Ubundlobongela kwintsapho bunokuchaphazela njani ulwaphulo-mthetho lwentsha ezayo?

Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthi iinjongo zentsapho zidibaniswa nento encinane kwintsapho yabanye kwaye ibangela iimvakalelo ezintle. Kwaye asinakuze sicinge ukuba kukho ubungqina bombono ochasene ngokupheleleyo.

Kodwa kwenzeka, kunye neyokuqala echaphazela ubudlelwane beentsapho kunye nekamva labo bonke amalungu ale ntsapho kubakho okanye ukungabikho kobundlobongela.

Ubundlobongela basekhaya lukhulu isihloko esikhulu, esiphezulu nesixinzeleleko sokuphikisana nophando. Ngelishwa, ithebhulethi ayizange iqalwe kwintlanzi kunye nokungahlambuluki, ngoko ke abaninzi abafazi, abantwana, abangaphantsi kancinci amadoda, imihla ngemihla kufuneka babe ngamaxhoba ezinyathelo ezinobungqina nezenzo ezingacatshangelwayo kwiintsapho zabo. Kuyavunywa ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo imbangela yobundlobongela kungabikho, okanye ingcamango engaqondakaliyo yemida kunye nemisebenzi yawo onke amalungu entsapho.

Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zobundlobongela: ngokwengqondo, ngokomzimba nangokwezesondo. Amaxhoba angamalungu angenamandla kwintsapho, kwaye abaphangi kunye nabadlwenguli banamandla, bazive bephakamileyo. Ngenxa yoko, ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bajika baba ngamadoda angamaqhankqalazo, kubantwana kunye nabasetyhini, okanye kumfazi kumntwana, kaninzi kunomntu. Kukho neemeko zobundlobongela kunye nobundlobongela ngumntwana ngokuchasene nabazali babo, kodwa oku kudla ngokukwenzeka xa bekhulile komntwana, xa abazali sele bekhulile, kwaye abakwazi ukuzikhusela.

Ukuba wenza isenzo sobundlobongela, ngokukodwa xa senziwa ngumnye wabazali ngokubhekiselele kumlingane wesibini kunye / okanye umntwana, akukho mntu ucinga ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho kwintsapho luchaphazela njani ulwaphulo-mthetho olungakumbi lwabafana.

Ubundlobongela buyinyaniso.

Ukuba uqwalasela i-statistics, amanani angabonwayo, ukunyamekela ukwanda kwinqanaba lobundlobongela, abaninzi banokumangalisa. Ingcinezelo yeso nasiphi na isenzo kwinxalenye yomdlwenguli kukubonakalisa ukungabikho kobuthathaka.

Iingcamango zobundlobongela zivame ukuchazwa njengendlela yokubhubhisa kunye nenjongo engahambisani nemimiselo nemigangatho echazwe ngumntu kunye nomthetho kwaye ihambelana nokuhlalisana kwabantu. Kwakhona, ulwaphulo lubonwa njengesenzo esilimazayo, kwizinto apho kuhlaselwa khona, kunye nomonakalo ngokomzimba, umonakalo kunye nokukhathazeka komzimba. Inqobo yento yobundlobongela basekhaya, kunye nobugwenxa, ithathwa njengento encinci, kwaye ingena kwiingcamango zobugwenxa. Ubonakaliso obuninzi bokukhwabanisa ukungakhathaleli kwabanye, kunye nomnqweno wokubangela ukubandezeleka kunye nentlungu kumntu, kwaye kubangela ukudandatheka nokudakumba.

Xa senza isenzo sobundlobongela, nangaluphi na uhlobo olubonakalayo, umntu oye waba ngumdlali wodla ngokudlula umda wezinto ezivunyelwe, zombini ngemithwalo yoluntu, kunye nemimiselo esekelwe ngumthetho. Ngaloo ndlela, abo abangayivavanyelwa ukuba bavumelekile ukuba babe ngabadlwenguli, kwaye baqhele ukubonisa uluvo lwabo ngoncedo lomzimba, okanye naluphi na uhlobo lobudlova.

Injongo yomdlwenguli kukuseka ukulawula ubuninzi bakhe okanye ixhoba elikhoyo, nangayiphi na indlela.

Thintelo.

