Ngokumalunga nemilinganiselo yobuhle besetyhini ethetha kwaye uxoxisana, kwaye iifomula zamanqanaba omzimba zihoxiswa, kwaye ukukhangela nge povolokoy kuchazwa, kwaye isalathisi esifanelekileyo sesibindi sibonisiwe. Xa kuziwa kubuhle bamaphandle bendoda, umzekeliso uthi ukuba kuphela kulunge kangcono kunesilwanyana, ngoko kulungile. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda ngokwawo akavumelani nale nto.
Amashishini amashishini atyhulayo asakhulayo njengabasetyhini. Phakathi kwamadoda ababandakanyeka kwimidlalo, izinga eliphezulu kunabesifazane. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amadoda athwala e-gym ukuze abe namandla kwaye aqine. Le yenguqu yabo. Kodwa abafazi bayazi ukuba yonke le migudu yenziwa ukuba ibonakale phambi kokuhle emehlweni akho, ukuphosa, ukutshatyalaliswa.
Indoda ekhululekile kwimiselwane yentsapho nayo ishukunyiswa ngumnqweno ongenakunqweneleka ukuba ube mnandi. Oku kubangelwa yiminqweno yemvelo yokunyanzelisa ininzi yesini esilungileyo kunokwenzeka.
Ngaba ibhokhwe ibalulekile kumntu ngokufana nomfazi? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ingqwalasela eninzi kakhulu, imali eninzi inikwe abafazi, akukho mntu oza kunikwa. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda alandela imifashini yefashini kwintsimi yeenwele, aze akhulule iinwele, aze aphelelwe emhlabathini, acinga ukuba le nkqonkqo ibhetele kakhulu.
Kuba ubuso kunye nesikhumba somzimba, amadoda nawo kufuneka azinake. Eyona nhle isikhumba sombala ophilileyo, esingenanto yeengxaki eziselula. Abasetyhini abaninzi bathanda ukukhanya okungafihliweyo, kodwa kukufanelekile ukukhankanya ukuba amadoda amakhwele abomnyama kuphela avunyelwe ukushiya ubuso bristley. Iindevu ze-blondes kunye ne-redheads zibukeka zihlekisa kwaye azibangeli nantoni na.
Inani kunye nokukhula komntu kunokuhluka. Ewe, kuyinto enhle ukubona indoda eselula kunye neesisu ezinobunzima kunye nesisu esisisigxina. Kodwa loo mfanekiso awuyi kubhena bonke abafazi. Abameli abaninzi beqela labesetyhini bathi baqhwaba ngamadoda aneemfesane, kunye namahlathi amaninzi kunye namaziko atyiswa kakuhle.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zifumene iphethini elula eyahlula indoda enhle kwizinto eziqhelekileyo. Konke malunga nobukhulu bomzimba kunye nokudibanisa kwabo. Izitya ezinqamlekileyo kunye nobubanzi, amahlombe atyunjiweyo uyintloko kwiimpumelelo.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, indoda egqoke isicatshuthi nesinambathiso ibonakala ihle. Kwindlela efanayo yokuziqhayisa, ukuzithemba, kunye neembono zabafazi akukho zibane.
Kwintlanganiso yokuqala, abasetyhini banamhlanje, njengenkulungwane yokugqibela, baqala ukujonga izicathulo, ukuvavanya umgangatho walo, ukuchaneka, iindleko eziqikelelweyo. Enye yeengqungquthela zokuqala zihlala ngakwesokunene somntu, amehlo aya kuhlola xa engenayo intsimbi yokubandakanya eminwe.
Ukubuza umbuzo kwisini esilungileyo, luhlobo luni lwabantu abalubona luhle, abafazi baqala ukuluhlu lwedatha yangaphandle, kodwa ingqondo, ukuhlaziywa, ukukwazi ukuhlala kwindawo yokuhlala, ukuzithemba, ukucoceka kwiingubo, ukuvumba okumnandi. Ekubeni kulandela ukuba ubuhle bobukhulu bomntu bubusimo sakhe nesimo sengqondo.