Iingcali zenzululwazi zenze uvavanyo kwaye zibalwa zihlandlo zingaphi indoda nomfazi bathandana ngomnye emini. Ngokwezimo zolu cwaningo, abathandi babefanele balungise inani lenkumbulo yabo abathandayo. Iziphumo zaziqikelelwa. Abasetyhini bacinga ngento yabo yothando ukususela kuma-20 ukuya kuma-60 amaxesha, kwaye amadoda - kuphela ama-4-5 amaxesha. Iingcali zengqondo zichaza oku kuphazamiseka okubangelwa kukuba amadoda agxininisa kwimicimbi yangoku kwaye ayifakwanga kwimisebenzi emininzi ngexesha elifanayo, nokuba uyayithobela intliziyo. Nabasetyhini, yonke into iyahluke. Bayakwazi ukujongana nezinto ezininzi ngokudlulayo, kwaye uqhubeke unemvelaphi yeengcamango okanye iinkumbulo. Ngokwenyama, akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu acinge ngaye. Kodwa unakoloko usebenzisa i-psychological, amandla kunye nobuchule bomlingo obuya kunceda ukulungisa iingcamango, ngoko ke entliziyweni yomntu othandekayo. Kuhlala kuphela kukukhetha ukwamkelekileyo ngokwabo.
Indlela yokwenza umntu acinge ngaye ngokwakhe: iingcebiso zeengqondo zeengqondo
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zithintele ingqalelo yindoda engumntu, ikhulile kuye uhlobo oluthile lokuxhomekeka kuye kunye nobukho bayo kwiingcamango zakhe:- Ikati kunye ne mouse. Amadoda ayaphikisana nemigqabango kunye neengcinga. Ukuba ngaba ngobuqili "baphenduka", oku kuguqula indoda, ivuselele iinqwenela zakhe. Ngaloo mkeleko, ewe, ufuna umntu osele unomdla. Ukuthandana, ukunxibelelana okuthakazelisayo kunye nemihla emibini - oku kuya kukwanela ukuqala ukudlala naye "kwikati kunye ne mouse". Emva kwengxoxo efudumeleyo, yaphela ebomini bomntu iintsuku ezimbalwa. Umoya womzingeli uya kuvuka kuye, kwaye akanakukunceda ukucinga ngawe. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ungagqithisi-ukukhusela intlonelo, ngaphandle koko umntu uya kukujonga njengelithi "dynamo".
- Umbutho. Kwizengqondo, ukudala imimandla emnandi enxulumene neenkumbulo kuthiwa i-anchoring. Unako "ukumisa" umntu wakho ngokuzixhuma kwimemori yakhe ngamava amnandi. Umzekelo: i-cinema, i-movie, ibanga kumqolo wokugqibela we-cinema. Njalo xa umntu ebona abalinganiswa abakhulu beli phephancwadi kwiimidiya okanye uva umculo, uya kuzikhumbula ngokuzithandela ezo zibalo ezinomdla kunye nawe. Ukumva, nayo, yindlela engcono yokukhupha izikhumbuzo. Ngaphambi kokuba udibana nomntu, sebenzisa iincontswana ezimbalwa zezinto eziqhubekayo, ezithandekayo nezithandwayo ezikwisandla sakho. Makuvumeleke ukuba loo mntu asebenzise ukuthunga. Ngaphezu koko, naphi na ukuyiva, iphunga laliya kulungiswa ngokuqinisekileyo kwimemori yakhe inxulumano nawe.
- Ikhowudi yegama. Khetha igama elingavamile (elingaqhelekanga kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla) kwaye ubabize, umzekelo, ngesondo nomntu wakho. Ngexesha okanye emva kwesondo, uthi: "Lo nguThixo!". Phinda igama rhoqo ngamaxesha kwaye ujonge indoda kuye. Sebenzisa le "khowudi" xa ufuna ukubiza umnqweno wakho ngezinto ezimnandi. Ngokomzekelo, bhala umyalezo malunga nekhekhe elimnandi likaThixo olidla ngalo isidlo sasemini. Eli gama liza kubamba ngonaphakade emqondweni womntu kwaye, emva kokumhlangabeza ebomini bemihla ngemihla, akayi kukukhumbula ngokucacileyo kwaye malunga nento eli gama lithetha ngayo isibini sakho.
