Ebomini, imihla ngemihla senza ukhetho oluthile, ezinye zazo zichaphazela kakhulu ubomi bethu, kwaye ezinye azikhokeli kwiinguqu ezibalulekileyo ebomini bethu, nangona elowo ukhetho lwethu lunendawo yaso ebomini. Esi sigqoko okanye imoto, indlu okanye i-varnish entsha ayiyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuba senze ukhetho.
Sizikhethela thina kunye nabahlobo bethu bobubomi, okanye ama-satellites enxalenye yelo bomi. Kwaye ujongene nokukhetha, kufuneka ukhethe oko kukufunayo kwaye njengoko ufuna, kwaye ungagqithwanga kwiimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo zakho. Landela iingcamango zakho neemvakalelo zakho, zikhokelwa yintlupheko. Ndakuqonda kwakhona oku kwam namava. Kwaye ke, indlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo ukhetho lwakho, xa unabo abathandekayo ababini, kodwa behluke kuwe? Indlela yokwenza okulungileyo phakathi kwabafana abafuna ukusondela kuwe? Kunzima xa bobabini babesenenjongo ekhethekileyo kuwe, ngamnye udibene nento ethile ekhethekileyo, okanye ixhunyiwe, kodwa ngaba umdlalo wendima, ngexesha elidlulileyo okanye okwenzekayo okwangoku? Ngaba oku kukuchaphazela ukhetho olufanelekileyo?
Ekubeni bam ubomi kwakukho, ngokusemthethweni, kukho enye indoda enhle. I-blue-eyed blonde, kunye nomzimba we-Apollo. Ndamthanda kakhulu. Kwaye ndaqhubeka ndibuza ukuba yintoni eyamtsal 'umdla. Iminyaka emihlanu sathetha naye, ke akazange athethe. Kwiminyaka emihlanu, kukho enye i-chemistry engaqondakaliyo eyenza ukuphendulwa kweekhemikhali ezingaqondakaliyo, apho sasithandana khona, njengokungathi i-magnet. Kungekudala, asiyi kuthetha kwakhona, kwaye ndidibana nomfana ovuthayo utshaba kwaye ulungele ukuzalisekisa nayiphi na i-whims, ngesizathu. Ndiye ndikhululekile kwaye ndonwabile, nangona ukubonakala kwakhe kukude neApollonian. Ndandisoloko ndathi indoda kufuneka ibe yinto ehluke kakhulu kwidonki, ukuyihlula kwiinkwenkwezi. Ngoko ndavuma, kwaye ngoku ndaqonda ukuba akukho nto ingatsho nto. Ngokomgaqo, imbonakalo ayidlala indima ekhethekileyo kum, kuba kunomnye umcimbi ekukuphatha ngayo kunye nento emele ngayo njengomntu. Ziziphi iimpawu zomntu kuyo ziphuhliswe ngokukodwa. Yiloo nto ibaluleke kakhulu kumntu, kungekhona ukubonakala kwakhe. Ubonakala nje nje igobolondo yethu, ukupakisha. Into ephambili yinto ephakathi. Ngamhla, ngenxa yemveliso emgangathweni okanye emgangathweni, iipakethe eziqaqambileyo, ezintle zenziwa ukutsala ingqalelo yomthengi. Umgangatho omgangatho mveliso awufuneki ukupakishwa okucacileyo kunye nentengiso. Abantu, bembonakaliso obuhle, bahlala bebathandana nabo. Bazibeka, iimfuno zabo kunye neminqweno, ngaphezu kwabanye. Kwaye uthando lwam lwangaphambili kum, lathi, "Andiyidingi intombazana ekhalayo yonke imisonkwane ephukileyo." Ngokombono wam, le ntombazana isele iselelwe kwiijeni, kwi-DNA zilalela zonke izipikili eziphazambileyo kwaye ziphukile, kuba sibeka amandla amakhulu kunye neengqalelo kuzo, kwaye zizahlukana.
