Unokuwufihla itafile ngaphambi kokuba iindwendwe zakho zifike, okanye xa iindwendwe zakho zihlangana kunye nexesha lokuzilana ngokubanzi. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, musa ukunyanzela iindwendwe zakho ukuba zilinde ixesha elide. Bayakwamkela, ngokungathi akukho nto ikulungele ukufika kwabo. Ukudibana neendwendwe ngokukhawuleza, ungayikhohlwa kwigumbi apho unayo indawo yokugcina ixeshana yezinto owazama ukuhlambulula ukufika kwazo. Ungavala igumbi uze utshele iindwendwe zakho
Musa ukukhumbula apho ungayifaka khona iqhosha.
Ukuba iindwendwe zikutyelela okokuqala, kufuneka ubonise indlu yakho, ukuze bazive bekhululekile ukuhlala ekhaya.
Ukuba iindwendwe zakho azizi, kufuneka uzisile, kodwa emva kokuba wonke umntu ekulungele. Ukutshata kufuneka kuqhutywe kwigumbi lokuhlala, xa zonke izinto zidibene. Imikhosi kufuneka imema wonke umntu etafileni kwaye imema ukuba bakhethe ukuba bahlale phi. Musa ukuxelela iindwendwe indawo yakhe, kufuneka akhethe yena apho uya kukhululeka kwaye akhulule.
Sidla ngokuqhelekileyo ukubonelela ngeendwendwe zokundwendwela, akukho mfuneko yokwenza oku, kuthathwa njengoluhlobo olubi kwaye aluhambelani nemigaqo yokuziphatha. Ukuba isivakashi sakho sifuna ukuya endlwini yakho kwi-slippers, unokuthatha nabo.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza awufuni ukusela namhlanje kwaye wanquma ukuphumla isibindi sakho, akudingeki ukuba utshele iindwendwe zakho ngeengxaki zakho kwaye kutheni namhlanje ungafuni ukuziphosa ngeglasi. Yitsho nje ukuba awuselali namhlanje. Cinga ukuba ufanele ufumane emva kwesondo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba ucinga ngeendwendwe zakho ngelixa ungabacaphukisi kwaye ungazilayishi ngeengxaki zakho.
Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba namhlanje kufuneka unike ngamnye umntu ingqalelo kwaye ungaphukisi mntu. Ukuba le ndlela ibashiye kuphela ukubonakala okulungileyo. Yiba neentlone kwaye utyumke kaninzi. Emva kokunxibelelana neendwendwe ngokumomotheka, unayo wena.
Ukuba unamhla, xa iindwendwe zifika kuwe, zibuhlungu, zama ukufihla imvakalelo yakho yonke indlela. Iindwendwe zakho akufanele zive ngenxa yokuba oku kunokugubungela ukuphumla kwabo. Njalo unomdla kwinto enye abayidingayo. Yiba neentlonelo kunye nokwamkela izihambi.
Ungalokothi uthintele kwiindwendwe zakho ukuba lixesha lokuba bahambe. Basenokukhubekiswa kakhulu ngale nto kwaye abayi kuphinda bakutyelele. Ngelo xesha baya kuxelela abanye indlela owakubonisa ngazo zonke izinto zokurhoxa. Lindela de iindwendwe zifuna ukushiya indlu okanye indlu.
Ziphathe ngokubhekiselele kwabanye kwaye ufumane ngokubuyisela ukufudumala nokuhlonipha.