Inyaniso yokuba umfazi uyayithanda indlebe, kunye nomntu onamehlo, uyaziwa kuwo wonke umntu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho amagama 'anokufumana' embhedeni nayiphi na ummeli wesini esomeleleyo. Iimpawu ezilula kunye ne-hackneyed ezifana ne-movie: "Woza, siyakwenza okunje" okanye "Ndikukhumbula kakhulu" - banceda kuphela kumafilimu aseHollywood. Namhlanje, izazi zengqondo ziyazi kakuhle ukuba uluhlobo ngalunye lomlingiswa luya kuphela kumaqela athile amagama ...
Wonke umntu unalo uhlobo lwakhe lwesini - indlela yokufumanisa oko kukumnandisayo, iingcali zibonisa. Bawahlula bonke abantu kwiimboniselo, abaphulaphuli kunye nabaxhamli be-kinesthetics - ngokwemiqathango yeembono ezibaluleke kakhulu kubo. Kukho abantu ababaluleke ngaphezu koko babone ngamehlo abo, kunokuba bakuva. Ukuze "ufumane" umntu onjalo (kunye nendlela, ininzi yabantu), kufuneka ubonise iingubo zangaphantsi ezingcolileyo okanye umfanekiso ongcolileyo. Ewe, ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, kwaye wena, umzekelo, wagqiba ukuwukhanyisa ngefoni yefowuni, kufuneka uthethe ukuze amagama akho akhuphe imifanekiso ebonakalayo phambi kwamehlo akho. Umzekelo: "Ndiya kulala ngombhede wethu, kum - kumatshini amnyama kuphela."
Ukuba okuthandayo kukuphulaphule, ngoko oko akuvayo kubalulekile kuye. Kwimeko efanayo - ukukhohlisa kwifowuni - kufuneka umxelele into enjengokuthi: "Kukho umculo onokuthula, kwaye ndikhumbula umoya wakho wokuphefumla ..."
I-Kinestetik iyayiqonda ihlabathi ngemisipha kunye nesikhumba, izipikili kunye neenwele. Ukhumbula ukuvakalelwa, ukunyakaza, ukuthinta. Ufuna ukuxelela into enje: "Ndiyaphinda ngophula ngaphakathi kweengubo zangaphantsi, ezinwele ezinqabileyo entanyeni yam entanyeni evela kwintlambo yomoya obuthathaka."
Ngubani yena, indoda yakho?
Ukuchonga isiphi isithuthi sokujonga ngunkokeli wothandwa wakho, yintoni uhlobo lwakhe lwesondo, uthetha naye malunga nendlela ohamba ngayo ukuba niyakhumbula. Yaye ziqaphele ukuba yiyiphi amagama achaza ngayo izinto ezibonakalayo. Ingaba uthetha ngemifanekiso yendalo (ebonakalayo), okanye malunga nokucula iingonyama (ngokuvakalayo), okanye uyakhumbula indlela ohamba ngayo, kwaye ubambe isandla sakho (ububele). Ngoko unokufumana oko kukumkholisayo.
Lahla ihange
Amanye amagama okanye iintshukumo zingaba yintombi yakho ethandekayo okuthiwa "ihange". Emva koko kuya kukwanela ukuthetha eli gama, ukufezekisa isenzo, ukuvelisa nayiphi na inkcukacha yimeko, indlela umnqweno wakhe uya kuvusa ngayo. Mhlawumbi, xa eqala ukuvuma kuwe ngothando, kwakukho iphunga lama-lilacs esanda kutyhutyha, kwaye ukuvumba okutsha kwakunaphakade "kubambelela" engqondweni yakhe ngamava anothando kakhulu. Okanye umhlobo wakho uhlala evuyiswa gqitha xa uthetha amazwi athethekileyo kuye - abo babenomthelela onamandla kuye. Kwaye ngoku, ngokukhawuleza xa eva, akakwazi nje ukuzikhusela.
Kwimeko ethile (kulo mzekelo - umnqamlezo womkhono kunye negama elithile), umntu ngokukhawuleza unikezela umphumo wokugqibela, lowo aqheleke kuwo.
