Iinkalo ezinomdla malunga nothando

Uthando. Akukho lizwi emhlabeni elenza ukuba uvuyo lube ngumphefumlo. Enhle okanye engonwabileyo, engathandabuzekiyo okanye "engcwabeni," nguye onokushenxisa abantu kwizenzo ezingalindelekanga kunye nokungenakuzimela ngaphandle kwemida. Kwaye kwangexesha elifanayo, ubunzima obubangelwa yiloo nto, zingaphi iimpazamo kunye nobuhlanya obwenziwe egameni luthando olufanayo. Unokukhanyela, ugweme, wamukele okanye uloyike, kodwa akukho mntu onjalo ongeke abe nomdla kwiimvakalelo ezingaqondakaliyo nezingenangqiqo.


Ukuzonwabisa kwengqondo yezobudlelwane

Abafundi abadumileyo bemiphefumlo yabantu - iingqondo zeengqondo ziye zazama ukuzama ukutyhila imfihlelo yothando. Emva kwexesha elide, bagqiba ekubeni indoda kunye nomfazi bahlala bebathandana kabini xa bedibana neemeko ezimbi kunokuba kunjalo kwintlanganiso, bathi emsebenzini. Kodwa ngelo xesha, abathandekayo abhalisele ukukhangela uthando ngo-rafting ngokugqithiseleyo kwi-kayaks kwimifula yeentaba badangelekile, ngenxa yokuba ukuvakalelwa kwothando oluye lwavutha kwiimeko ezinjalo zifuna ukuhlala unika i-adrenaline kwaye ngokukhawuleza kuqhuma ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Hayi, ukukhangela i-satellite ye-satellite ethembekileyo kudinga ukunakwa ngakumbi. Akumangalisi ukuba abantu bathi: "Izihlandlo ezisixhenxe, kwaye sele unqunywe." Ewe, oku kubakho ulwalamano oluchanekileyo nothando. Emva kokuba kwenziwe uhlalutyo lwamanani, izazinzulu zifumanisa ukuba umntu, ngaphambi kokudibana nomnye okanye omnye ukudala intsapho, uyamthanda ngokuphindwe kasikhombisa. Kodwa nakhona apha oogqirha beengqondo bafumana iingxaki: kubonakala ukuba amadoda nabesifazana bahlala bebathandana nabalingani babo, bekhumbula ngaphandle kootata okanye oomama abaye bafumana iingxaki ezingaphendulwanga ebuntwaneni. Abantu bazama ukusombulula iingxaki zabantwana xa bekhulile.

Ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga isayensi

Ngexesha leenkqubela phambili zenzululwazi, izazi zenzululwazi zizama rhoqo, ngoncedo lwengqiqo yazo, ukuba zenze le nto kunye nemfihlelo eyimfihlo yomphefumlo womntu-uthando. Umzekelo, wonk 'ubani uyazi ukuba ukuwela othandweni, sivame ukucinga umlingane. Kwakukho inkcazo yenzululwazi ngoku, ngenxa yokuba kwindoda ethandana neengcambu zeengqondo, ezijongene neemvakalelo ezimbi kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezinengqiqo, zisesimo sokulala. Olu luthando olusondeleyo lugqitha ukusuka kunyaka omnye ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu, ukwenzela ukuba abo babini banethuba elaneleyo lokudala intsapho, babe nosana kwaye banakekele umntwana ngexesha afuna kakhulu ukukhuselwa. Oku, kusenokuthiwa, yindlela yokuzivikela kwangaphambili eyayinikezela uluntu kwintsapho. Mhlawumbi yingakho kukho ubunzima bonyaka wesine wobomi obudibeneyo, apho abantu bahlala beqhawule umtshato.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, njengoko sele uqonda ukuba, ukuthanda ngqo kuxhomekeke kwiinkqubo zeekhemikhali kwingqondo yomntu. Indoda ethandwayo ichaphazeleka yi-dopamine-into ejongene nokuzonwabisa, yinto eyenza abo bajongene ne "inkqubo yembuyekezo" kwintsipho yengqondo yomntu. Kubalulekile ukuba imiphumo efanayo kule mimandla iveliswa yi-cocaine. Ngoko, ngokoqobo, uthando lunokulinganiswa nokuxhomekeka kweziyobisi, apho izazinzulu ziye zafumana iyeza elibizwa ngokuba yi-serotonin. Utshabalalisa umuzwa wothando, kodwa ukhenketho lwezesondo luyafana. Inqanaba le-serotonin lonyuswa ngoncedo lwabaxinzelelekanga.

