Ngoku, mhlawumbi, kunzima kunakuqala ukufumana indawo yokusebenza apho kungenakwenzeka ukudibana nomfazi. Ikhefu ayilona i-arhente yokunyanzeliswa komthetho. Ibhinqa esebenza kwi-arhente yezopolitiko zangaphakathi, ibe ngumthetho kunokuba yinto ehlukile. Ngoko yintoni na, lo mfazi ongaziwayo umphandi? Kwaye kunzima ukusebenza kumfazi kule ndawo.
Ukubukeka komntu
Ngubani ongachaza kakuhle umfazi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu. Ekubeni ienkolelo zesintu zisekelwe kwiingqinisiso ezicacileyo kunye namanani, akusiyo ingqiqo ukuthetha ngoluvo lweengqondo. Ngoko, abaninzi abanokholo kwengqondo bakholelwa ukuba lixesha eliphakamileyo lokuphuhlisa isitsha esitsha seengqondo ezinikezelwe kumsebenzi wabasetyhini. Ezi zifundo kufuneka zinike ithuba lokusebenzela umfazi kwaye ukhethe umsebenzi ngokuphathelele kwamakhono akhe, ngaphandle kokuqwalasela isini kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukushiya isikhundla "sesilisa" sibonakala "sisithandwa" sithandwayo. Ukufundisa okunjalo kuya kunceda abafazi ukuba bathathe imisebenzi efanelekileyo kwaye banqunyulwe ubandlululo ngenxa yesini. Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kwiofisi yomtshutshisi kunye namapolisa. Ngoku masicacise isizathu.
Ngamanye amaxesha amadoda akwazi ukwahlula abafazi kwizinto ezidalwe uthando kunye nalabo abadalwa ngomtshato. Kodwa kubaphandi besilisa abasebenza kwelinye iqela njengabasetyhini, omnye udidi lwabasetyhini lubonakala - abadalwa ukuba bakhonze kule ndawo. Ukwangoku, iqela lamasetyhini, umzekelo, iofisi yomtshutshisi, malunga ne-50% yabasebenzi bonke. Kwaye kumntu, umphandi wesibhodla ngokuqhelekileyo uluhlu olukhethekileyo lwabantu.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ibhinqa liyindoda, kwaye zonke iimpawu zesini aziyiyo. Kodwa kukho enye into yokwenza oko kuya kwahlula umphenyhini wesibini kwabanye abafazi abaqhelekileyo-ukukwazi ukufihla konke oku, kwaye ukuba kunyanzelekile, kunokuzisebenzisa ngokuzingca.
Ngamnye ngokwamakhono akhe
Ngokomphando, abasetyhini banamathuba omsebenzi anxulumene nokukwazi ukunceda abantu kunye nomsebenzi wokuhlala. Kule meko, ininzi evelisa ngakumbi kwi-ofisi yendawo. Kwakhona, ngokungafani namadoda, ibhinqa lizama ukugcina ulwalamano oluhle kunye neqela, kwaye liyancipha kwakhona. Abaninzi abafazi abaphumelele ngokwabo ababonisi ukubaluleka kwabo ngokucacileyo njengabantu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ibhinqa lingaze linyamezele iingxelo ezingekhoyo xa zivela ekubonakaleni kwayo. Ukungahambelani okunjalo, ngakwesinye icala, kwenza ukuba umfazi womphenyi abe ngumsebenzi osebenzayo kwaye, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akhuseleke lula. Kodwa, ekubeni ngumntu osondeleyo ekuqaliseni okubonakalayo kunye nokufihla imvakalelo, umfazi unako ukuqonda ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo zabanye, ukwenza imisebenzi engafanelekanga ngokukhawuleza nangendlela echanekileyo, ukukhumbula ulwazi ngokulula, nokucinga ngokuthe ngqo kwiimeko ezisekelwe kolwazi lwakhe kunye amava. Kwakhona inzuzo enkulu yabasetyhini ngamakhono abo okusetyenziswa ngokucacileyo. Yaye ukuba ucinga, akukhona kwiimpawu ukuba umsebenzi wophando kufuneka usekelwe? Ngoko kutheni ke esinye sezikhundla kuphela?
Ngelo xesha, ukuba ibhinqa liba ngumphenyi, ingcamango eyaziwayo kunye ne-intuition idlala kuyo. Ukuba neengcambu zemvelo kunye nolwazi lwezomthetho, umfazi akafuni ukwakha ietyathanga ezide kwaye uhlala esombulula imeko esekelwe kwicala lomthetho lo mbandela, okufunekayo kwindawo yakhe yangoku.
Ngokuphathelele ukuthembeka kunye nokusebenza, akunakwenzeka ukuba umfazi uya kuba neentlonelo kwaye mhlawumbi angaphantsi kokuphula umthetho okanye ukuziphatha. Kwakhona, abafazi basoloko bechanekileyo kunye nabaphenyi besikhashana, banako ukumbamba iinkcukacha ezincinci kwaye banamathisele ukubaluleka kubo. Abasetyhini bahlolisisa umcimbi woluhlu, odla ngokubanceda emsebenzini wabo. Kwakhona, abafazi abayikiyo amaxwebhu anxulumene nokuziphatha kwezemicimbi yezoqoqosho kunye nezoqoqosho, ngoko ke bayaphula ngokugqithiseleyo ubugebengu bolu hlobo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, abafazi baninzi. Banako ukudibanisa imisebenzi emininzi ngaphandle kokubunzima. Kwaye, ngokubanzi, abafazi banamandla ngakumbi, okwenza ukuba babe ngabasebenzi abavelisa kakhulu.