Inxalenye ethile yembali
Oko sikubiza ngokuba ngumthi namhlanje, eqinisweni, kwakuyinto enyanzelekile yenkcubeko yokuzala ngexesha lobuhedeni kwaye lalibonakala lendalo ngokwemvelo. Ukuqinisekiswa kwesi sikhulu esikhulu samadolophana ahlukeneyo, iidolophana, iidolophu nemilambo, okwakusukela kuloo nkqubela yaqala ukunyaniseka, ngokwemigangatho yethu, amagama. Nangona kunjalo, ngokusasazeka kobuKristu eRashiya, amagama omhedeni adluliselwe kwiqela lokuhlazeka kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe waqala ukutshintshwa yicawa, kuba babebizwa ngokuba "bangcolileyo." Kodwa ukufungela amagama kusekho ixesha elide alizange lilahlekelwe ukuthandwa phakathi kwe-Old Believer stratum yabemi. Kwaye ngokusemthethweni bavinjelwe kwiingcaphuno ezibhaliwe kuphela ngekhulu le-18.
Ukusetyenziswa kolwimi oluxhaphazayo
Kwaye namhlanje, njengeminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, iziqalekiso azigcini nje ngamazwi. Iingcali zenzululwazi ezibandakanyekayo ekufundweni kolwimi, zibalwe ukuba isigama sokuxhaphaza senza imisebenzi engaphezulu kwe-15 eyahlukeneyo. Ngoko, ngoncedo lokufungela, unako ukuphakamisa ukuziphatha kungekuphela kwakho, kodwa kukhuthaze nokufezekiswa kwabanye. Ngezinye izihlandlo ezihlazo zivumela umntu ukuba anciphise uxinzelelo aze athole uhlobo lokuzimela. Ngoko ke, ukuba into enzima, njengensimbi, ngokukhawuleza iyawa enyaweni lwakho, ngoko ukuba uthetha nje into ethi "oh, ibuhlungu into enjenge ...", uya kuba uziva uxinzelelo ixesha elide, kwaye ukuba nawe ngeli xesha ufungela kakuhle, uya kuziva ukhululekile ukuziphatha.
Iilwimi zolwimi ezingcolileyo zisebenza njengentetho nomsindo kubantu abangathandekiyo kwaye zisetyenziselwa ukwethusa kunye nokwesabisa umdlali. Njengokuba kwizilwanyana, izilwanyana ziyakhula, zakha i-grimaces ezimbi kwaye zibopha iinwele zabo njengoko intshaba iyasondela.
Olunye umsebenzi wolwimi olungcolileyo luyakwazi ukujamelana noloyiko kunye noloyiko nalo. Echazwa njengamazwi "amabi", umntu njengoko edala uhlobo lokhuselo oluzungezile kwaye uzive eqinisekile.
Nangona ukuba iziqalekiso zibonakala zibonakala zendalo kwaye ziyimfuneko, kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba akusebenzi bonke ngendlela efanayo. Nangona okwangoku, xa ubunzima beenkcubeko zithwaxhambileyo (sinokuva ulwimi oluthileyo kwirediyo, ukusuka kwithempyutheni yeTV, ukufunda emaphepheni amaphephandaba), abanye abantu abanalo umkhwa wokuzivakalisa kwabo bonke, kodwa kukho abo abangathethi nje, kodwa behlala bethetha ngokuthetha kakubi.
Kuya kuxhomekeka, okokuqala, okokuqala kwimfundo. Ukuba ngaba abazali baye bafaka isimo sengqondo esilungileyo ebuntwaneni babo, ngoko, emva kokukhula, umntu uya kubalandela ngokuzayo. Okungabalulekanga kakhulu uhlobo lohlobo kunye nenkqubo yesifo somntu. Abantu abahlaselayo - baxakeke ngokukhawuleza kwaye banokukhawuleza, basebenzise amazwi angcolileyo ngokuqhelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo kunezigulane ezicwangcisiweyo. Nangona kunjalo, kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba umntu okhuliswe kwintsapho yenkcubeko eneengqondi kwaye engahambelani nomfanekiso weendawo zokunikwa kwama-motherfucker ngamazwi ahlambalazayo. Intombazana ethobekileyo, entle, ethandekayo, ehlambulukileyo egqoke kwaye enomsolo obuncinci ebusweni bakhe ngokukhawuleza inika ukuba iindlebe zakhe zenzeke kwi-tube. Akunakwenzeka ukukholelwa ukuba ngokubanzi uyakwazi loo mazwi! Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba wazifunda ngokukodwa, ukuze azive ekhululekile kwaye ekhululekile kwiimeko ezithile. Okanye kwenzeka ukuba umqeshwa usebenze bonke ubomi bakhe kwiqela elinzima, apho kungekho magama anamandla, akukho msebenzi okanye iprojekthi eya kwenziwa ngexesha. Iqela liye latshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwaye umkhwa wolwimi olungcolileyo ugcinwa.
