Namhlanje kweli nqaku siza kuthetha ngetyhefu yomntwana kunye neziyobisi, utywala, ucuba-oko kukuthi, yintoni eyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni womntwana, onokuchaphazela impilo yentsana kuphela, kodwa nayo imeko yengqondo yakhe. Emva kwakho konke, akusiyo imfihlelo leyo, umzekelo, iziyobisi zonyango kunye nabantu abadala kubangela ukuphendula okungaphenduliyo - sinokuthi ntoni ngabantwana abangenasetyenziselwa iziganeko ezinjalo. Makhe siqwalasele iindlela zokuncedisa utyhefu ngezinto eziyingozi kunye nezinto.
Utywala lweziyobisi kubantwana
Uphawu oluphambili kwiimeko ezilolo hlobo liguqulelwe kwimeko yengqondo yengane. Uyakwazi ukuziphatha ngokungafanelekanga kwaye engaqhelekanga, unemivuzo, unelisekile okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uxinezelekile. Olu luphawu lwesimboli kuzo zonke iintlobo zezinto ezidakayo, ikakhulu iimpawu ziyahlukahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela efunyenwe ngayo. Ngokukodwa, phakathi kweempawu eziphazamisayo, umntu unokubona ukuphefumla okuphefumlelweyo, ukulahleka kwengqondo, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwegazi, kunye namaxesha amancinci kunye nokuhlanza kubonakala kwakhona.
Uncedo lokuqala xa kuthengiswa utywala luncike ekubeni bangena njani ngaphakathi. Ukuba umntwana uyabaginya, kubalulekile ukuba usebenze njengokungathi babetyhefu ngamachiza. Oko kukuthi, kunika into yokusela kunye nokukhuthaza ukuhlanza (ukuba ungadlulanga ngaphezu kwesigama seyure), unike i-carbon activated. Ukuba utyhefu lomntwana luqhutyelwa ngokunyusa izinto ezinokuzithemba, ngoko awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na, ngaphandle kokumkhokelela emoyeni omtsha, mhlawumbi kwisitalato. Okanye yenza ubunqamle ekhaya, ukuze umoya uphendululwe. Ewe, ukuba mhlawumbi le nto yayingumjovo, awukwazi ukuncedisa konke, ngoko ukuba imeko yomntwana ibuhlungu, kufuneka ufune ngokukhawuleza uncedo lwezokwelapha. Nangona kunjalo, njengamanye onke, kukho ithuba lokuba yonke into iya kusebenza. Kodwa akudingeki ukuba ubale kuyo.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukwazi ukuba umntwana ophantsi kwefuthe leziyobisi usenokusabela kwisibonelelo osinikela ngokugqithiseleyo, ngokungafanelekanga. Musa ukucaphukisa kuye - uhlala nje kwindawo. Musa ukumbuza imibuzo engacwengekanga, kungcono ukumthabatha ngokukhawuleza kwiingcali.
Utywala utyhefu kumntwana
Unokuxelela njani ukuba umntwana wakho unetyhefu ngotywala? Okokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngevumba emlonyeni - ayikwazi ukudideka nantoni na. Okwesibini, umntwana unokufumana ingxaki yokuziqonda, uziphatha ngendlela encinci kwaye engaqhelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, unelisekile okanye uxinezelekile, unxilongo okanye ulele, unesabelo esingaqhelekanga kwizinto ezenzekayo, mhlawumbi - umntwana unobundlobongela. Ukongezelela, ukhononda ngeentloko, amava okuhlambalaza, uyakhala. Ukuphefumula kuyaba phakathi, kwaye ukuba umntwana ulele-uva ukungahambi okungaqhelekanga kuye. Umsebenzi we-cardiac unokuphazamiseka-ngokukodwa, kukho ukuhla kwegazi, ukuqhuma kwe-pulse kuba kaninzi okanye, ngokuthe ngqo, kaninzi. Olunye ubonakaliso obunobuthi obunxilisayo kumntwana lungaba lukhuni olungenakulawulwa kunye nokungabonakaliyo, ukucoca.
