Ngaba kukho ubuhlobo besibhinqa?

Ingxabano engunaphakade kwimxholo wobungane besetyhini.

Ngethuba lethu umxholo othi "Ubuhlobo Babafazi" kwizinto ezininzi kubangelwa ukuba babambisane kunye, ukukhashelwa, ukubetha. Nangona kunjalo, lo mbuzo uvame ukuphakanyiswa kwiifom zeesetyhini ezahlukeneyo, oko kuthetha ukuba iqulethe ingxabano engapheliyo "kunye" kunye "nokuchasene." Oku kuye kwaxutyushwa iminyaka emininzi kwaye akukho ntlangano ingafikelela kwimbono efanayo.
Ubuninzi babasetyhini ababulelani ubuhlobo nabo bonke abafazi kunye namadoda, becinga ukuba ubunzima obubudlelwane babo buhlala bekhona, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bomelele kangakanani kwaye bathembekile. Ngokwe-data yoluntu, i-56% yabaphenduli bathi.

Ngaphandle komhlobo-ukukhanya akukhenkce.

Kwaye phantse bonke abadliwano-ndlebe bancokola ngeentombi zabo. Emva kwakho konke, kunye nomhlobo unokuhleka ngokukhawuleza ngobubulumko, xubusha abafana, umphathi, umkhwekazi ... nabani na! Into eyona nto kukuqinisekiswa ukuba akukho mntu kodwa nina bobabini uya kukwazi ngako. Ngaba kufuneka ufunde izibongo epakini, usule iingqungquthela kuma-boutique okanye ukhangele ifilimu endala - uya kuhlala unceda umhlobo.

Kukho umgca omnyama ebomini, xa uxinzelelo lweveki kunye nezinto zonke ziwela ezandleni, kwaye ihlabathi libonakala liluhlaza kwaye libi. Kuloo mizuzu ukuba umhlobo uhlale ehlala ekulondolozeni isimo esihle. Uyakwazi ukuphulaphula iingxaki zeentsuku zonke kwaye avumelane nawe kuyo yonke into, eyinika ukuzithemba nokuxinezeleka njengesandla. Okanye mhlawumbi unako ukukrokra, ukumemeza, uzenzele kunye. Oko, ngokungaqhelekanga, kuya kusebenza. Njengoko uAristotle wayethetha ngokuthi: "Umhlobo ungumphefumlo omnye ohlala emzimbeni amabini."

Inkxaso yokuziphatha yeentsapho ifana neseshoni kunye nengcali yengqondo. Iingcali zengqondo zithi umhlobo ungengcamango. Into ephambili kukuba kukho ithemba, inhlonipho, ukunyaniseka kwintsebenziswano. Yaye loo mntu wayenomnye umntu onokuthulula umphefumlo wakhe onokumthemba naye kunye naye onokuba naye uvuyo. Emva kwakho konke, sekude kwaziwa ukuba ungumhlobo wenene kuwe, kunye nawe. Yaye ngubani umemeza kwifowuni aze ahlasele kwisilwanyana xa efumanisa ukuba wakwenza isipho somfana? Umhlobo omhle. Ngoko, kukho ubuhlobo besibini emva kwakho konke?

Icala eliphambene naloo mali.

Ubuntwaneni, oogogo, oomama nootitshala basenza sibe nothando lobuhlobo, bahlakulele ingqiqo yoluntu, ukunyaniseka nokuncedisana. Kwaye abazange babuze ubukho bobuhlobo babasetyhini, kodwa babeka ingqalelo ekubaluleke ukuba babe ngabahlobo "njengaye." Akukho ngemali kunye nesimo somntu emphakathini, okanye kwiiflaya ezikhululekile kuma-nightclub kunye nezinto, kodwa njengaye! Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba kukho iingxabano malunga nobuhlobo besifazana, okokuqala kwakhiwa ngokukhohlisa kunye nenzuzo. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba amantombazana anamhlanje akwazi ukwahlula ubuhlobo ebuhlobo. Kwaye, ke, xa kukho imeko engquzulwano, ukungcola kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuhleba, abaninzi banokubuza umbuzo ngokukhawuleza: Ngaba kukho ubuhlobo besibhinqa?

Ukutshatyalaliswa kukuphikisana rhoqo phakathi kwabo banqwenela ukukholelwa kubuhlobo bentombi. Akuqhelekanga kwishishini elibandakanyekayo. Uyakuthanda abahlobo bobabini, kangangokuba kubangelwa ukuba babalekele ngeminyaka yobumnandi novuyo. Yilapho ukuphikisana okugqithisileyo phakathi kwabahlobo abakhulu, abaye baba yiintshaba.

U-Anne Lindbergh ukholelwa ukuba: "Amadoda adlala ubuhlobo njengobhola bebhola, kwaye ahlala ehleli. Abafazi badlala nobungane, njengengqayi yeglasi, kwaye iyahlukana. " Mhlawumbi yile ndlela? Ekuqaleni, amantombazana atyala ulwalamano kubo bonke abathandana nabo, baphupha kunye, baxabisane ngokukodwa, kwaye ngokukhawuleza kwakhona, kwaye phakathi kwabahlobo abafana nekati emnyama baleka. Intliziyo inobungozi kwaye inomsindo, inzondo ehlabathini lonke kunye nentembelo engapheliyo yokuba akukho buhlobo bentombi - yilokho ehlalayo. Kodwa kusekho ilahleko! Ukulungelelaniswa, ingqondo engapheliyo yokulahlekelwa ngumphefumlo wemveli. Kuvela ukuba ngaphandle kwentombazana ebomini, akukho ndawo!