Enyanisweni, lo uluvo oluphosakeleyo. Kuphela ngabantu, uthando luyabonakala ngokukhanya okuhlukile. Ukuba uphupha ukwenza umtshato kwindoda, funda ngokucophelela isihloko sethu.
Yintoni amadoda ayibheka njengothando? Intombazana ifanele iziphatha njani nomthandi wayo kunye nokuthanda kwakhe ixesha? Indlela yokwenza intando kumyeni?
Siza kuhlalutya le meko kwimimiselo ethile, ngoko siya kufumanisa oko abantu babecinga ngothando kunye nendlela yokwenza umtshato kumyeni.
Imeko yokuqala . Ngobusuku obunothando. Nonke imini, njengomsebenzi-inyosi ejikelezayo kwindlu kunye nokulungiselela isidlo esingenakulibaleka kumntu oyintanda. Ubeka itafile, ukhanyise ikhandlela, ugqoke iingubo ezimnandi kakhulu.
Kwaye, yabonakala isikhulu sakho esilindelwe ixesha elide, indoda ethandekayo. Wavuya gqitha ukuba ulindele kuye ngokungaphelelwa ngumonde. Uhleli etafileni, sidla isidlo sakusihlwa kwaye ujabulele inkampani yomnye. Kulo mzuzwana, indoda yakho iyavuya. Uyakuthandana nothando kunye nomoya omnandi kwinkampani yakho.
Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni ngoko? Emva kokugqiba isidlo sakusihlwa, ucela umntu wakho ukuba akuncede ukususa etafileni. Kwakulo mzuzwana, kumntu, yonke into enokuyilungisa ngokugqithiseleyo ngokuhlwa kwanyamalala.
Ukuba ufuna ukudla isidlo sakusihlwa, khuphela indoda kumntu wonke ukhathalela indlu ngaloo mini.
Amadoda acinga ukuba nomdla wokutya emva koko akufuneki ukuba yi-dishwasher. Ukuba unokwenza umoya ololo hlobo, ke umyeni wakho ngokwakhe uya kufuna ukukunika ixesha lomtshato kwaye akudingeki udideke ngendlela yokwenza intando kumyeni.
Kwimeko yesibini . Uhlala uchitha iiholide kwaye uhamba njani kwintsapho yakho? Kungenzeka ukuba zonke iimbopheleleko zentlangano zihlala kumagxa entloko yentsapho - indoda yakho.
Yilungiselela iholide yakho ethandekayo - thabatha intlangano yeso siganeko. Ngokomzekelo, lungiselela wakhe usuku lokuzalwa. Ngomntu, isenzo sakho siya kuthanda kakhulu. Yaye uya kuvuya ngokukhathalela kwakho.
Imeko yesithathu . Yiba ngumhle. Amadoda athetha kakhulu ukulila. Yongeza kwisivumo sakho esincinci se-peppercorn - ihlazo.
Ngokomzekelo, bonani njengesipho kumntu wakho omabhokisi obonisa umdlalo: "Ndiyakuthanda, ibhere lami."
Yikholelwa ukuba indoda yakho iya kukuxabisa ihlazo lakho, uya kuvuya kakhulu.
Amadoda ayithandi ukuvakalelwa. Ufuna ukwenza umtshato ngaphandle kwendoda-musa ukumenza amacwecwe avela eSanta Barbara.
Kwimeko yesine . Amadoda acinga ukuthandana - musa nje ukwenza olo hlobo lwesini ngesondo. Ewe, ngokwenene, ngokwenene, abantu, isondo kunye nothando bafana.
Ukuba ufuna ukwenza uthando lomyeni - Yiba nzima, ungesabi ukuthatha inyathelo. Indoda yakho iya kuba nemihlali kakhulu, ukuba ekhaya akuyi kuhlangana naye kwisambatho esidala, kodwa kwintsimbi engaphantsi.
Le meko ngowesihlanu . Ngaba uye wakha wacinga ngezinto umntu wakho akuthandayo? Mhlawumbi uthanda ukugijima ibhola kunye nabahlobo bakhe kwibala lebhola? Okanye uphupha ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuya kwikhankaso? Umntu wakho uthanda ukulala embhedeni kunye nencwadi evulekile?
Ukufunda ngokugqibeleleyo yonke into efunwa ngumntu wakho. Futhi mnike isipho: ingaba yincwadi okanye uhambo lweebini kwiintaba. Nantoni na, into ephambili kukuba isipho senziwa indoda iphupha lizaliseka.
Amadoda nabo banothando, ngamanye amaxesha banokukufihla kakuhle. Amadoda abone izinto eziqhelekileyo zothando, oku, mhlawumbi, awunakuze uqaphele.
Ukuba umntu wakho akahambisani nokubonakaliswa kwothando, ngoko unako ukumnceda uze wenze intando yomyeni. Ndiyayixabisa njengoko kunjalo. Mbonise ukuba nguye indoda enhle kakhulu nothando kumhlaba kuwe kwaye awudingi abanye. Funda ukuthembela nokuyiqonda. Emva koko loo mntu ngokwakhe uya kuqala ukwenza izinto zothando kuwe.