Kodwa uluntu lubi kakhulu ngowesifazane obhekene nokusela utywala kunokuba atywala ngamadoda. Ukuba, ngokubhekiselele kumntu ophuzayo, kukho umfazi onothando oza kunceda ekuqhubeni iikhosi zonyango, uya kuba nenkxaso yokuziphatha, kungekhona nje kuphela uluntu kodwa, okokuqala, indoda kunye nabantwana bayaphambukela kumfazi onomlutha! Ngenxa yoko, umfazi ukhetha ukusela yodwa.
Ngaphezu koko. Kwimizimba yabasetyhini, utywala buchaphazeleka ngokwahlukileyo. Abasetyhini banelungelo elincinci lokusela utywala ngenxa yokuqalisa ukuxiliswa. Oku kubangelwa ukuba umzimba wesetyhi uqulethe amanzi angama-10% ngaphantsi komzimba wesilisa. Kwakhona kuphawulwa ukuba imijikelezo yenyanga ichaphazela ukunyaniseka kokusela utywala.
Ngoko, ngokucacisa ngokucacileyo ingxaki, makhe sijonge indlela utywala ngayo kumzimba wesifazane, oko kuthetha, ukusuka ngaphakathi.
Ukuqala.
Abasetyhini abanengxaki yokuxhomekeka kotywala, ngokukhawuleza "bafumane" ngokwabo, iziphazamiso ze-somatic (isibindi, intliziyo, iinqanawa, iiglands ze-endocrine). Utywala lunempembelelo emzimbeni wesibhobho, ukubonakala, ukukhawuleza ukuguga.
Isizukulwana esincinci sinenkxalabo. Ithelevishini kunye neentengiso zixhaphaza ngathi ukuba iziphuzo ezinxilisayo eziphantsi kotywala zilungile, ziyamnandi. Kodwa, umzekelo, kwibhotile yebhiya eqhelekileyo, utywala uqulethe njengoko luqulethwe kwi-50 ml ye-vodka. Ngoko yintoni efanelekileyo ngalao maveli - abaphumelelayo bentlalo yabantu - basele iziphuzo ezifanayo zebhabhoni kwiibhentshi zendawo? Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kubangela ukwanda kwenani lezifo zesifo somzimba, ngokuqhelekileyo kwimeko yokuvuvukala nokukhokelela ekungabikho komntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubangelwa ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesondo ngokumalunga nokuxiliswa kotywala.
Ngoku masibone indlela utywala echaphazela ngayo umzimba wesetyana ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Amandla emiphumo yotywala ngelixesha lokukhulelwa liyahluka: kunokubakho izifo ezinzima kunye nezifo ezinzima zomntwana ongakazalwa.
I-trimester yokuqala yokukhulelwa ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye ixanduva. Ngeli xesha, ibhinqa kufuneka lizame ukunqanda iqondo elincinci kakhulu lotywala, kuba kukubekwa izitho kunye nokubunjwa kwee-tissue ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye ukusela utywala kungakhokelela ekufikeni komntwana.
Kule ncwadi yezobugcisa zanamhlanje, kuye kwavela igama elibonisa ubunzima obuninzi kubantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa ngokubangelwa utywala ngexesha lokukhula komntwana - isifo se-fetal alcohol (ASP) okanye i-fetal disease syndrome.
Iziganeko zesi sifo zibandakanya ukushiya komntwana emva kweemeko zangokwemvelo, ngokomzwelo, kunye nokubonakala kokungabikho kokuzalwa, umsebenzi weentliziyo, izitho zomzimba, kunye nenkqubo yesantya ephazamisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ezi ziintsana zizalwe ngesisindo somzimba esiphantsi. Ukongezelela kulobu ubuso bomntwana buguqulwa: ubukhulu obuncinane bekrele, amehlo amancinci kunye nefowuni engaqhelekanga phezu kwabo, umlomo ophezulu ophantsi.
Kodwa ukusela utywala kuyingozi nangaliphi na ixesha lokukhulelwa. Ekubeni utywala uhamba ngokulula ukusuka kumama ukuya emzalweni ngeemitha zegazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukusela utywala kuholele ekutshatyalaliswa kwamathambo.
Umama wokubeletha naye akafanele awulibale ngokuqaphela. Akuyimfuneko ukusela, kuba le dose elincinci, eliye lafika kumntwana ngokusebenzisa ubisi, lunokuchaphazela kakubi ukuphuhliswa kwenkqubo ye-nervous central. Abantwana abaphuza abazali baziphatha ngokungapheliyo kwaye balala ngokugqithiseleyo, kukho ukukhahlela kwaye kukho enye ingqondo yengqondo.