Indlela yokwenza umntu azicingele yena ngokwakhe: iingcebiso ze-esoteric
Ulwazi lwe-Esoteric lunceda ukususa umgca phakathi kokubonakala kunye nenyaniso. Sebenzisa iindlela eziphumelelayo kule:- Esoteric "hypnosis". Ungagcwalisa ingqondo yomntu ngeengcamango zakho:
- Qinisekisa ukuba ulele (kufuphi) okanye uya kulala (ukuba umgama).
- Thetha phantsi kwaye uphumule (unokucamngca ngaphambi kokuba usebenzise umxholo wokukhupha ikhanda lakho lokukhathazeka emini, iimvakalelo kunye neengxabano zeengcamango).
- Zalisa iingcamango malunga nomntu wakho: umfanekiso wakhe, ukuvumba, ukubheka, indlela yokuthetha, ukuhamba, njl.
- Xa umfanekiso ucacile kwaye uqinile, ingqondo ishukumele kumntu kwaye ungene kumandla omzimba wakhe, ingqondo, ingqondo.
- Thumela imiyalelo ethile kwiingcamango nezenzo ofuna ukuba azuze.
- Yethula ekuzileni kwakhe umfanekiso oqaqambileyo, "mfundise" ukuba acinge kwaye azive.
- Ukholo oluthembekileyo. Yamkela entlokweni yakho ukuba unobungozi obungenasiphelo sokuba wena kunye nomntu wakho isibini esibalulekileyo. Vumela ukuba ugijime ngenjongo emafini. Khawucinge, kwaye ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzive zakho iimvakalelo ezibangelwa ngcamango ecacileyo malunga nendlela odibene ngayo, umzekelo, ukulungiselela ukutya (ukuziva ukuvumba kokutya, ukunambitha kokutya okulungeleyo, amazwi kunye nezenzo ozenzayo / zenze kunye); yenza uthando, fumana iindwendwe, njl. Phila kuyo, kodwa uqaphele. Ukuze usebenzise, thabatha ubuncinane isiqingatha seyure ngosuku. Ngenxa yoko uya kukhwankqiswa!
Indlela yokwenza umntu azicingele yena ngokwakhe: iingcebiso zabagqirha
Bonke abafazi ... Kuyisono sokungazisebenzisi ngesipho sesiko ukuze uthole iingcamango zentliziyo yomntu:- Thetha ukutya. Xa ucwangcisa isidlo sangokuhlwa, senze icebo kwisidlo somntu oyithandayo xa uyipheka. Ngenxa yesi siko, kufuneka ugcine imigaqo emininzi: thandana ngokufanelekileyo, hlangana inqwaba yeenwele, ugqoke iimpahla ezicocekileyo. Inkqubo yokulungiselela ihamba neyoma ngothando olumnandi kunye namazwi athando malunga nomntu wakho. Cinga ngendlela efanelekileyo, khumbula ixesha lakho lonwabo kwaye upheke ngothando. Ukuzalisa isitya kunye namandla othando, uxela injongo yakho yokonwaba nale ndoda ethile. Yaye ke, ukuba udlile isidlo semilingo, wacinga ngaye, ukuhlekisayo ngaye: "Yiza-cinga ngam, hambani -cinge ngam, ulale, ndiphuphe, vuka, undibone ndikhawuleze."
- "I-Napote" ngeengcinga malunga nawe. Ngexesha lomthendeleko wothando, qiniseka ukuba isiselo esininzi yiwayini elibomvu. Phuza encinane kwiglasi yakho, kwaye ufune ukungena emgodini wendoda, ngengqondo okanye ekumongeni (ngokubhekiselele kwimeko) uthi: "Phuza, uphuze uze ukhumbule." Yiba nethemba, indoda, nokuba uyayifuna ngokwenene, ayikwazi ukulahla iingcinga ngawe. Kwaye iingcinga zenza izenzo.
- Yondla isonka esithanjisiweyo. Pheka phezu kwesiphi na isonka sesonka kwisinambu. Mthumelele kwindawo efudumeleyo ukufudumala. Xa ubunzima buqala ukugquma nokuphakama, uqoke i-thimble ye-liquide kunye nokusela, uthi: "Ngentliziyo yam, inhlama iyawa phantsi, kwaye (egameni lomntu) kuya kuvela ingcamango yam." Bhaka isinkwa uze uphathe umntu.