Kukho iingozi ezine eziye zinyuka nolu hlobo lobutyhefu. Okokuqala, isimo esinjalo somntwana sibuhlungu kakhulu. Okwesibini, kukho umngcipheko wokutshatyalaliswa kwamanzi xa umntwana esetratweni ebusika. Okwesithathu, kukho ingozi yokuyeka ukuphefumla. Okwesine, ubuchule bendlela yokuhamba ngeenqwelo zomoya kunokuphazamiseka ngokuhlanza.
Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko?
1) Ukuba umntwana ongenalwazi - ahlale ecaleni lakhe kwaye anikezele ngokubakho umoya ukuze angabandezeli;
2) uhlolisise umntwana - nokuba unobungozi kunye nokulimala;
3) ukuba umntwana uye walala - misela ukulawula rhoqo ukuphefumla kwakhe;
4) igumbi kufuneka libe lomoya omtsha;
5) Ukuba ifestile ebusika - yimbole imfudumala;
6) ukuba umntwana akayi kulahlekelwa nto, ukuba akafuni into esiphuzayo - mnike isiselo esininzi esiphuzayo.
Khumbula ukuba utywala awunakuchaphazela abantwana ngendlela engcono, ngoko ke ukuba umntwana unobundlobongela kwaye akaqinisekanga, musa ukwesaba. Kwaye kungcono ukumthabise kudokotela. Futhi ungakulibali malunga namanyathelo okukhusela okuza kukunceda ungangeni kwiimeko ezinzima. Ukuba unotywala ekhaya - ubafihle phantsi kwesikhiye kunye nenqakrazo apho umntwana engafiki khona. Emva kweeholide ashiye iiglasi kunye notywala engapheliyo etafileni. Umntwana waseRazirat oqulethe utywala, akuyimfuneko.
Ityhefu lomntwana
Ukutshaya yintlanzi yangempela yeminyaka yethu. Ukuba ngaphambili bebhembile, ngokuyininzi amadoda, kwaye bafihla kwiibhalkoni nakwie-porches, kodwa ngoku abafazi (kunye nabangaphezu koko-oomama) baye baxilisa ukutshaya utshaya. Kwaye ukutshaya ngoku kwinto ehamba phambili kungekhona kwindawo ephilileyo emoyeni okanye kude nabantwana, kodwa, umzekelo, ekhitshini okanye endlwini yangasese. Ngoko kuvela ukuba abantwana baphefumla umsi wecuba, okanye nonke benze uyise. Okanye, kwimeko encinane, badla iteksi. Konke oku kuholele ekutyholeni ngetywala.
Imiqondiso yezobutyhefu yile ndlela ilandelayo: umntwana akaphuli, unemvakalelo ephazamisayo. Ukuhlanza kwakhe, kukho ukuhlanza kunye neentloko. Ukuba utyhefu lunzulu ngokwaneleyo, ngoko kukho ukuphazamiseka okukhulu emsebenzini weentliziyo - umzekelo, isigqi siya kuphazamiseka, umntwana uya kuba nokuphefumula okufutshane, ukuxhatshazwa kuya kukwanela.
Unokunceda njani umntwana wakho? Ukuba uphefumula nje, unokukunceda, nje ngokuthabatha umntwana ushushu. Ukuba umntwana uguqula ugwayi, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukudala ukuhlanza ngokukhawuleza. Khumbula ukuba ukuze inetyhefu ithathe inguqu enkulu, umntwana unelungelo lokondla isigamu sesigarethi ukuya kunyaka. Ukuba umntwana omdala - udliwe igrarethi yonke unokukhokelela kwimiphumo engathandekiyo.
Ukuphepha iimeko ezinjalo, sebenzisa amanyathelo okukhusela achazwe ngezantsi. Okokuqala, vumela ukutshaya kwigumbi apho umntwana wakho edlala okanye elele khona kuya kuba ngumnqophiso kuwe - ungenzi umsi wecala kwi-msana encinane kwintsana engenacala. I-ecology yethu kwaye ngoko ingabandakanyeli ukuphuhliswa kwengxaki yomntwana, yodwa yodwa iyanciphisa imeko - ayifanele ukudunyiswa. Okwesibini, iimveliso zecuba kufuneka zilele apho zingenakukwazi ukufumana ukudlala abantwana.