"Dushechka"
Lo ngumfazi onobubele, owamkelekayo nowomnandi olungele ukunceda wonke umntu. Ingxabano encinci kuye yinto ephazamisayo kunye nesibetho. Uyazibophezela ekukholiseni, akakwazi ukuthi "hayi", ngoko asebenza nabo abashisekayo bafaka amagxa akhe, imiba eyahlukeneyo kunye nemiba ephuthumayo. Into ephosakeleyo iphuma ngaphandle, kwaye ayinayo ixesha lokwenza nantoni na ngexesha. Abasemagunyeni bathukuthele, bonke abantu baxakeka, uyatshitshiswa.
Lakho iqhinga. Ngefomati eqondekileyo, cacisa kule sidalwa esilungileyo indlela "idiplomatic" kunye nokuthobeka okukhokelela kuyo. Ukunyanzelisa ngamandla iinzame zabalingane ukubeka umsebenzi wabo kulo mntu. Ukuba usebenza njengomkhuseli womfazi onokwethenjelwa nomnene, abaphathi baya kukubulela ukuba ingxaki ixazululwe ngokwayo, kwaye akazange aphazamise, ngoko uya kuzuza inhlonipho yabanye. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba nayiphina imenenja ayinandaba nendlela iqela lakhe lihlelwe ngayo, kufuneka ukuba wonke umqeshwa asebenze kunye nomsebenzi wakhe, kwaye ukuba ityala ligqityiwe ngexesha.
"Amava"
Le "ngcuka yokusebenza" yomama ithi ngaphambili ngaphambili basebenze ngokungafaniyo, kodwa kwaba ngcono. Uloyiko-loyiko loyiko lokulahlekelwa yigazi lakhe, kwaye ke indawo yakhe ukuze aphumelele isikhundla sakhe samanje, wasebenza ubuncwane bakhe ubomi. Wonke umsebenzi omtsha kuye ngumncintiswano onobungozi. Intsha entsha inokubhikisha kwiimpawu zakhe zangoku. Emva koko utsho umqeshwa omncinane nomthembisayo "uyisicwenge", kwaye ubiza ukuba izinto ezinokuqhelaniswa nokuchitha ixesha kunye nemali. Kancinci ukujikeleza kuye ngabaxhasi abaxhasiweyo: iindawo ezixhalabileyo; Ukuqinisekiswa kwamakhono abo, ukuba banokujamelana neendlela ezintsha; abathandi poshumet. Umsebenzi awuhambanga kakuhle kwaye iqela likhula ixesha.
Lakho iqhinga. Njalo qhagamshelana naye kwimibandela eyahlukeneyo, mbonise inhlonipho anikwe yona. Kwaye akukho imfuneko ukulandela isiluleko esilunikwe. Zama ukusondeza kulutsha. Ncoma kwinqanaba elutsha ukuba libe nomusa kubantu abadala, xelela "ingcuka endala" indlela abafana bakhe abancinane abahlonela ngayo abanye abantu. Qaphela ukuba le ndlela "yokudibanisa ngokugqithiseleyo" isebenza kuphela xa "abanamava" begula ngenxa yesizathu sabo esifanayo. Ukuba ucinga kuphela indlela yokuhlala ngoxolo noxolo kuze kube ngumhlalaphantsi, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukulungisa iingxaki ngokuthe ngqo kubasemagunyeni.
"I-Lenivets"
Uhlala ephuzile imihla ngemihla, kodwa ushiya umzuzu ngomsebenzi ukuya kumzuzu, ufuna iingxoxo ezingapheliyo kunye nokuvunyelwa kwezinto ezincinci eziphathisiwe kuye, ukuxoxa ngezihloko ezingaphandle, i-shirks ishishini. Wazigxotha kwishishini, kodwa ufuna imali, kodwa ukuba yonke into iyayicima kwaye ihlale edeskini. Xa imisebenzi isasazwa, "i-sloth" ihamba ngokukhawuleza phantsi kwetafile, ngoko kuphela ukuba ayiboni. Kuhlala nje ukucinga ukuba bavela phi: mhlawumbi izikhulu eziphezulu zithatha izalamane zabo, babengumuntu onobuqili ongenalithemba, nokuba badidekile ebomini okanye kwi-profession of a skeptic, okanye ngaphambi kokuba ube nexhoba lokungabikho kweengxaki.
