Kunobungozi kakhulu kwimeko ngokucwina komntwana ukuba asebenze ukuze amsindise, engazi indlela yokwenza emanzini. Kubalulekile ukukhumbuza ukuba ukuba uyazi ukuba awukwazi ukugcina umntwana ngenxa yeemeko ezithile (ininzi yebhanki ukuba awukwazi ukuba udide, kwaye umntwana udibanisa ubunzulu), ngoko kufuneka usebenze uze ubize umntu ukuba ancede, kwaye ungazitholi emanzini. ukuzibeka engozini. Njengoko uqonda, akuyi kubakho ingqiqo kulo, kwaye ubukhulu bentlekele buya kwanda.
Enyanisweni, ukuba imeko eyingozi ivele, kumzekelo, elamini, okanye ukugwina kwengane encinane kakhulu eyenzekayo kwindawo yokuhlambela - ngoko unokukwazi ukufikelela ngokukhawuleza okanye ukunyuka emanzini ukukhupha iimvuthu. Kwezinye iimeko, ngaphandle kwamakhono okubhukuda, wena namanzi akufanele ukhuphuke. Ndiyathemba ukuba le mizila iya kukuqinisekisa ukuba kufuneka uhambe echibini, ukwenzela ukuba abaqeqeshi bakufundise ukubhukuda - olu buchule luncedo ebomini.
Ukuba imeko ngokumisa yenza kube lula ukufumana indoda egxininisayo ngoncedo lwezinto ezilungele ukulungelelanisa - le ngenye into. Ukuphosa umntwana umgca wokuphila okanye i-waistcoat, thola intonga ende kwaye mvumele ukuba ibambe isiphelo sayo - kwaye ngokukhawuleza umdonsa umntwana ogwini. Ukuba ubona isikebhe okanye i-kettle kufuphi nxweme, umemeza kubasebenzi abaye bazela phantsi kwabo.
Siyabona ngokukhawuleza, unonophelo lwengxamiseko kufuneka lunikwe ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokuqonda imibuzo enjengokuthi: kumanzi aphi umntanakho ococekileyo-onosawoti okanye ontsha? Iyini indala yomntu ogxobhozayo? Iyintoni imeko yesikhumba sakhe: sele iguqukile, okanye ulusu lubala? Kwakude kube nini lo mntwana ngaphantsi kwamanzi? Ewe, ukuba uye wabonakalisa iimpawu zokufa kwezinto eziphilayo, umbuzo wokugqibela uphelelwa yedwa.
Nangona umntu ebalekela abahlanguli kwaye uyazi ukuba uncedo lwezonyango luza kufika kwimizuzu ukuya kumzuzu - luyaqala uncedo oluphuthumayo kwixhoba, kuba imeko efana nokucwina, yonke iminithi ingadlala indima ebalulekileyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imeko, ukunceda ukucwina kuhlale kufanayo - kokubili izenzo kunye nokulandelelana kwazo.
Ngoko, isicatshulwa sisitshela ukuba into yokuqala yokwenza ukufumana umntwana ochaphazelekayo ngaphandle kwamanzi. Okuqhubekayo okumele kuyenze kufuneka kuxhomekeke kulowo - nokuba umntwana ubonakalisa iimpawu zobomi.
Ukuba akaphefumli, uzama ukwenza oku okulandelayo: faka umntwana emhlane wakhe, susa (krazula, usike) iimpahla ezinokubangela ukuhamba kwesikhumba, kwaye uqale ngokukhawuleza ukuvuselela i-cardiopulmonary.
Abantu abaninzi ngephutha, bebona ukuba umntwana akaphefumli kwaye akabonakalisi iimpawu zobomi, bazama ngandlela-thile ukukhupha amanzi abanjwe emaphaphu. Nangona kunjalo, oku kungalunganga, ukuba akukho nto i-palpitation, ke konke oku akunakuncedo, ukuhlaziywa ngokukhawuleza kuyadingeka. Inyaniso kukuba amanzi, ngokuqinisekileyo, asemiphakeni, nangona kunjalo kuncinci kakhulu - kwaye ngexesha lokuvuselela i-cardiopulmonary ukuba liya kushiya umzimba womntwana. Ngoko ke, akudingeki ubeke ixhoba lakho emadolweni ngesisu, uzame ukuyiphakamisa ngemilenze okanye ugxininise emhlane nangamandla akhe onke.