Wena ungumfazi, akudingeki ulungelelanise nendoda, ufuna ukuba lo mntu uya kulungelelanisa nawe! Ukuba uyaphula isikhonkwane, ufanele abe nesihe kuwe, amkele kwaye agxininise, kwaye ungathethi amagama anjalo. Ndiza kukhumbula la mazwi, mhlawumbi ebomini. Okanye akufanele yini ukunika ingqalelo engaphambili? Akufanele uyenze i-whims, kodwa ungowakho. Musa ukuba ngumgqomo kuye, kuba yileyo ndlela uwela phambi kwamehlo akhe. Ukuba ubuya emva kwexesha, kuya kuthetha ukuba uyamncenga. Phila ngoku.
Kwaye emva koko wandibiza, wathi ufuna ukuqala ulwalamano kunye nam, wathi utsalwe kum nge magnet, kwaye wayengenako ngaphandle kwam. Ukunikezelwa. Kubonakala ngathi iphupha lam lifezekile, kwaye ndivile phantse onke amazwi endifuna ukumva kuye. Mhlawumbi, ndandinento ethile ngaphakathi kwaye ndaphendula ngamazwi akhe, kuba ngaphambili ndadityaniswa nemizwa enamandla. Babenamandla kangangokuba sasingakwazi ukuba kunye. Ezi zikhumbuzo endandizigcina, zandibophelela kuye kwaye zigcinwe ngaphambili. Kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, ezi zikhumbuzo ziyakwazi ukuvuselela iimvakalelo zangaphambili kwakhona, kodwa ndinomfana okhoyo emva kwam ndiziva ngathi emva kwodonga lwamatye. Ndimkholelwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndimthemba, kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba akayi kuze andiyeke kwaye angandikhohlisi. Nangona ndandisoloko ndiphila ngomgaqo "akukho mntu unokuthenjwa." Ngaba kukho enye into onokuyifuna kubudlelwane? Ukuthembela kumlingane wakho - akuyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu?
Ndiyammkela, ndacinga ngamazwi kwaye ndinikela ngeyam, kwaye ngokokuqala ngqa ebomini bam andingafuni ukutshintsha. Ndandidanekile kakhulu ngombono wokuthi ndiza kumrhweba lo mntu wegolide olungele nantoni na kum, ngolunye uhlobo lwekratshi, ingqalelo yenkwenkwe. Iimvakalelo zethu nezimo zengqondo omnye komnye zinyaniseka kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukuba akunakwenzeka. Ndizama ukulungelelanisa kuye, kwaye uzama ukulungelelanisa nam, kwaye ngoko, silungiselela omnye nomnye, siphila ngokuvisisana. Ngexesha lokuqala ebomini bam, andifuni ukudibana naye kwakhona. Ngexesha lokuqala ebomini bam, andifuni ukugxotha okulungileyo, kuba ndiqinisekile ukuba iyona nto ibhetele isezandleni zam. Ndazi ukuba ndisezingalo ezilungileyo. Emva kwakho konke, ubomi siphikelela okulungileyo, sitshintsha amaqabane ethu njengeglavu. Khawucinge nje, "kodwa uthando lwam," ngokukhawuleza sigxininisa omnye umfana, kwaye siqala ukucinga, "Ngaba akuyena lo thando lwam, mhlawumbi ndiphosakele." Ubomi bethu bonke besaba ukudibanisa ubomi bethu nomntu ongafanelekanga, ubomi bethu sonke besaba ukulahlekelwa okulungileyo. Ngexesha lokuqala ebomini bam ndiqinisekile ukuba ndikhethile.
Mhlawumbi oku kukuthi uthando lubukeka njani. Mhlawumbi, ngoko wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo, njengoko ndenze kule meko. Into ephambili kukuba uqinisekile kwiqabane lakho, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba awufuni ukufuna olunye uthando. Mhlawumbi, lo luthando - xa ungafuni ukutya isiqhamo esinqatshelwe, kodwa ufuna ukuba nje kufuphi naye, kwaye uhlale umkhumbula, xa aphelelanga. Musa ukuba ngamabanjwa edlulileyo. Ixesha elidlulileyo aliyi kuba likhoyo kunye nekamva, okwangoku ingaba lakho ikamva. Musa ukuhlala kunye neenkumbulo, uze ungaqhubeki, ungazithembeki kwaye uthande. Khetha okwangoku ukwenza ikamva elilungileyo kuyo! Kwaye ixesha elidlulileyo liyakudonsa kwakhona. Ukuba wahlala edlulileyo kukho indawo kuye. Musa ukukhupha okwangoku.