Lakho iqhinga. Bonisa ukunyaniseka kwaye uthi awuyi kuphinda umboze ukungabikho kwakhe, ukukhawuleza nokumsebenzela. Kwaye ngoku kufuneka abe noxanduva lwezenzo zakhe kwaye abe noxanduva lwabo. Ukuba ungumntu onomgaqo, mfumana i-dossier, apho ulungisa zonke iimpazamo zakhe kunye nokulibaziseka, ngoko uye kumlawuli oyintloko ngengxelo epheleleyo. Oku akuwona umsebenzi olula, ngoko cinga ukuba unayo ukunyamezela nokuzithemba.
"Ingahleleki"
Unobhala eofisini ubeka iphepha lomshicileli kwikhabhinethi enye, iifolda kwelinye ikhamera, icoca kwi-closet yesithathu. Namhlanje ngumhla wokuqala wekhefu, kwaye akukho mntu unokufumana nantoni na. Ukusebenza kwisebe ikhubazekile, wonke umntu uhamba ngokukhawuleza efuna iishalafu kunye neebhokisi zephepha, ipensela, ejikelezayo. Mbizele ekhaya, kwaye kuvela ukuba ubusuku obudlulileyo, waguqula yonke into, ngenxa yecwangco. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba wonke umntu uyaqonda, kwaye wambiza, ufuna yonke into kwaye unomntu obalulekileyo.
Amaqhinga akho. Akukho nto inokuyifumana ngokumhlambalaza ngenxa yalokhu, ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa kunye nokuhlambalaza. Mhlawumbi, uziva eyanconywa ngabanye kwaye enesizungu. Zama ukusebenzisa isicwangciso esinjalo -mdumise ngomsebenzi omhle, kwaye ndixelele ukuba kuya kuba kuhle ukuba wabiza waza wachazela konke.
"33 iintlungu"
Kuloo nto ihlala ihlala njalo, ngoko ke inja ye-bungalow yokuhlala, ngoko inja yayidla inetyhefu ye-rat, ngoko intombi ayizange ibhale iphepha lokuhlola. Yingakho esenza umsebenzi ombi, zonke iingcinga zihlala kumyezo, izinja kunye nabantwana. Emva kwakhe, yonke into idinga ukugqitywa, kwaye kunzima ukuyihlambalaza, njengengxaki yakhe umntu akayi kubeka ityala. Abasebenzi banentloni baze baphazamise ukucasula kwabo.
Lakho iqhinga. Ukuba umntu osebenza naye unenkinga nomyeni wakhe okanye abantwana bakhe, mncedise ngendlela enobungane, mlethe ngemoto, umboleke imali. Kodwa musa ukumsebenzela. Akukho mntu unokukwazi ukuthwala imithwalo emibini. Ngenxa yoko uxanduva lwakho olujongene nalo lubandezeleka, kwaye akunjalo, kodwa uya kubangela ukunganyaniseki kwabasemagunyeni.
"Ukuxhalabisa"
Uxoxa ngesondlo esitsha kwimisebenzi yoshishini lakho. Uyaxwayisa ngeengxaki zonke zexesha elizayo, ebona ubunzima bonke, ubona ingcambu yengxaki, kwaye iziprofeto zakhe zizaliseka. Iziprofeto ezilungileyo ezivela kuye awuyi kulinda. Uloyiko lokungahlangabezane nalo msebenzi owenziwe, unobungozi obuphantsi. Izigqibo zakhe ezimnyama zifaka emphefumlweni wabalingani bakhe ukuxhalabisa nokungaqiniseki. Uqala ukucinga ukuba awuyi kuzuza nantoni na kwaye uyala ukunikezelwa ngenzuzo.
Lakho iqhinga. Mdumise, khumbula indlela ayekhe waphuma ngayo kwimeko enzima kakhulu. Mthembise uncedo lwakhe ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezithile, akukho nto efunekayo kuye, ngaphandle kokuxhaswa kokuziphatha. Omnye uya kukuxhasa kwizisebenza naye, kwaye ke ukungazinzi kwakhe kuya kupheliswa.
"Umphathi owamise"
Nangona ayinalo igunya kulokhu, lizibona liye libeka yonke into. Ukufezekisa yonke into imisebenzi engathandekiyo, ukuba kuphela ukuba ibe yinto engabonakaliyo kwaye iyingqayizivele. Yenza onke amalungelo anokufikelela. Akukho mntu olawulayo, aze eze kwiingqondo zakhe, njengoko iingcingo zikaRhulumente zisesandleni sakhe. Uchaza uluhlu lwemisebenzi yangoku, uchaza isicwangciso somsebenzi kwaye ufuna ingxelo. Abantu balolu hlobo badla ngokukhawuleza umfanekiso omeleleko wecala, baxhala xa beva imiyalelo echanekileyo baze benze ngokusemngciphekweni wabo, ngoko ke, lo mbandela uyanamathela. Ulawulo olunjalo olungabalulekanga lugxininiswa nabasebenzi, bayesaba ukuqhubela isicaphulo kwaye besaba ukuthetha ngokumelene nalo mntu, kwaye abaphathi abafuni ukubandakanya kule mpizo yangaphakathi. Inkqubo yomsebenzi inqunyanyisiwe.