Ngoku khawucinge ngezenzo zakho xa umntwana eyazi, ukuba uphefumula okanye ukhwehlela, ubona indlela inyawo yakhe idlulela ngayo, uziva ukuhlanza (oku kusebenza kwakhona ukuba le miqondiso ibonakala emva kokuvuselela i-cardiopulmonary).
Okokuqala, mbeka umntwana kwindawo ekhululekile kwicala lakhe. Awukwazi ukumshiya, uphumule, ucinge ukuba yonke into isele emva kwayo - umntwana ufuna ukunyamekwa rhoqo, unokuba nzima nakweyiphi na umzuzu! Susa zonke iimpahla ezimanzi, ezibandayo ukusuka kwintsana yakho kwaye uzifudumise. Kuza kubakho ukutshaya ithawula elomileyo - kufuneka ugqoke umntwana ofudumeleyo, uwugubungele ngengubo, uyifake kufuphi nomlilo ovuthayo okanye uyithumele uhlobo oluthile lomthombo wokushisa kagesi (umzekelo, i-hairdryer okanye i-heatater). Ukuba umntwana unomuva oqhelekileyo, unokuhlala ngokwakhe kwaye akavumi ukuhlanza - ngoko makhe aphuze into efudumeleyo: ingaba itiye, amanzi alula okanye adibanise. Udinga ukusela i-sips encinane.
Imeko efanelekileyo emva kokuba imeko epholileyo ingesizathu sokuphosa ugqirha. Ngenxa yokuba le meko ingaba yinto ekhohlisayo kakhulu - emva koko, umzimba womntwana unxinzelelo olukhulu, akwanele, kwenzekani kuye? Ngoko ke, akukho nto ilibazise ukuhlolwa kogqirha. Emva koko, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba iimeko ezixhamlayo zomntu osandul 'umva ngokukhawuleza zonakalisa ngokukhawuleza - kwaye kufuneka afune unyango oluphuthumayo.
Ukuthintela ukumanzela:
1) ukususela ebuntwaneni bokuqala, fundisa umntwana ukuba adime;
2) kubalulekile kungekuphela nje ukukwazi ukubhukuda, kodwa kwakhona ukuphumla emanzini - oku kuyinkqubo efunekayo kubantwana;
3) khetha iilwandle ngezixhobo zokubhukuda, kunye nenqaba yokuhlangula;
4) umntwana akayi kuzimisela ngokwakhe: angangena emanzini, okanye angayi-ajwayele ukuba adibanise nawe yonke inyathelo elunxwemeni;
5) ukugcina iliso kwintsana akufanele linciphise nayiphi na imeko - nokuba uqinisekile ukuba umntwana wakho ugcinwe kakuhle emanzini; Umntu omdala ojongana nomntwana akufanele aphuze utshwala aze abe noyika amanzi;
6) emanzini abandayo angatyikwa rhoqo, kodwa encinci encinci - ukuhlala ixesha elide kuyo kuyingozi;
7) ukudlala emanzini yiyona nto ikhethiweyo, kodwa uqeqesha umntwana wakho ongeke utyhoboze okanye ugxume kumntu emanzini, imidlalo kufuneka ihlaziye;
8) ukuba uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntwana akanako ukugibela, ungamvumeli ukuba adlale!
9) nangona umntwana ebhukuda "njengengqayi", i-buoys kufuneka ibe ngumqondiso ukuba ayeke aze aphendukele elunxwemeni - kwaye akukho nanye into;
10) igama elithi "ithoni" kufuneka livakala kuphela kwiimeko ezibucayi, imidlalo yeli gama ayikwazi kuvunyelwa, ngaphandle koko iya kuphuma njengaleyo fable kunye nomalusi nezimpisi ...;
11) ngaphambi kokuba uvumele umntwana adibise echibini - ngena kuwo ngokwakho, khangela: ayikho na i-seaweed apho ingadideka khona, akusiyo i-swamp ephantsi, yintoni ubunzulu;
12) gxuma emanzini kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga nezingafundiweyo, ukusuka emadwaleni kunye nasezintwini - i-tab, zichazele abantwana; akukho namnye oye wawukhansela imivalo, kwaye ingozi ayithwalayo;
13) inkunzi engaziyo ukuba ibhukude - ithetha ukuba kufuneka igqoke kwi-stupid inflatable and do not deeper than the waistband;
14) Unonophelo olukhethekileyo - kwisikhephe kunye naselunxwemeni lwezingozi zingenzeka kakhulu! Khusela indawo ezinobungozi, ungathathi amehlo uze ubeke izixhobo zakho!