Abantu abaninzi abakhange bakrokre ukuba banento ethi "ihange", de ibe yanyamalala. Ngokomzekelo, elinye ibhinqa livuswe ngokukhawuleza xa umyeni wakhe wambetha ngokukhawuleza endlebeni, ngelixa esemva kwakhe. Kodwa ukusuka kwinqanaba elithile wayeka, kwaye sele sele eqala ukukhathazeka ngesihloko esithi: "andithandi." Emva kokuphelelwa inyanga, wathi kuye: "Awuyi kuthetha nam amazwi amathenda kum." Umyeni wam wamangaliswa waza wamkhumbuza ukuba ngoku, nje ngezolo ... Ewe, ndathi, kodwa akukho mphumo. Kwaye ke kuphela loo mbhangqwana inokufumanisa ukuba umyeni wayicoca nje intshebe yakhe, kwaye iinwele azizange zikhange isikhumba esikhathekayo entanyeni yomfazi. I-anchor, eyakhawuleza imvusa loo ntokazi, isuswe. Kwafuneka ndikhule indoda kwakhona ebusweni kwaye ndathetha kathathu amagama amathenda - ukubuyisela umphumo.
Icebiso: jonga ngokugqithiseleyo indlela iqabane lakho elichaphazela ngayo amagama athile kunye neemeko. Mhlawumbi, elinye igama okanye intetho, ukuphefumula okanye isenzo kuye kunomthi onamandla, owenza ngeendlela ezininzi kuncedisa ekuphunyezweni kwe-orgasm.
Phrinta ngonaphakade
Ngoko ke, bonke abantu baxhomekeke ekubeni "banamathela" kungakhathaliseki uhlobo lwabo lwesini - indlela yokufumanisa oko kukhangayo, sele uyayazi. Ngoku malunga nendlela 'yokulungisa' umphumo oyifunayo. I-Anchor inokubonakala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye iyakwazi "ukuhanjiswa" ngokukodwa. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka wenze izinto eziliqela:
• khumbula oko kanye indoda yakho ikhangele kakhulu kuwe;
• yenze le meko okanye imeko;
• khetha amagama okanye izinto ezakhayo, iziqholo okanye imifanekiso ebonakalayo eya kumisa;
• Yenza uthando ukuze i-anchor yakho ekhethiweyo iwele phantsi kwintlanzi eqaqambileyo yamava akhe. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantu bayayithanda xa baqala izipikili zabo ngasemva. Zama ngethuba elithile lomzwelo wezesondo zakho, unamathele emagqabini akhe emva kwakhe uze uthi amanye amagama. Nangona awona awona mandla. Kodwa, ke, akusikho "ifosholo", kodwa into enjenge "darling".
• Phinda ukuphindaphinda amaxesha amaninzi ukuze wenze "ingcaciso" (igama lesiNgesi elithi "imprinting") kwisigxina sakhe.
Emva koko ungasebenzisa le ngcambu kwindlela yakho yobomi bemihla ngemihla. "Mthandi, makhe siye kumama ngeveki," - kunye nesilumko ngekhati - i-stud. Yaye le yileli gama lendlebe yakho. Ukhumbula ngokukhawuleza ukuvakalelwa ngesondo, kwaye amathuba okuvuma ukuya kumama wakho ekutyelele uya kuba nokuningi.
Zama ukungabi nama-anchors angalunganga. Naluphi na ukuhlambalaza okanye ukungenwa kwamatyala kunokuba lula. Kwaye ukugxotha nayiphi na umnqweno kungekhona nje ukulala ndawonye, kodwa nokuhlala kunye kunye.
Ikhefu leNsimbi
Indoda enothando ikholelwa ngokungahambelani, njengomntwana kamama. Yaye onke amagama akho athatha ngokoqobo. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba kungekhona kwipropati enye yobume besifazane. Ngokomzekelo, ujikeleza phambi kwesibuko uze uthi: "Oo, ndandiba nantoni na!" Ulindele ukuba intanda ethandekayo iya kuqala okanye ingancinci: "Hayi, ndiya kukuthanda kunye nobomi bam bonke." Utsho okukuqala ngethuba, okwesibini, ke okwesithathu. Sifumana "ukumncenga" ukuze anconywe, kwaye ... uqala ukuthatha ilizwi lethu kulo. Ngoko nangona unesisindo esingu-46 kg ubukhulu obude obuyi-176 centimeters, uya kuqalisa ukucinga ukuba "unqatha" ukuba uyaphinda njalo.
Iphulo: ngenxa yobunzima kunye nobudala, imilo kunye nebala, khalaza kuphela kubahlobo okanye kumama. Othandayo kufuneka angenise iimpazamo zakhe njengezinto ezintle ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, "Ndine-esile ebomvu," kungekhona "amaqhosha enqabileyo." Kwaye "umfazi kufuneka abe ngumfanekiso" xa ufumanisa nzima ukufumana ubunzima. "Emehlweni am ukuhlala ubulumko" - xa ukhangeka ukukhalaza malunga nemibimbi ejikeleze amehlo. Kuzo zonke iintsilelo, umntu unokufumana izibonelelo kwaye azilethe ngendlela efanelekileyo.