Lakho iqhinga. Awukwazi ukukholisa lo mlawuli ukuba uphosakele, kuba unesithintelo esinqabileyo. Kungcono ukuxelela inkokheli yenyani ukuba sele esandula, engayaziyo.
"Inkwenkwezi"
Ungumqeshwa okhutheleyo noqondayo, ecasulwa ngabantu abanobudenge ngaphezu kwakhe. Ngaba mhlawumbi phakathi kwale "zizidenge" nguwe, kuba uhlala ehlenga amehlo akhe xa wenza into engalunganga, kwaye ikufundise indlela yokwenza. Akukho mntu uphulaphule icebiso lakhe, uyacaphuka, kwaye inani lamaphutha likhula.
Lakho iqhinga. Ndiyabulela izifundo. Musa ukunyamekela ukuhleka usulu kunye nezwi elidakisayo. Kungumnqweno wakho ukwenza umsebenzi ngokusemandleni akho kwaye ufumane ngaphezulu. Kwaye inkathazo yakhe enyanyekayo yingxaki yakhe.
Umsebenzi uyindlu yesibini, kwaye kuyo yonke intsapho kukho, njengoko kuhlanganiswe kukho:
Ubawo onzima
Umphathi, ohambisa izikhundla kunye nokwahlula imali, uzisa umyalelo, wenza inkqubo isebenze. Kwindima yintloko inokuba ngumfazi. Umntu ngamnye ophantsi komphefumlo ufuna ukufumana udumo kumpapa. Ithembo elungileyo libhekiswa njengento ekhethiweyo, engaqinisekiyo, engenangqiqo.
Umama onomusa
Oku kungaba yisekela le "papa oqinileyo" okanye ophakamileyo ophezulu. Mhlawumbi kule post kunye nendoda. Ubandakanya iincinci ezincinci: kungekudala ukunikezelwa kweengxelo kunye neengxelo, ukulibaziseka, ukuhlaziya kwiinkxalabo zabantu bonke, ukhusela "abantwana" bakhe "ootata ngokukodwa", uxanduva lwemoya kwiqela. Izingane ezinobungozi aziphulaphuli "mama", izinto zihamba kakubi, kwaye "u-" udityaniswe "utata" ungenelela ukugcina uqokelelwane. Wonke umntu uyacaphuka ngo "Mama", ukuba akawusindanga ekubambeni, kwaye akazange asebenze nalo msebenzi wakhe. Kwaye uxhatshazwa ngumoya.
Omdala udade
Unika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphatha umyeni wakhe, indlela yokuphatha isisu sesisu, indlela yokukhulisa umntwana. Uyenza ikhofi okanye itiye. Ngomnene nangokuthula uxela xa uhamba ngeeholide kunye neeofisi zeeofisi zelana neendawo ezihlala kuyo, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi zimi ngokumelene ne "papa oqinileyo".
Mzalwana oselula
Umlingane osemncinci uzele iingcamango ezingenangqondo, ngokwembono ka "Mama". Ezi ngcamango zingazisa inzuzo ngokwenene, enokuguqula umyalelo osisiseko. "Unina" uqala ukufundisa kwaye uthi akaqondi ukuxakeka kwemisebenzi, enokuthi uzimisele ukuyijonga. Uyakhuthazwa "ngumntwana osisigxina" kwaye akayiqondi isizathu sokuba iingcamango zabantu abaselula aziphunyezwe.
Ummangalisa
Umqeshwa wakho, ophumelelayo. Unceda wonke umntu, uza kudibana, akwazi ukuba nomona, simele samukele uncedo lwakhe, unqamle umona wakhe aze amomotheka. Akukho nto yokukhononda ngayo
Safunda indlela yokufezekisa ukuqonda kunye kunye nomoya onobubele kunaliphi na iqela. Ukulandela ezi ngcebiso, ungafunda ukuphucula umoya weengqondo kwiqela, ukuze kamva ungenayo ukufumana ubudlelwane, kodwa usebenza kuphela.