Iziqinisekiso zincwadana ezimfutshane ezenza isicatshulwa somntu ukuphumeza isicwangciso esithile. Ukuba uyisebenzisa ngendlela echanekileyo, kungekudala ungakwazi ukuva umphumo, kuba ziingcamango eziza kubakho ikamva lethu. Umntu ongakholelwa ngamandla akhe akayi kuphumelela. Ngona isicatshulwa esinesiphiwo esithile, esincinci ukuzithemba kwakhe, sizenza sisengozini kwaye kungekudala sizahluleka. Ngako oko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzibeke uphumelele kwimpumelelo imihla ngemihla.
Ukuthetha ngokwethu ngendlela engafanelekanga, sisengaphambili sizenzele ukuhluleka. Ukutshatyalaliswa akukho nto esele yenziwe, kuphela ukuzalisekisa iminqweno yethu.
Ukuze uzilungiselele inhlanhla, uphumelele kwaye ukwandise ukuzithemba, kuwanele ukusebenzisa iziqinisekiso. Siza kunika ezimbalwa, kwaye unokukhetha ezo zibonakalisa kakuhle iimfuno zakho.
Iziqinisekiso zokuzithemba
Ukuze kwenziwe ukuqinisekiswa emsebenzini kufuneka bhengezwe rhoqo. Ngokwenza njalo, kufuneka ukholelwe kwinto oyithethayo:
Ndizolile kwaye ndiqinisekile.
Ndingumntu oqinileyo kwaye ndinokuzikhethela ukuba ndifanele ndiwenze njani.
Ndingumcebisi olungileyo kwaye ndihlala ndibonelela ngezisombululo.
Ndiyonwabile ngobomi bam, ubomi bam buzele kwaye buzaliswe ngeemvakalelo ezintle.
Ndihlala ndifumana inkxaso kubantu ababelana ngeenkolelo zam.
Ndihlala ndihlala nomntu ofuna ukucela iingcebiso kunye nokunceda.
Ndiyimfuno emehlweni abahlobo, izalamane kunye nobunkokheli.
Iingcebiso zam ziyaxabiswa kwaye zihlala ziphulaphule.
Ndihlala ndikhanyisa abantu ngezimvo zam.
Ndifumana injabulo enkulu ebomini nasekusebenzeni.
Ndihlala ndifezekisa iinjongo zam.
Ndiyindoda ebalulekileyo kwaye ndihlala ndifumana oko ndifanelwe.
Umvuzo wam kufuneka ube ***, njengoko ndifanelwe.
Ungasebenzisa ezi ziqinisekiso okanye wenze ngokwakho, ngokusekelwe kwiinjongo zakho kunye neminqweno. Into ebalulekileyo ukuyikhumbula kukuba iingcamango zizinto eziphathekayo. Baphinda rhoqo, amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Ukuze wenze oku, zama ukuhlala wedwa kwaye ugxininise ngokwakho. Vala amehlo akho uze uthi la magama. Zama ukuzivelela intsingiselo yazo ngamnye kwaye ukholelwe ukuba yonke into ifana nayo.
Ngayiphi na into yokuba ungaqinisekanga ngayo, kwaye ukuzithemba kwakho kwimpumelelo yakho kuya kunceda ukufezekisa injongo efunwayo.
Ukuba uhlala uhlakulela amandla angenamandla, kuya kuzisa iingxaki ebomini bakho. Ngokuchasene noko, ukujonga izinto ngokuqinisekileyo kwezi zinto kuya kuqinisekisa ukuphunyezwa kweenkqubo ezingenangqondo.