcali zengqondo:
Inombolo nganye yesithathu yenqaku ikhula ibe yinyani. Ngaba uqinisekile ukuba ulungele ukuya apha?
Ukuba i-addiction yakho ye-intanethi ibangelwa ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba okuphantsi, utshintshe ubomi bakho ngokukhawuleza: ubhalisele ukubunjwa, ukudanisa, qalisa ukulungiswa ekugqibeleni. Iintando ezintle aziyizixazulula iingxaki zakho, kwaye zibaqhube ngakumbi!
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubuyela kubudlelwane yi-romance endala - ngezikhathi ezithile ukulungiselela iiveki zezesondo (nokuba ngcono - sebenzisa inxalenye yeholide kunye, ngaphandle koonyana, ootatomkhulu). Hamba ubuncinci kwiMaldives, kwiseDacha (nje musa ukwakha ikhefu apho, musa ukumba imibhede uze uqoke ukhukhamba) kwaye ujabulele inkampani yomnye!
Ukuba unxibelelwano olungqinileyo lugqirha kuwe, kodwa uyakrokraza iqabane lakho, akusiyo isizathu sokuphula ikhibhodi entloko. Mhlawumbi waya kwisiza sokuthandana okanye uxoxe nje ngekhanda. Ngaba uyaqiniseka ukuba unento yangempela? Umthetho ngokuhlakanipha, kuba iincwadi zentsebenziswano azenzeki nje kuphela - zibangelwa iingxaki kunye nomlingani ohlala ehlala naye.
Musa ukuhlola, uzama ukufumana ukuba ngubani othetha naye umyeni wakho, kwaye ungamniki "intetho ngentliziyo." Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo, owesifazane ozilumkileyo kwimeko enjalo uya kuzenza ukuba akukho nto eyenzekayo, edlala indima yomfazi ofanelekileyo. Ukuba umfazi okhubekileyo uqala ukulungiselela amaconsi,
ukugxotha umkhohlisi onentsingiselo ekhaya, uya kushiya: "Wena ngokwakho wawufuna." Ngendlela, ukuba oko kwenzeka, linda ukuphelelwa lithemba. Inokwenzeka ukuba, owakhethiweyo uya kubuya ngokukhawuleza. Ubunqabileyo beenveveli ezibonakalayo - ukuthengwa kwi-intanethi kukuba bhanya ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kwakhona bayahamba ngokukhawuleza: ifoto enhle kwisiboniso ihambelana ngokunyanisekileyo. Okokuqala, umntu onokumangalisa uya kufumana ukuba unqweno lwentando yakhe ebonakalayo efana ne-berth tumb, uya kuqala ukucaphukisa izitya ezingcolileyo ekhitshini (kunye nomfazi wakhe uhlambuluke ngokupheleleyo!), Kwaye uya kuqokelela ngokukhawuleza i-suitcase. Ubomi bubuhlungu ngokukhawuleza!
Cinga imfihlakalo. Oku akukhathaleli nje kuphela umfanekiso omtsha, nangona akufanelekile ukuwuhoxisa, kodwa utshintsho endleleni yokuphila. Uyayithanda imibala ezolile? Gqoka ekhanyayo! Awuthandi ukupheka? Yimangalisa umyeni wakho ngesitya esikhulu. Ngaba babethandeka baze bahluthe? Funda inxaxheba yentshukumo yowesifazana - ngokugqithiseleyo utshintsho lomfanekiso, umdla ngakumbi umlingane.
Buyisela umbhede!
Iingcebiso zisebenza kakuhle kubafazi abanamadoda abathanda i-Internet-strawberries kuphela. Abantu abaninzi babecinga i-intanethi ye-intanethi yintshintsho ebonakalayo, kodwa i-sexologist ithi akukho nto iyingozi kulokhu - isondo esinamandla sidinga ukuvuselelwa ngokwesondo.
Ngokukodwa ukususela kwintsimi eninzi, njengomthetho, i-swagger kwiisayithi zoononophala, ukutya, kunye nokuzincama "ngokutya" sele sekhaya kunye nomfazi osemthethweni.
Kungoko kunjalo, ukuba i-pornography iba yinto ethatha indawo yesondo eqhelekileyo-yilapho i-hubby ethandekayo imele ikhutshwe ngokukhawuleza kwimibutho ye-silicone. Ingcono - ngoncedo lomntu wesondo.
Yaye njengokuba iprophylactic yongeza ubuninzi kubomi obusondeleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha unokubukela kunye "iibhayisikobho ezindala" - oku, njengoko kuphawuliwe yiingcali, kuya kuvuya kumlingane ngaphezu kokubukela yedwa. Ewe, kwaye kuya kuba nethuba lokusebenzisa le ngcamango ngokusebenza. Futhi ungalibali iindlela ezibonakalisiweyo - amatsha amatsha, amathoyizi eentlobano zesini kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, iingubo zangaphantsi ezifanelekileyo.
Iintlungu zesini
Ukucaphukisa okuqhelekileyo kuyimpawu embi. Eyona nto ingozi xa inkathazo ithatha isibini kunye ... ngomnyaka wesithathu womtshato. Izidlo ezinzima ziphelile, i-Alas, kwiinyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwiminyaka emibini. Ukuze ulahlekelwe ngumdla, kufuneka udibaniswe nento ngaphandle kwezesondo, ezifana nokuzalwa komntwana.
... Eyesithoba - amadoda namabhinqa badinwa yintlungu yobomi bentsapho. Kwindoda yakhe ayizange ihambe ukufuna ukuqhutyelwa kweentaba zecala kwicala, kuya kufuneka ukuba ... ube yi-volcano ngokwakho.
Unyaka wamashumi amabini. Abantu bahlula isiqingatha sobomi. Isizathu sinesizungu sisodwa. Abantwana baye bakhula, njengokuba akukho nto idibeneyo. Ukuzilibazisa jikelele kuya kunceda apha: ukwakha indlu, ukuhamba. Kwaye isondo sinendlela engcono yokukhumbuzana ngomthando!
Iimpawu ezinhlanu zokugwenxa (okwenene okanye ezithe tye)
Ukuba nenxaxheba yomfazi okhohlwayo akuyithandi kakhulu. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba ziqwalasele iimpawu ezingqalileyo ezibonisa ukuhlaselwa.
1. Umkhwa wokuhlala emva komsebenzi, ingakumbi ukuba ngaphambi kokuba kungenjalo; ukutyelela rhoqo kubahlobo ongazi.
Ukuziphatha okungaqhelekanga ngexesha leengxoxo zefoni: iqabane lifuna
kwindawo ethile yokuhamba kunye nefowuni, ungatsho obizayo, uyicima i-SMS, njl. Okufanayo kusebenza kwikhompyutheni: iqabane likhiye i-laptop kwindlu yokuhlambela, ayikuvumeli ukuba ukhangele i-imeyile yakhe, usondele kufuphi kwesikrini, xa esebenza, ususe ngokusisigxina imbali yayo yeInternet. 3. Ukuhlala exhomekeke kwiingxoxo kunye nakwiintanethi zentlalo, abaninzi abahlobo bobulili obuhlukile kwiphepha lakhe.
4. Ukuziphatha okungavumelekanga ngokwesondo: iqabane okanye ngeendlela zonke liyakuphepha ukuthandana nawe, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, iyancenga kwimeko nganye efanelekileyo kwaye ingafunekiyo, engayigcinwanga ngaphambili.
Isimo sengqondo esithatha ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngokubonakala kwakhe: ukukhethwa ngokucophelela kweso, iphunga, ukuthenga ilinen ebiza, njl njl.