Ukususela ebuntwaneni, amantombazana sele akhuliswa kwiindaba zobuxoki malunga neenkosana ezintle, ezinobubele nezindwendwe ezigqoka ezivela esibhakabhakeni. Wonke umfazi ufuna ukufumana enye yenkcazelo yamanqaku kwaye uhlale naye ubomi bakhe bonke. Ngelishwa, ezininzi zihlala liphupha. Izikhulu ezintle azigqibekanga, kwaye abafazi abafani namakhosazana. Cinga ngezizathu eziphambili zokuwa kweentsapho.
- Uthando luyiroti. Ingongoma ebalulekileyo. Ngaba unesiqinisekiso sokuthi ujoyine iifayile zothando? Ingaba kuhlangene? Kuphela ukuvakalelwa ngokunyanisekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba umtshato omde. Ukuba utshatile ngokuxhamla, akukho nto enokuyenza, okanye ngenxa yokuba "iminyaka yobudala iqhutywe", ngoko-90% ngokuqinisekileyo umtshato uya kulahla.
- Yonke into ifana nomkhosi. Ngethuba lethu liye lenza imfesane ukuthobela umphefumlo wakho kwiqabane lakho. Kutheni? Umntu ukhululekile. Wonke umntu unokuthanda kwakhe, iiminqweno kunye nembono. Akukho mntu uhlawula nantoni na. Ubudlelwane obuyakhelwe kwicandelwana aluyi kuhlala ixesha elide. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva oku kunomsindo. Ukuba unquma ukudibanisa iifayile, kufuneka wazi kwaye uzive ulungele ukuhlala kungekuphela kwakho, kodwa ngenxa yakho.
- Amantombazana-onina. Ukudlala indima kulungile, kodwa musa ukwenza ubomi njengomdlalo. Musa ukukhangela kwisiqingatha somzali onomdla oza kukubopha kwi-bib kwaye aphephe zonke iingxaki zakho. Umlingani wakho unokuba ngumcebisi kunye nomhlobo othembekileyo. Sonke singabantu abadala, musa ukulibala malunga nalo.
- Utitshala kwiseksi. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kubafazi. Wonke umntu ukholelwa ukuba usemgangathweni wokuphinda afundise inkwenkwe embi kwaye iya kufezeka naye. Ngeke. Bobabini indoda nomfazi banokufundiswa kuphela into eyodwa - ibhodwe. Yintoni ekhulile, ikhule. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukutshintsha into ethile kuwe, uya kukwenza. Kwezinye iimeko, ukukhuliswa akuyi kunceda.
- Jonga abo othandayo, kodwa wena. Ikhwele liyatha. Okokuqala kukho konke kuthetha ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokwakho. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Sebenza kuwe. Yenza imidlalo, funda iincwadi, zifumane umdla wokuzonwabisa. Umdla onomdla unomdla kumntu wonke. Zininzi izihloko eziza kubonakala ngokukhawuleza kwintetho. Ukusebenza ngokwakho ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu.
- - "Suka! Ndiya kutshintsha. " Isihloko asiyibi, kodwa siyacaphukisa. Ukuxinzelela kuyisidenge kubantu abalamano obusondeleyo. Usuvele uzijwayele zonke iiselula zomnye nomnye, ngoko kutheni unamahloni? Ungesabi ukubonisa umzimba wakho ekukhanyeni kwemini. Ukuba uhlangene, uyaneliswa yiyo yonke into. Ukunyaniseka okunjalo kuya kwandisa ixesha elidliwayo kumtshato.
- Izinto eziphathekayo zingaphezulu kwazo zonke. Indoda ayikho isikhwama, kwaye umfazi akahlambulukanga. Kwakhona ingongoma apho kungekho mntu uhlawulwa nantoni na. Kwiminyaka yethu yanamhlanje, abatshatileyo bangazixubusha ngokuxanduva lwabo ngamnye. Sekude kubekholelwa ukuba le ndoda yayisisondlo sentsapho, kwaye loo ntokazi yayingumgcini wekhaya. Le yiklasi. Kodwa kungekudala kuya kuba njalo. Ukuba abantu bafuna ukuba kunye, kufuneka bazame kwaye bakhule ngokufanelekileyo kwabo. Kwaye senze kunye. Kufuneka uzive kwaye ukhangele eduze komntu othandekayo, kwaye akuyona into efanelekileyo.
- Umtshato uyinto eqhelekileyo. Ungazicwangcisi ngokweenkqubo ngokuzithemba. Ukwakha ubuhlobo kunye. Ikamva labo kuphela lixhomekeke kubantu. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala ibali lakho, uya kuphila.
- Kwaye umama wathi .. Ungaze uphulaphule imbono yabazali okanye olunye uluvo loluntu ukuba unesiqiniseko sama-100% kwisiqingatha sakho. Yonke into engayi kukukholisa. Iintsapho ezininzi zaqhekeza kuphela ngenxa yokuba umamakazi wayenomona ngomalokazana, kwaye umkhwenyana akazange abe ngumgidi-mali. Wonke umntu kufuneka aphile ubomi bakhe, kungekhona iphupha lomntu.
- Cinga ukuba yeyiphi isandla. Enye ingxaki yesizukulwana sethu. Wonke umntu uzama ukuphawula kwisenzo esithile kunye neengcebiso kunye neziqendu eziqhelekileyo. Kutheni singakwazi ukuthetha ngqo? Akukho mntu unokufunda ingqondo yakho. Akukho nto inokuyenza. Into ofuna? Ndixelele nje.