Xa kuthelekiswa namadoda, abafazi basoloko basebenzisa ulwimi olungcolileyo. Yaye kungekhona kuphela kuba emzimbeni wesifazane i-hormone ye-testosterone ayivelwanga ngaphantsi, eyona nto ixanduva lobundlobongela, kodwa ngenxa yokuba yamukelwa kuphela kwiinkampani zamadoda. Ukuba umfana osemtsha engayazi iziqalekiso ezingcolileyo, kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuba ajoyine inkampani. Indoda ekhulile engakwazi ukubonisa intsingiselo yencoko yonke emagqabini ambalwa asisiseko, mhlawumbi ayiyi kuba yinkokheli. Ngokubanzi, inyaniso, uluntu ngokubanzi alubi malunga nokusetyenziswa kwemfazwe. Kwaye ukuba ukuphuma kwamagama angcolileyo kuqondiswa kuthi, kubonakala ngathi kakubi kwaye kuthathwa njengento engenakuhlonela.
Indlela yokulahla imikhwa emibi
Kukho enye ingozi: kubonakaliswe ukuba intetho yethu kunye nobuchule beengqondo zibandakanya. Ukuba sinomkhuba wokuthetha ngohlobo olufanayo lweemeko zetemplate (kunye nemathematika ngokuchanekileyo kwezi mpateni), oko akuvumeli ukuba ubuchopho bethu buphuhlise.
Iingcali zeengqondo zaseBrithani ziye zahlalutya intetho yamakhulu amabhinqa angamakhulu amaninzi kwaye yafumanisa ukuba intetho yeyona ntombazana ichanekile, yimpumelelo kakhulu ekuphambi kwayo kunye nasekusebenzeni kwayo. Iikhosi ezizodwa malunga nokuphuhliswa kwentetho zihlelwe, apho kuqhutywe khona imizekelo eyahlukeneyo yokukhupha intetho yamagama angama-parasitic, kuquka okungekho okungaqinisekiyo. Ngoko, endaweni yegama "elibi" kufuneka uvakalise ukungabonakali, kungabandakanyekanga kwingxoxo igama, umzekelo "gypsumff", endaweni ye "e-klmn", "devil" okanye "pancake". Umntu, xa esenza indawo enjalo, uyaqonda ukuba ibinzana lizwakala lihlaziye kwaye lihleka, nje ngokuba iziqalekiso entetho yakhe azifanelekanga. Enye indlela yokukrazula i-lexicon ukuthula. Emva kokusebenzisa ulwimi oluhlambalaza, abantu bavame ukufihla ukungakwazi kwabo ukuzakhela ngokufanelekileyo intetho, ukubeka izikhalazo kunye nokuyeka. Ukongezelela, ukuba ufunde ukuhlala ulele, abantu bafunda ukuphulaphula umnxibelelwano, oko, uya kuvuma, umgangatho obaluleke kakhulu kwaye uyigugu.
Ezinye iinkcukacha malunga neemeko ezintle kunye nezimbi zokusetyenziswa kakubi.
Mpe mbelelo
- Ukusetyenziswa kwamazwi aqinileyo kwandisa ubomi. Ezi zigqibo zenziwe ngamagqirha aseMerika kunye neentlalo-ntsapho. Emva kokufunda indlela yokuphila yabantu abangama-230, bafumanisa: ukuthetha ngokucacileyo kuyiluncedo kwimpilo. Abo bawenzayo, banomgangatho ophantsi we-cortisol ("i-hormone yokucindezeleka") kunye ne-endorphin ephezulu ("ihomoni yolonwabo").
- Intetho engenakuguqulwa iyomeleza umoya ohlangeneyo. Iingcali zeYunivesithi yase-East Anglia zifumanise ukuba ukuhlambalaza kubancedisa abasebenzi ukuba baqhagamshelane, kudala umoya okhethekileyo wokuqonda nokuthembela. Kwaye akuxhatshazi nje kuphela kwindoda, kodwa kunye namaqela adibeneyo.
- Izikhalazo zinciphisa umtsalane womntu. Iingcali zengqondo zentlalo ziye zabonisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwintetho yesini esilungileyo kuchaphazela kakubi ukuvavanywa kwabo ngamadoda. Bonke abasetyhini abafumana amanqaku aphezulu ngesiseko sokufotwa kwezithombe bawela emehlweni abantu emva kokuba babonise (kwividyo kliphu) ukuba bakwazi ukuzityhila ngokuzenzekelayo.
- Iqalekisa ilahle iimoya. Kuthatha amaxesha amahlanu ukuva amazwi angcolileyo kwiTV, indlela ukuhlaselwa kwemizwa - kukho i-alamu, ukuziva "into ephosakeleyo." Iingcali zeengqondo zezingane ezisuka eUnited States zikholelwa ukuba umsebenzi wokufaka umzali. Sonke sifunde ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuba kukubi ukufunga.