Njengomntwana, phantse yonke intombazana iphupha malunga nendlela eya kutshata ngayo, iyanciphise abantwana kwaye iya kuphila ngokuvuya emva koko. Kodwa isigqibo asisoloko sibaphatha kakuhle onke amantombazana. Amantombazana akhula, abe ngamantombazana. Kwaye ke abafazi. Eli xesha libaleka ngokukhawuleza kwaye lingabonakali. Kwaye ngoku awunayo into engama-30 okanye-40. Kodwa isikhulu asikajikelezi, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho umsebenzi ozithandayo, kodwa indlu ayinalutho, akukho nabantwana okanye othandekayo. Kutheni kwenzeka oku?
Ixesha eliqhelekileyo labasetyhini abangatshatanga baqhelekile. Okokuqala ndagqiba isikolo, ngoko ndaya kwikholeji, ngoko ndakha umsebenzi, ngenxa yoko ndakhangela ngeenxa zonke, kodwa akukho nto emva kwayo, enye engenanto. Phindela kwakhona, gcwalisa ukungaqiniseki. Isikhathi samadoda sonke asikwanele, kwaye ukutshata nomntu onyanyekayo, akuyona indlela yokuphuma.
Kule minyaka, uba ngumntu okhethileyo xa ukhetha indoda. Sidinga okungakumbi ngokuphathekayo kunye nobutyebi obuthile kunye nokubonakala. Ukuzalela umntwana ngokwakhe, akuyiyo indlela yokuphuma. Ngubani oya kumlandela, ngubani oya kumkhupha, awunalo ixesha, unomsebenzi oqinileyo. Ubomi bomsebenzi. Unobomi obupheleleyo, udwebe ngokucacileyo kwidayari yakho.
Intlekele yabafazi abangatshatangayo ayibuhlungu gqitha, njengoko kubonakala ngathi ekuqalekeni. Kananjalo banenzuzo yabo ngaphezu kohlwaywa ngonaphakade "abendlukazi" abagibela ekhaya ngeengxowa ezinkulu. Ngentsasa baqalisa ukusebenza, endleleni beyipendela baze basuse i-curlers kwizinwele zabo. Kuze kube phakade ahlutywa kwaye awanelisekanga abafazi abatshatileyo.
Khawucinge nje ngesidlo sasemini kwenye yeofisi. Ngethuba lokutya babelana ngokuzibona kwabo ngobusuku bokugqibela. Umfazi ololo hlobo udla ngokuthetha ngendlela ahamba ngayo kwi-gym, echibini lokubhukuda. Wayekhangela kwi-barber ukuze avuselele iinwele zakhe, wagijimela kumntu, ukuze alungise izipikili zakhe. Ndaya kwi-boutique ndaza ndathenga amabini amasha. Wafika ekhaya, ekhululekileyo kwindawo yokuhlambela kunye neentlanzi ezahlukahlukeneyo, wathululela inkomishi yetiyi elimnandi kwaye wazibophelela ekuboneni uchungechunge lwakhe oluthandayo lweTV. Kwaye ngolunye usuku umthandi ophethe iintlobo zeentyatyambo kunye nesipho kufuneka eze kuye.
Ibali lomfazi otshatileyo eneebhabhini ezimbini. Ngobusuku, njalonjalo, "yayiyimpumelelo". Endleleni eya ekhaya, ndagijimela esitolo, ndithenga ukutya. Iingxowa ezimbini ezinzima ezikhuniweyo kwindlu, kukho ngokwemvelo ingxabano engachazekiyo. Ukusuka emngceleni, ukungcola kunye neengcola ziqala kwaye ezinyathelweni ungakwazi ukuba ngubani na ukuya phi ngaphandle kokukrazula izicathulo zakho. Ngoko enye into "yokusebenza" kusihlwa iqala. Umfazi olihlwempu uqala ngokukhawuleza "ukuqina" ekhaya, ukucoca, kufuneka upheke ukutya kwentsapho yakho, uze uhlambe zonke izitya, uze uhlambe impahla yakho. Ncedisa abantwana ukuba bafunde izifundo, umdala uphinde ahlambe izicathulo zakhe, ngomhla wokuphuma uya kuhamba amthengise ezintsha. Umncinci wasiqhekeza ibhatyi kwenye imfazwe, waphinde wachitha. Kwaye umfazi akakwazi ukukhumbula xa ekugqibeleni wathenge into ethile, ngokwakhe. Umyeni olele embhedeni uzama ukuyala. Umfazi osweleyo usekufutshane phakathi kobusuku, ukutya kunye nokufudumala konke, uya kulala. Kwaye kukho indoda eyanikeza iintyatyambo kwii-engaziwa ngexesha lokugqibela xa, kwaye zathetha amagama amahle ebomini besikhathi esidlulileyo. Kodwa oku ubuncinane akumkhathazi, ibhinqa kufuneka lizalise umsebenzi wakhe wokudibanisa. Ewe, ekugqibeleni, malunga neyure enye ekuseni, wonk 'ubani wagxotha. Yaye loo ntokazi iwa ngokulala ilele ukuze ivuke ngo-6 ekuseni, lungiselela kwasekuseni kwaye uthumele zonke kwiindawo zazo.
Emva kwesi ncoko eofisini unokucinga, kwaye ngubani onokubakho okungcono. Ngayinye inayo, iyonwabile kwaye ibuhlungu ngexesha elinye. Kwaye wonke umntu uyakhela yena kuphela. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuyikhumbula kukuba wena ngokwakho unakho ukuhambisa i-destiny yakho ngendlela efanelekileyo.