Ukoyika abantu

Ukuba umntu uyayazi indoda engazange ibalekele kwizigulane ebomini bakhe, ayizange ingcangcazelanga phambi kokuhlolwa kwaye ayizange idikibala ngokufumanisa ukuba ubomi bugqityiwe, ngoko ke, kwakukho inxalenye ye-biorobot. UWilly okanye ngokungabandakanyeki, sonke sixhalabisa ngexesha elide, sizixinzelela, senze iliso kwezinye izinto ezincinci, nangona sisecaleni, mhlawumbi, sifumana ingcamango yeso sihlandlo okanye i-Dao-tzu.

Iingcali zengqondo zicinga ukuba uloyiko lokuba luyiyo yonke into engumntu. Kodwa bahlula kuyo, ukuthetha ngokwesayensi, "inqondo yengozi," i-phobia kunye ne-mania.

Ukuba isakhiwo sokuqala somntu sihle kuphela - kuba sihlakulela ukunyamekela kuyo, ngoko ke izinto zesibini neyesithathu ziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu: yonke into ixhomekeke kwisilinganiselo sokuphambuka.

Ngokwalo, ubukho bomntu obuthethayo akuthethi ukuba lo mntu uhlala edlula naphi na. Makuyike ukuba nibhabhise kwiinqwelomoya, kodwa ngesibindi uthathe uxanduva apho abanye banamahloni. Awuyithandi ukukhanya okukhanyayo emva komva wakho, kodwa kwiintlambo eziphakamileyo zentaba u-ac. Indawo ebuthathaka ye-psyche ihlawulelwa ngecala elomeleleyo lomlingiswa - oku kuyinto evamile. Ezinye iimbombo zisuswe ngempumelelo ngabaphengululi be-psychotherapists. Kodwa ke aba baqeqeshwayo bemvakalelo bayasilahleka xa bebona ukuba bangaphi abantu, ngokukodwa abatsha, abavela kwintsholongwane yokwalukwa kwabo, okuya kungena kwisimo sengqondo esaneleyo. Kwaye kukho izizathu ezijoliswe kule nto.

Ihlabathi langoku lizele iingxabano kunye nokuphikisana, jikelele kunye noluntu. Ayikho yonke intsapho inokugcinwa kwintlalo kunye nokunyamezela. Kwaye akunjalo wonke umntu onako ukuhlawula umvuzo. Ngoko ayikho indlela echanekileyo ngakumbi kunokuphuma ngaphandle kwendlela yokwesaba ukuya ekukhanyeni kwesizathu. Okokuqala, qalela apho ingxaki ikhona, kwaye ziphi iimvakalelo zakho.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, sonke sibheka ukugxekwa ngabanye - kwaye thina siqala ukubonakala singaphumeleli, sinyulu, singakwazi ukulawula imeko. Sinoyiki, siphikisana, okanye sitshatyalaliswa kwintlanzi - indlela eqhelekileyo yokukhusela yethu "mna". Kodwa ukuba, ngokungqinelana nomnqophiso owaziwayo wesilumko, siqala ukwamukela ngokuzinzileyo into esiyikwazi ukuyitshintsha, i-quibbles kwicandelo labanye liba ngaphantsi. Kwigazi elikhuselekileyo, awukwazi ukusela igazi: njengoko uyazi, i-vampires ithande izinto ezishisayo. Kuyibuwula ukuqonda ukwesaba kwakho njengesibuko somoya wakho. Ukuba liyibuko, liphosakele ngokupheleleyo.

Kwaye ukubonakalisa kuyo kukho imifanekiso. Mhlekise ngaye kwaye ulibale ngonaphakade. Ukwenza esinye isibuko apho wena, naphezu kweentsilelo zakho ezincinci (nje ngaphandle kwazo?), Khangela umdla kwaye ujabulise.

Masize uzame ukunqanda uloyiko lwenu ngethemba elibonakalayo - akunakunceda! Akukho ndawo emhlabeni apho yonke into yayiza kufezeka, wonke umntu wayeya kuphela eengubo ezimhlophe, kwaye ukufika kwabatshintshileyo kwatshintshilwa mahhala ngeiglasi ezimnyama kwi-pink.

Ukuguqula ukudideka kwakho, ukuzithemba. Kwaye uza kubona ukuba ukungaziphathi kwakho akubalulekanga xa kuthelekiswa nokufaneleka. Wonke umntu ngumqhekeza womsebenzi, kwaye kunjalo nawe! Uyazi into, uyazi into engcono kunezinye. Ngokuqhelekileyo, badumisa ngokwabo. (Mamela, kwaye mhlawumbi abanye bafanelwe le "ukuguqula" kwiindawo ezinxulumene nabo, ngokuqinisekileyo.) Banike ithuba lokuzibonakalisa elona lifanelekileyo, kwaye niya kuba neenqwenela ezilungileyo.) Ngokusoloko bethu ubuthathaka kunye nosongelo sinqwenela ukuwela ebuntwaneni bokuqala , xa ukukhuselwa kunye nokunyamekela kuxhomekeka kuthi ngokweenkcazo, nje ngokuba sinjani. Hayi ... ebuntwaneni njengomntwana! Chaza kumntwana ukuba ihlabathi elingaphandle kwamasango enkulisa liyinkimbinkimbi, kukho konke, kodwa kusekho ngaphezulu, kodwa kufuneka uzame ukuyifumana, kwaye wena, xa usakhulile, uya kuhlala uxhasa "umntwana", uchaze ukuba yintoni . Ngamanye amaxesha umntu akanako amandla okumelana naye, ngoko ke uxineke ngamandla, agxininise. Indlela egqibeleleyo yokukhulula amandla - amanzi aqhelekileyo. Akungento yinto yokuqala yokunika abantu kwi-presyncopal imeko yilagi yamanzi. Phuza ngamanzi amaminerali, geza isitya rhoqo, ukuba kunokwenzeka, udide.

Yaye enye ibonelelo: ukwesaba kuluhlobo lwesiganeko esiqaqambileyo, isizathu sokutshatyalaliswa kwemizwelo. Mhlawumbi inqaku liphela kukuba ebomini bakho akukho ukubonakala okwaneleyo? Fumana umsebenzi othakazelisayo, ngokuqhelekileyo ube phakathi kwabantu abathandekayo, ukuhamba. Fumana idayari kwaye ubhale phantsi zonke izinto ozibonayo apho, phawula yonke into eye ikuthintele okanye ikuthintele ngendlela enhle (kwaye akukho nto idibana ngayo!). Ukunceda abanye abantu kuyindlela ezukileyo yokufumana ukuzithemba kwaye ubuye ucinge ngeengcamango zakho zento enokuyinkathazo encinci kwaye yintoni inhlekelele yangempela. Ndikholelwe: baninzi abantu ababi kakhulu kunawe, kwaye akukho nto, yibambe-ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza nokuhlaselwa. Emotionally, ubuninzi bethu boyiko kunye nexhala aluyizindlovu kunye ne-buffalo, kodwa imikhombe kunye nezinyosi, ezimbi kwaye ziphazamisayo. Ukuzikhupha ngokusisigxina akunakwenzeka kumntu. Kodwa ngenxa yalezi ziqhinga ezingcolileyo, ukuguqula iminyaka yabo engcono? Abayi kulinda!