Abazali abaninzi baqhelana nale meko xa umntwana wabo (ngaphambi kokuba enempilweni kwaye enzima, oqhelekileyo akazange agule iminyaka engama-2-3), emva kokungena kwi-kindergarten akaphumanga kubanda.
Ukugqiba ukuthabatha umntwana osesikolweni, umama noyise baya kwenza into engafanelekanga. Impendulo enjalo yindlela yokuphendula yomzimba wengane ukuya kwintlanganiso yokuqala kunye neqela. Esi sifo sisuke ngenxa yokuba ezinye iintsholongwane zixhaphaza ebantwini, ukuzibandakanya nabo ngesimo sesifo esiphezulu sokusuleleka kwintsholongwane yentsholongwane. Ukungena kwi-kindergarten, inkunzi yenkwenkwe iyadibana neengxaki ezingaqhelekanga zezifo, kwaye, ngokudabukisayo, iyagula.Kwaye nangona izifo zihamba emva kwesinye - akuthethi ukuba umntwana unesifo esingakhuselekanga. Umntwana ngamnye kufuneka aphumelele uchungechunge lwezifo ezinjalo, kwaye izinga lokukhusela le ngxaki alunxulumene. Kwaye abazali bangadideki ngento yokuba, umzekelo, abantwana babamelwane abanaloo ngxaki. Kukho konke, aba bantwana ngaphambi kokuba bafike esikhungweni sezingane sele benesibalo esikhulu sezilwanyana ezikhuselweyo, bebambisana nabo, bexoxa nabanye abantu. Ukuba ngaba abazali babengesabi ukuthabatha umntwana kuyo yonke indawo kwaye abazange bayifake kwiindonga ezi-4, ngoko ke, ngokwemvelo, uhlala edibana neentsholongwane kwaye "uyabuyisela" ngaphambi kokuba aye engadini.
Ukunika okanye ukuthatha umbuzo
Abazali abakhathazekayo emva kwechungechunge lwezifo basombulula ukuba umntwana wabo ongeyunithi uyaphikisana, ngoko ke kungcono ukuhlala ekhaya. Oku kukhetha kwabo. Abantu abadala bazikhethela ngokwabo ukuba bavelise umntwana: kwintlekele okanye ekhaya. Kodwa kufuneka baqonde ukuba ingxaki ayiyi kutshabalala, kunjalo, mhlawumbi, kuya kubakho kamva kamva, umzekelo, kwiklasi yokuqala.
Uncedo okanye akunjalo
Abo banqwenela ukukunceda izifo zamaninzi ngokupapashwa ngamayeza amaninzi kufuneka banciphise ubunzima babo kwaye bavumele ukukhusela umntwana ukuba ahlangabezane nezifo. Kwaye nangakumbi: ukhuselo lomzimba lomzimba womntwana lufanele lusebenze, ngoko amava okulwa nezilwanyana aya kuba luncedo kuye. Akuyimfuneko ukuphazamisa le nkqubo. Ukongezelela, uninzi lweziyobisi, ezivakalayo ngenxa yokuthengisa, azizange zenze iimvavanyo zonyango ezaneleyo, oko kuthetha ukuba bangabakhuseleka kubantwana. Abazali badinga ukuzola kwaye ukhumbule ukuba imvelo ayiyinto eyisiyatha. Wadala umntu, wamnika iindlela ezikhuselekileyo zokukhusela, ezinokumncedisa ukuba aphile kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo ngaphandle kokuxhaswa kokuxhaswa kwemithi, engazange inikezwe kwangaphambili.
Yintoni ekwaziyo ukuyenza
Usana lusenokuncedwa: ukukrakra, ukuhamba emoyeni, kunye neengxaki ezifanelekileyo zabazali kwisifo yindlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nale ngxaki. Ngexesha lokugula, umntwana ufuna ukunakwa ngakumbi kunye nokufudumala. Ubhedu lokuphumla, njengommiselo, alukhuthazwa. Ezinye iziphuzo ezihlwayekayo, ukutya okubantwana bokukhanya. Umoya egumbini kufuneka upholile kwaye ungasomile.
Amalungiselelo e-Kakieedicinsky aboniswa
Ngokuchasene neenkolelo ezidumileyo, amayeza okulwa neentlobo zentsholongwane ayifuni. Ngokutya okupheleleyo, awudingi iivithamini. Zonke iilungiselelo, ukuba kunyanzelekile, kuqeshwe ootitshala bezithili zesithili. Ukuzizinyameka kuyacinywa. Kwakhona, umntu makangakholelwa kwaye angasebenzise iingcebiso zamantombazana, abahlobo, oogogo kunye nabo bonke abanye. Ukucatshulwa okungaqhelekanga akuyiyo imigaqo eyakha isiseko senzululwazi enzulu njengonyango.
Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba ulungele izifo "zontanga" kwaye udlulise eli xesha ngokungenakwenzeka, kodwa ngokukhawuleza kuphelile.