Inxalenye ethile yembali

Ewe, uthando luyinto enzima, kwaye ukuba izazinzulu zizama ukuqonda izizathu zoluvo, ngoko uphando, njengoko bethetha, ebusweni. Imbali kunye namhla izele iziganeko ezithakazelisayo, ezaba yintando. Ukusuka ekuhlekeleni kwinto engacacanga, abanako ukungahloneli mntu.

Khawucinge nje, xa ebudeni beXII iConrad III yanqoba isixeko saseWeinsberg, wavumela abafazi ukuba bashiye isixeko baze bathathe kuphela into ababeyithwala ngezandla zabo. Kwaye abafazi bebekwe emagxeni abo amadoda kunye nabo bashiya isixeko. Ngoko uthando lwalusindisa amakhulu empilo.

Kunzima kakhulu ukubiza ngengozi xa iPushkin idlulisela inkondlo ethi "Ndiyakhumbula iMangalisa ..." ku-Anna Kern, kwaye kwiminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu uGlinka ubeka le mizila kumculo, ukunikezela indalo yakhe kwintombi yakhe u-Anna-Catherine.

Uthando luba nesimo esinamandla sokuba bonke ubomi emhlabeni baxhomekeke kuyo: abantu, izilwanyana, kunye neentaka. Ngo-2006, intombazana emnyama yasePetros uPetros, owayehlala kwelinye lamanzi aseJamani, wahlala ethandana ne-catamaran eyenziwe ngegosa elimhlophe elimhlophe. UPetra wayehlala eguqa ngokushona kwelanga, xa ehamba kunye nokubonisa ubundlobongela kwizihluthulelo ezaziza kwinqanawa engenanto. Ngelo xesha wavuma ukulala kunye nabesilisa. Kule ncwadana engaqhelekanga abantu bebukele iminyaka emininzi.

Abantu banamhlanje bathambekele ekuphumeni yonke indawo, kwintando. Mhlawumbi, nguye yena owashukumisa isibini saseBrithani ukuba aphule onke amarekhodi ngexesha lokubanga. Oku kumanga kwakungaphezulu kweeyure ezingamashumi amathathu nanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo, u kisses, njengoko kubonakala, into encedo kakhulu, kuba amadoda awakhanga abafazi bawo ekuphumeni kwemini, aphile iminyaka engaphezu kwemihlanu. Ngelo xesha, abantu abangama-65% abamangalayo baphendulela iintloko zabo ngakwesokudla. Ngexesha elifanayo kumaxesha kaRus ', amaFrentshi amanga iTatar kwaye icawa iyaligxeka kakhulu.

Egameni lomthetho

Uthando lulawula ihlabathi, kodwa ihlabathi, njengoko livela, lihlala lizama ukuyigxotha ngamalungelo ayo, ngelixa ngokusemthethweni nakwinqanaba lomthetho. Impumelelo enkulu kule ndawo yenziwe ngabantu baseMerika, eminye imithetho efana ne-anecdote. Zigwebe. Kwinkunzi enkulu yokwakhiwa kwemishini yaseMerika, iDetroit iyanqatshelwe ukuba ithandane emotweni, kodwa ukuba imoto imiswe kwintsimi yomnini, ngoko umthetho ulahlekelwa ngumphumo. Kwi dolophu yaseConorsville akunakwenzeka ukudubula ngelixa le-orgasm yomfazi wokudubula. Umthetho we-Iowa uthintela ukwenza i-sips yebhiya engaphezu kweyesithathu xa ulala nomfazi wakho okanye uyithwala ezandleni zakho. Kodwa ngubani ongabethethi amaBrithoni ngokubamba okude, ngoko ke abathandi baseMalterna, kuba abanakunqana omnye ngaphezu kwesibini. EMinnesota, ukuthintela isondo kunye nemifuno. Kodwa kwiphepha kubakhenkethi abaqokelele eMzantsi Dakota, musa ukwenza uthando kumahotele phakathi kwebhedi, ukuba awufuni ukuphula umthetho. Kwesinye sezixeko zaseburginia, uya kuphelisa ukukhanya ngexesha lesondo, ukuze ungabi kwi-dock. Ewe, kunzima ukucinga indlela abalawula ngayo ukuphunyezwa kwale mithetho.