Iintsikelelo zomama yiyona nto inamandla kakhulu kumntwana. Ukukhuselwa kwamandla angabonakali kuhlala kunye nomntu ubomi bakhe bonke. Uhlala naye, kwaye nangona umama ekude okanye engasaphila. Ukudala uhlobo lwe-capsule ekhuselekileyo, intsikelelo yomama ikhusela kwiinkathazo, ukungaphumeleli, isohlo elibi okanye iziqalekiso. Kulo, umntu unokufumana amandla, ugqozi kunye nenhlalakahle. Ngethuba lokuqala umama unikeza intsikelelo kumntwana wakhe ebuntwaneni, emva koko yonke imicimbi ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe. Indlela yokusikelela ngokufanelekileyo abantwana? Kubuphi ubudala bokuqala, kwaye imiphi imithandazo yokuhamba nayo?
ISigramente Yentsikelelo Yomntwana
Intsikelelo yokuqala kufuneka yenzeke kwiminyaka yolwazi lomntwana. Kwiinkcubeko zasendulo zaseSlavic kwakukholelwa ukuba ulwazi luya kwiminyaka eyi-7-8. Umntu omncinci ucinga ngenjongo yobomi, uzichaza ngokwakhe kwaye ufunda ukuthatha uxanduva. Kule minyaka, umama unikela umntwana wonke amandla obomi agcinelwe kuye. Kukho isithethe sentsikelelo. Kungoku, njengentlanganiso yokuqala, iholide yentsapho yonke. Ngaloo mini, umntwana unikezwa ngezipho kunye netafile yokutya. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba umama alungiselele intsikelelo-uthenga i-icon yeNtombikazi, ufundisa imithandazo, ucinga ngamagama ahlukanayo. ISigrament of Blessing senziwa ngaphandle kwamangqina. Umama uthatha uphawu kwizandla zakhe kwaye, emele ngqo phambi komntwana, uthi "Umthandazo kaMama ngomntwana wakhe," emva koko ubiza umnqweno ngomnqweno onyanisekileyo, evela entliziyweni: "Ndikunika unyana / ntombi yam (igama) intsha yam intsikelelo ebomini kwaye ndi nqwenela wena ... ". Iimpawu zifanele zicatshangelwe kakuhle, zivumelane neminqweno yomntwana, zikhokele indlela yokulungileyo kunye nothando, kodwa akufanele ikhulise inkululeko yakhe yokuzikhethela. Ekupheleni kwesigramente, umama uyamanga umntwana aze amnike uphawu lweNtombikazi ecela ukuba alugcine kwaye aphendule kuye ngomthandazo kwixesha elinzima. Ukususela kulo mzuzu umntwana ukhuselwe nguMama kaThixo kunye neNjalelo kaMama.
Emva kwesigqithiso sesibusiso, unina ekuseni kunye nobusuku iintsuku ezisixhenxe ufunda umthandazo okhethekileyo: "Nkosi Ephakamileyo noMama kaThixo! Ngifake emfanekisweni woMama waseZulwini. Mxelele uthando lokwenene, ubabalo, ukunyamezela ekukhulisweni kwabantwana, endizinikela kwiNgcwelengcwele kunye nokunika umgcini wakho. Masike i-Blessing Mother to Life, ubukhulu kunye nokuchuma kudibanisa neyakho. Unomama onguThixo onguMama, oMtsha woKuvuselela koMoya, uphilise amanxeba ebantwaneni bakho ngoNothando lwaMama. Maye baphulukiswe baze baphuculwe eNkosini. UmNinzi uMfundisi wezulu, uMama kaThixo, esibingelelweni soMthando ongcwele. Ndimnike unyana wam ngaphandle kwentsalela (intombi yam) (igama). Hayi, konke okulungileyo, nceda ubone ukukhanya ekubandezelekeni, ngcwalise umbingelelo uze ubusise iNdlela. Amen. "
Iintsikelelo zomntwana emva kweminyaka eyi-14 kunye nomdala
Ukufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-14 umntwana ufunda ukusebenzisa amandla obomi adluliselwa ngumama. Emva kweminyaka eyi-14, kukho ukuphindaphindiwe, kwaye ngeli xesha isibusiso esibhaliweyo. Ngaphambi kokubhala ukuhlaselwa okulungileyo, umama ufunda "Umthandazo kaMama ngomntwana wakhe". Incwadi ingabhalwa nayiphi na indlela, kodwa ekugqibeleni inikwe: "Egameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. " Ileta ebhaliweyo itshiswa ngumama kwaye emva kweentsuku ezisixhenxe ubukele impumelelo yomntwana. Ukuba intliziyo yomama ayiqapheli utshintsho olulungileyo ebomini bomntwana, kufuneka ubhale kwakhona ileta. Unako ukunika intsikelelo ebhaliweyo kude uqale ukusebenza. Umntwana ongenayo umama kunye nomntu omdala ongazange athole isibusiso somama njengomntwana okanye akakwazi ukusikelela ngexesha langempela unokucela ukuba unyosi uyibusiso ngokubhaliweyo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uthathe umhlalaphantsi kwindawo ephumlileyo, ukhanyise ikhandlela, ubeke umfanekiso kanyoko (ukuba unayo) kwaye ufunde "Ukunyangwa komthandazo." Xa uxolo luza kunye nomphefumlo uhambelana nokudakalisa komthandazo, lixesha lokuba uqale ukubhala ileta. Kwileta, unokubeka onke amava akho okanye izikhalazo ezinxulumene nobuntwana, cela umama wakho ukuba axolelwe aze axolele zonke iimpazamo zakhe. Kuhle kakhulu ukuba umphefumlo uhlambuluka ngeinyembezi. Kubalulekile ukuba intlungu eqokelelwe kuyo kufuneka iphume. Xa iingcinga ziphela, ileta inokugqitywa. Ukuphela kwayo makube sisicelo sikamama ukuba asikelele. Olu hlobo lonyango alugcini nje lomelelo olomeleza iziteshi zamandla zomama nomntwana, kodwa lunefuthe elichaphazelekayo lokunyanga. Ekugqibeleni kokuvuma, le leta iyatshiswa. Kwiintsuku ezisixhenxe emva kwesicelo sesibusiso, utshintsho olulindele ixesha elide luvela ebomini bomntu, olubonisa "ukuhlaziya" kwexesha elizayo.