Inyani kukuba isibalo esikhulu sebinibini zihlala zisebenza ngokulalanayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Abaphengululi bathi abafazi abaninzi baye banciphisa umdla wokwabelana ngesondo ngexesha le-trimester yokuqala (xa imeko yowesifazane ibuhlungu ngenxa ye-toxicosis), kwiinyanga ezintathu ezalandelayo, iiminqweno (ngeli xesha abafazi baziva ngcono kakhulu) kwaye kwakhona ukuhla komnqweno wesondo kwisigaba sokugqibela Ekubeni ukuhamba kwamabhinqa ngeveki kunzima.
Kwiseshoni eqhutywe phakathi kwabasetyhini abangama-300 isizathu sokuncipha kwenzalo yesini sele sibonakaliswe yintlungu. Uninzi lwabasetyhini lukhalaza ngentlungu ngexesha lokulala, oluqinisa njengoko ixesha likhula.
Abantwana bokomva baziva bengakwazi ukungazinzi ngendlela efanayo nabafazi babo. Ukufundwa kwezibini ezitshatileyo ezingama-60 kubonisa ukuba oobawo bafumana induduzo encinane kunabo bafazi. Abasetyhini baziziva bexhamle, ukuzithemba kwabo ngokocansi kuphezulu kunabo babo bafazi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo amabhinqa namadoda akalokothi akrokre ukuba indlela ekhangayo indoda enesisu esikhulu ingajonga ngayo kwindoda yakhe. Uninzi lwabafazi banenkxalabo malunga nale nto, kwaye la mava alinanto.
Amadoda amaninzi ahlala ecinga ukukhulelwa isithintelo kwezobudlelwane bazo ngokwesini kunye nomfazi wabo. Izizathu zihluke: ukulahleka kwezinto ezithandwa ngabasetyhini, ukwesaba ukuba baya kumlimaza umntwana, ukuziva ukuba isondo siziphatha kakubi ngexesha lokukhulelwa, njl.
Imilinganiselo imisiwe: amadoda aphumle! Ukukhulelwa, okwenene, kuya kuzisa utshintsho oluncinane ebomini bakho bobulili, kodwa wonke umntu uyayidlula.
Uninzi lwezibini zixhalabile ngendlela ekhethekileyo ngesondo ekupheleni kwekota yokugqibela yokukhulelwa, kuba oku kunokukhawuleza ukuzalwa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo oku akubangeli iingxaki. Ukuba usuku lokuzalwa selusondele, oogqirha kunye nabagqithisi abachasene nxamnye bancomela ukuba bahlale ngesondo, njengendlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuqalisa ukuzala. Kodwa ukuba kukho iimeko zokuzalwa kwangaphambi komama, ngoko oogqirha banokuncoma ukuyeka ukulala ngesondo ngenyanga yokugqibela yokukhulelwa, nangona uphando lubonise ukuba ukulala ngesini ngelo xesha akusona sizathu sokuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa.
Oogqirha bacebisa ukuba bayeke isikhundla esivamile - indoda evela phezulu-kwiiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuziswa. Esi sikhokelo asiyi kukulungeleka, ngaphandle koko, sisona sizathu sokuphulwa komlenze we-amniotic kwaye ihambelana nale ngxaki, ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa.
Ngoko ke, yintoni inobungozi ngesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Kukho uluhlu olunjalo lwabasetyhini ukuba oogqirha bacebise bonke ukuba bayeke ukukhutshwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Eli nqanaba liquka abafazi abaye babona okungaqhelekanga njengamaqhwenga esiswini kunye nokuphuma kwegazi, abafazi abasengozini yokuzalwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa okanye ukulahlekelwa ngamathambo, nakuzo zonke iimeko apho kuphumla ukulala okufunekayo kwiiveki ezingama-20 zokuqala.
Oogqirha bahlula iintlobo ezimbini zezonxibelelwano zesondo, okufuneka zikhutshwe ngabasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Iyokuqala i-cunnilingus. Ngolu qhagamshelwano, unokuqhubela umoya kumfazi wesifazane kwaye ubangele ubumbano, obunokuchaphazela kakubi unina nomntwana.
Ukuqhagamshelana okwesibini - akukho mzekelo umfazi okhulelweyo akafanele alalane ngesondo kunye nomntu ophethe isifo soxhatshazwa ngesondo. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana osanda kuzalwa unokusuleleka ngesifo esibhubhisayo kuye ukuba intsholongwane isesisini somama, i E. kumngcwabo wokuzalwa.