Ubuninzi bobundlobongela kwintsapho akusiyo isifo, kodwa kwenzeka ukuba ukuthintela ubundlobongela kubalulekile. Kwi sibini esitshatileyo, apho omnye wabesilisa abakhombisa iimpawu ezithile zokuziphatha kakubi, into yokuqala yokumiselwa yimigaqo ecacileyo, ngakumbi ekujonganeni neemeko zengxabano. Imithetho enjalo kufuneka ibe yinto enyanzelisayo yokusebenza, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo musa ukuvumela ukuba kubonakale ukubonakaliswa kobundlobongela kwinkqubo yokusombulula nayiphi na into.

Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe kwihambo yomlingani kungekhona kuphela kwiintsebenziswano zakhe, kodwa nakuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bomntu. Ekubeni ukuba iqabane okanye iqabane libonisa ngokugqithiseleyo iimpawu zobudlova kwezinye iindawo zobomi bakhe, kungekudala okanye kamva, iindlela ezifanayo zingasetyenziswa ebomini bentsapho. Ngoko ke, kuxhomekeke kwinkimbinkimbi yimeko, kunye nomntu ongekho ngaphandle koluntu, kufuneka uphinde uhlalutye ixabiso, uqikelele amathuba okamva, kwaye unqume ukuba unokuba nalo mntu okanye cha.

Ukuba umntwana uhlupheka.

Into yokuqala abazali kufuneka bayenze ukukhusela umntwana kwiimeko zokubundlobongela kuye kukumxelela malunga nabo. Ungesabi ukuxelela umntwana malunga neemeko ezinokwenzeka ukuba akunakwenzeka ebomini bakhe, kodwa kunjalo. Nangona ubundlobongela kwintsapho, kwaye umdlwenguli uba nguyise, okanye umama-umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba akaphoso, kwaye uyaqonda indlela yokwenza kwiimeko ezinjalo. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuthetha nomntwana kwizihloko ezinjalo kuthetha ukumsongela. Ewe, inyaniso yokwesaba iya kuba khona, kodwa kulo mzekelo, ukwesaba kuya kuba ngumzuzu omhle. Emva koko, ngenxa yokwesaba into kunye nokukwazi ukuziva ingozi, sinesidima sokulondoloza.

Chaza kumntwana ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha nabantu abangaziwayo, hamba nabo, ukuba bayabiza kwindawo ethile, bangazichukumisi. Ukuba umntwana unenkathazo ekunxibelelaneni neqela, ufika ehlatywe, wafunda ukuba bahlekwa okanye bahlekwa usulu - qi niseka ukuba ungenelela. Unokwenza oko ngasese kumntwana. Kodwa kufuneka ufumanise isizathu sokuba wenze yonke imizamo yokuyiqeda, nokuba iphikisana neminye yemigaqo yakho.

Khumbula ukuba impembelelo yobundlobongela, inokumisela isigqibo somntwana, kunye nendlela yokuziphatha kwakhe, ukuba inokwenzeka ukuba ubundlobongela abancinci abukho phantsi.

Ulwaphulaphulo.

Izifundo ezininzi ziqinisekisile ukuba impembelelo embi kubantwana ayinikwe kuphela ngokuthatha inxaxheba, kodwa nangokubonelelwa kogonyamelo. Ngokukodwa ukuba ubundlobongela basekhaya. Ukuqwalaselwa kwezenzo zobundlobongela kubangela ingcamango yomntwana kwinto eqhelekileyo yokunxibelelana nabanye kunye nesisombululo seemeko ezingqubanayo. Yintoni ekuza kubonakala kwikamva, ebuntwaneni - kwiimpawu zomntu owonayo, ebusheni - inkohlakalo.

Ingozi ekhethekileyo ilawulwa ngabantu, kubandakanywa nabantwana, abangabakwiqela elijongene nobungozi. Aba bantu baquka abo babonwa ngobuntwaneni okanye bafumana ubundlobongela, nakweyiphi na imbonakalo yayo, ukuba umntu unesimo somzimba, okanye isifo sengqondo kunye nokungalingani. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ekufikeni kwentsha. Iimpawu ezikhethekileyo zengozi zi: ukusetyenziswa kotywala, iziyobisi, kuxhomekeke kwiqela (inkampani, iqela), ekuqaleni kunye nokuqaliswa kokubandakanyeka komsebenzi wesondo, ubundlobongela emzimbeni, ukubonwa kobundlobongela kwintsapho okanye ukwamkela ukuthatha inxaxheba kuyo - konke oku kuba yizinto ezibangela ukuphuhliswa kobudlova. Ngokuqhelekileyo izinto ezinje ziba ziphambili kwinkqubo yokuthintela ulwaphulo olutsha.